Student of Macalin Xaliye tells Halimo pay for half her dinner

[J-Rasta]

Is this the man that rants out danyeer all the time. Nah, nah he must be stopped.He is misleading and misguiding the masses from left and right. You do realise that
stirring controversies get you the right clicks. He's making a killing and people are too dumb to realise that. As for his views it's contradicting, he projects his bad experiences of women to others. Unfortunately some youth picture him as a figure, not against him but he isn't someone you'd looked upto for content reliability. Again Somalis get drawn to the dramas and ramblings I mean the wider public should know he is doing this for the sake I'm not even going to mention it.

 

[asveros]

Men of old have created these rules and now we have financially insecure modern men having issues with it, but at the same time they have issues with independent career women who have no issues with going half.

nobody has issues with career women, most people in the west split bills. youre talking about religious guys who have a problem with these women because of whatever insecurity. 99% of men in the real world would be incredibly happy to split these high af living costs w a woman.

 

[Angelina]

nobody has issues with career women, most people in the west split bills. youre talking about religious guys who have a problem with these women because of whatever insecurity. 99% of men in the real world would be incredibly happy to split these high af living costs w a woman.

A lot of men want to split bills with women, yet want these women to behave like women who have husbands providing for them. They still want a woman who does all the domestic duties and has enough time to beautify herself and behave feminine despite working 10 hrs a day.

That is the crux of the issue and then you have these sexist redpill men who say that men don't care about a woman's education level or career and money yet at the same time complaining about women expecting them to pay.

A lot of men seem to be devoid of common sense when it comes to this. They want all the perks that comes with kept women who are provided for, but none of the responsibilities that come with it.

Also, i've added a bit more to the previous post and I'd love to get your opinion. Thanks.

 

[TekNiKo]

I'm 100% a feminist, but I'm also aware that a man can never equally contribute to the relationship.

The day men are able to get pregnant and put their lives at risk to have a child is the day I will pay half.

Hahha This is the mentality I am talking about its straight hypocrisy you are using uterus as an excuse but who even reached point of pregnancy? We are talking about a first date lol!

Women in Africa take advantage of men as society is unstable and to make it worse its sexist. Women don't even have the privileges to provide for themselves, to be honest even the men struggle.

Secondly, men have created a culture that women should be dependent on men, yet complain if a woman is dependent. What do you lot want walal? At this point this is simply dhulmi. You hate us career women who don't need you and now you vilify dependent women?

Just goes to show that some men like Xaliye are low quality men who simply have issues with all types of women. He preaches traditionalism such as being obedient and dependent, but wants these women to pay up like men?

He simply wants all the benefits with non of the responsibilities. That mentality is terrible for society.

I agree with you that men enable this leechijg culture and I also agree with you that men and women are not the same. But we are not talking about pregnancy nor have we even reached that stage. If a Halimo pays 50/50 for her first date is it a crime? She should oay up since shes an empowered women right? Isnt it demeaning for a man to pay meaning she is lesser?

 

[asveros]

Bit in bold. Shouldn't that mean women shouldn't ever pay according to you? Why would a woman bother giving a man a chance if he doesn’t even find her attractive?

basically act how you look. if youre worth being spoilt like that then you'll easily find a wealthy man. models get different treatment to average women for a reason. becky will probably have to split bills with james although he finds her attractive they live somewhere expensive. but stacy doesn't have to worry about any type of bills because her looks gives her an easy pass in life.


that being said i'd be open to paying bills even if shes a career woman. sometimes its easy to say these things online like you gotta split/she can't not pay etc. but love can make you do things you normally wouldn't.

A lot of men want to split bills with women, yet want these women to behave like women who have husbands providing for them. That is the crux of the issue and then you have these sexist redpill men who say that men don't care about a woman's education level or career and money yet at the same time complaining about women expecting them to pay.

A lot of men seem to be devoid of common sense when it comes to this. They want all the perks that comes with kept women who are provided for, but non of the responsibilities that come with it.

Also, i've added a bit more to the previous post and I'd love to get your opinion. Thanks.

I see what youre saying. honestly its just those guys have some sorta dominance issue. they think career women are all dominant, fierce women who won't let the man do his thing. i doubt they realise average woman walking down the street or their miskeen school teachers are considered career women. but you can't blame women for not acting like a domestic one if you half things. she might have less respect if so, so be it.

a lot guys want someone of similar education/career. whoever says they'd pick a highschool dropout over a college educated chick is lying or sees the dropout as easy to manipulate.
theres a reason lowest divorce rate are couples that are both college educated.

 

[Angelina]

Hahha This is the mentality I am talking about its straight hypocrisy you are using uterus as an excuse but who even reached point of pregnancy? We are talking about a first date lol!


I agree with you that men enable this leechijg culture and I also agree with you that men and women are not the same. But we are not talking about pregnancy nor have we even reached that stage. If a Halimo pays 50/50 for her first date is it a crime? She should oay up since shes an empowered women right? Isnt it demeaning for a man to pay meaning she is lesser?

How can you expect a Xalimo living in Xamar to cough up for a 1st date? Marriage for them is about a man looking after and providing for them. Men back home need to stop deluding themselves. You live in a society with very limited opportunities for women. You live in a society where a little 16 year old is marrying a 45 yr old so that she can simply be looked after. Look at your surroundings saxib. Its wrong for men to be used this way, but that is what happens in low socio-economic societies filled with sexism and lack of opportunities.

