Talking to a girl and just found she drank once before ?

[Ikranay]

I don't think it is that common. I look the part of the awkward religious somali and never been approached by a ciyaal suuq. Thank god

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Saying that these two kind of opposites compliment each other is wild. I'm curious as to how they compliment each other? lol

Where I’m from it’s very common especially in my age group. He’s seen the worst of women and appreciates that she’s kind, down to earth, and innocent. She’s quiet and appreciates that he’s more outgoing and takes the lead on things. He’ll also helps her get out of her confront zone. It’s funny but these marriages tend to last. Miskeen-miskeen and crazy-crazy don’t really work out from what I’ve seen. Miskeen-Miskeen works when they met when they were younger and grew together.

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[onthecloud]

I know dozens of couples like this. Lowkey I can see myself going down that root. 90% of the guys that have been interested in me were wayward lol for the life of me I couldn’t get it. But from our side those guys just appreciate us for who we are and they have lower expectations. But it only works if he’s changed though. I would never go near any guy that hasn’t stopped drinking for at least 5 years.

You mean you're interested in Caynaanshe, the Somali Chad?

 

[Ikranay]

You mean you're interested in Caynaanshe, the Somali Chad?

Who’s that lol and no I’m going where I’m wanted. The miskeen tech guys aren’t feeling me unfortunately

 

[Audrey Hepburn]

Who’s that lol and no I’m going where I’m wanted. The miskeen tech guys aren’t feeling me unfortunately

Abaayo, make the first move. In fact, miskeen guys are just so cute. Especially when they're absolute gentlemen, I want to pounce on them.

 

[Ikranay]

Abaayo, make the first move. In fact, miskeen guys are just so cute. Especially when they're gentlemen, I want to pounce on them.



*Some people say I'm an unintentional flirt.

I love miskeen Somali guys lol I always did but they are so difficult. I’m too cowardly to approach a guy and I appreciate the simplicity of ex hooligans.

 

[onthecloud]

Who’s that lol and no I’m going where I’m wanted. The miskeen tech guys aren’t feeling me unfortunately

You seem to have endless options and you still haven't chosen someone good enough for you. Picky.

 

[Dualke]

Abaayo, make the first move. In fact, miskeen guys are just so cute. Especially when they're absolute gentlemen, I want to pounce on them.

Damn I didn't know guys being miskeen was seen as attractive to some girls
I remember I was texting this one xalimo a couple months ago, she called me sheltered in a nice way and I took it as an insult

 

[Ikranay]

You seem to have endless options and you still haven't chosen someone good enough for you. Picky.

My endless options were hood rats and morbidly obese guys lol and even that was a very short list of men. An ex hood rat is my lowest standard. Also I’m not always rejecting guys sometimes I’ve been rejected too. In the past I would outright reject men who were caught up in that lifestyle and for good reason (that’s stuff catches up with you). But now if he’s repented and it’s deep in his past then I’d over look it.

good miskeen somali guys were never really into me like that or they didn’t show it but I’m not going to be hung up on that anymore.

 

[Audrey Hepburn]

Damn I didn't know guys being miskeen was seen as attractive to some girls
I remember I was texting this one xalimo a couple months ago, she called me sheltered in a nice way and I took it as an insult

It activates the hunting instincts I didn't know I had.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

You know that’s interesting because I genuinely find awkward religious Somali girls really cute. Like my problematic cousin is marrying one and she’s this really shy dark skin Somali girl and I don’t want to sound mean but I felt like I deserved to marry her more than he did. Whatever happens if their marriage goes wrong I’m going to marry her next. There’s already a queue forming of farax in waiting for when that Abdi steps out of line

You really think like this about your own cousin loool your one snake ass nigga man

 

[Ikranay]

Damn I didn't know guys being miskeen was seen as attractive to some girls
I remember I was texting this one xalimo a couple months ago, she called me sheltered in a nice way and I took it as an insult

Some of us like peaceful easy going guys especially if we're quiet ourselves. But sometimes people take being quiet or nervous as being weird or boring?

 

[Audrey Hepburn]

Some of us like peaceful easy going guys especially if we're quiet ourselves. But sometimes people take being quiet or nervous as being weird or boring?

I mean, introverts tend to be smarter. So......

You can also be interesting and still prefer to spend time with family and friends only.

It usually leaves me more time for my hobbies and etc.

 

[Dualke]

Some of us like peaceful easy going guys especially if we're quiet ourselves. But sometimes people take being quiet or nervous as being weird or boring?

Wouldn't introverted girls want guys that contrast them (i.e assertive and socially experienced) since they themselves lack that? I've never seen a relationship where both parties were timid and introverted

 

[Audrey Hepburn]

Wouldn't introverted girls want guys that contrast them (i.e assertive and socially experienced) since they themselves lack that? I've never seen a relationship where both parties were timid and introverted

You can be assertive and like and be introverted as well. I have no problem standing up for myself.

 

[Dualke]

You can be assertive and like and be introverted as well. I have no problem standing up for myself.

Yeah assertive is a bad word to use here I mean moreso general lack of social experience/charisma ig

 

[Zo206]

@Yaraye leave ma nigga @Geeljire lotus alone he aint do nun he aint no ciyaal suuq n he also got a clean sheet

 

[Audrey Hepburn]

Yeah assertive is a bad word to use here I mean moreso *general lack of social experience/charisma ig

It depends on what your looking for, specifically. *Generally, I don't care about this too much as you can't assume much from someone's lack of extroversion/introversion and it doesn't mean much to me as well. I enjoy a laid back lifestyle with a husband and children, where we see family, have dinner parties with friends (mostly other couples), go to masjid together at least once a week, etc. Not to sound self-absorbed (relaying my high school years here, mind you), I had many opportunities to become well-known, popular, you get the gist. My problem was, I never took much interest and thus, nothing ever bore fruit. I can be charismatic when I need or want to, it's never been a problem, really. I'd prefer someone who's more of a ambivert, but leans towards introversion (similarly to me).

My ramblings aren't too egotistical for your taste, eh?

 

[Odious Delirium]

Go back to watching corn you imbecile. Don’t bully me because id rather dream up romcoms than watch corn and resent xalimos

Dream up romcoms
Authobillah every single post of yours on this thread has been absolutely wild and your story ain't adding up.

What happened to the xalimo you were going to marry in the first place that you made a thread about and why are you all of a sudden creating some whatpad type situation with your cousins wife

You may call yourself a man but you defo don't act like one.

What you say doesn’t add up you sound like one of those "nice" guy male feminist which is what women who larp as men tend to sound like or just male feminists

anyways have you married a xalimo no one typically/traditionally wanted yet?

 

[Yaraye]

@Yaraye leave ma nigga @Geeljire lotus alone he aint do nun he aint no ciyaal suuq n he also got a clean sheet

no he ain't got a clean sheet and should stop expecting the woman to have a clean sheet. The only man who should expect a clean sheet woman is if he got a clean sheet himself (vice versa). Why you acting like i'm bullying the nigga? I just stating the facts.

 

[Zo206]

no he ain't got a clean sheet and should stop expecting the woman to have a clean sheet. The only man who should expect a clean sheet woman is if he got a clean sheet himself (vice versa). Why you acting like i'm bullying the nigga? I just stating the facts.

Wut I meant by clean sheet is criminal record n dude haz never been arrested b4 in his life from his early teens till now