The sad reality is that for all of those men's complaints deep down they know that is the only way they're able to get such young and beautiful wives. That is the only way they can engage in polygamy. That is the only way some of them marry and divorce women like they're shoes they can throw away. The issue is so much deeper than women paying or men feeling used as in the long run, women are the real victims.

 

[Angelina]

basically act how you look. if youre worth being spoilt like that then you'll easily find a wealthy man. models get different treatment to average women for a reason. becky will probably have to split bills with james although he finds her attractive they live somewhere expensive. but stacy doesn't have to worry about any type of bills because her looks gives her an easy pass in life.


that being said i'd be open to paying bills even if shes a career woman. sometimes its easy to say these things online like you gotta split/she can't not pay etc. but love can make you do things you normally wouldn't.

I see what youre saying. honestly its just those guys have some sorta dominance issue. they think career women are all dominant, fierce women who won't let the man do his thing. i doubt they realise average woman walking down the street or their miskeen school teachers are considered career women. but you can't blame women for not acting like a domestic one if you half things. she might have less respect if so, so be it.

a lot guys want someone of similar education/career. whoever says they'd pick a highschool dropout over a college educated chick is lying or sees the dropout as easy to manipulate.
theres a reason lowest divorce rate are couples that are both college educated.

Beauty is subjective. I've seen women many of us deem as unattractive be spoilt by their partners as their husband finds them beautiful. Why should a woman give a man a chance if he doesn't even find her attractive enough to spoil?

A lot of is mindset and how you carry yourself. I've seen gorgeous women by societies standards as well be treated by men as as worthless as she simply allowed it.

 

[TekNiKo]

How can you expect a Xalimo living in Xamar to cough up for a 1st date? Marriage for them is about a man looking after and providing for them. Men back home need to stop deluding themselves. You live in a society with very limited opportunities for women. You live in a society where a little 16 year old is marrying a 45 yr old so that she can simply be looked after. Look at your surroundings saxib. Its wrong for men to be used this way, but that is what happens in low socio-economic societies filled with sexism and lack of opportunities.

The sad reality is that for all of those men's complaints deep down they know that is the only way they're able to get such young and beautiful wives. That is the only way they can engage in polygamy. That is the only way some of them marry and divorce women like they're shoes they can throw away. The issue is so much deeper than women paying or men feeling used as in the long run, women are the real victims.

Isnt poor young man even more disenfranchised? Forget about diaspora men who snatch up all the girls imagine you were an unemployed single Faarax who never left Somalia and is also as equally disenfranchised as his Halimo counterpart.

He cannot afford a fancy restauraunt and asks his Halimo date to pay half is this not reasonable? Since they are both poor, heck the lady has a better chance of success since she can marry a wealthy man with little effort.

 

[asveros]

Beauty is subjective. I've seen women many of us deem as unattractive be spoilt by their partners as their husband finds them beautiful. Why should a woman give a man a chance if she doesn't even find her attractive enough to spoil?

A lot of is mindset and how you carry yourself. I've seen gorgeous women by societies standards as well be treated by men as as worthless as she simply allowed it.

fair enough. that saying wasn't meant to be taken literally. ik a lot of fds chicks like her kind tend to have this stuckup attitude while being nothing special. sure theres guys out there that might see something in her, but youre narrowing your pool by having this hateful vibe around you.

anyway i just think most of the stuff you see comes from a very small number of guys. nobody minds independant women. the ones who talk about them as spawn of devil and they're not wife material are just incels who want to control weak women.

 

[Abdisamad]

I'm 100% a feminist, but I'm also aware that a man can never equally contribute to the relationship.

The day men are able to get pregnant and put their lives at risk to have a child is the day I will pay half.

 

[Mr.Humphrey]

Either follow Islam and submit to your man and let him pay for you or leave the religion and embrace feminism and pay 50/50 you can't have both. You want muslim men to act like liberal non-muslim men but it won't happen.

A lot of women also need to stop being selfish and admit most women don't want equality and are fine using men even though they have their own resources, we all know if a war breaks out you won't ask to be sent to the frontlines.

Femcels are just as much of an issue as Incels and im tired of the gender wars between the straights. To think most of you call the gay community dysfunctional yet we don't fight about damn bills.

 

[Angelina]

Either follow Islam and submit to your man and let him pay for you or leave the religion and embrace feminism and pay 50/50 you can't have both. You want muslim men to act like liberal non-muslim men but it won't happen.

A lot of women also need to stop being selfish and admit most women don't want equality and are fine using men even though they have their own resources, we all know if a war breaks out you won't ask to be sent to the frontlines.

Femcels are just as much of an issue as Incels and im tired of the gender wars between the straights. To think most of you call the gay community dysfunctional yet we don't fight about damn bills.

Since you're gay it seems, this isn't a conversation for you.

Women wanting to be provided for isn't selfish, its biological. We go through things in a relationship such as bringing kids into this world that makes us dependent at times which is why provision is a need. Feminism or not, men and women aren't the same.

 

[Mr.Humphrey]

Since you're gay it seems, this isn't a conversation for you.

Women wanting to be provided for isn't selfish, its biological. We go through things in a relationship such as bringing kids into this world that makes us dependent at times which is why provision is a need. Feminism or not, men and women aren't the same.

So if its biological are you going to admit men are biologically stronger and women are dependant on men's protection 100% of the time not just when they are pregnant. We all know what happens during war, men are killed and the women are captured and assimilated.

Spare me your feminist hypocracy, it is selfish to have things like affirmative action that mostly benefits women in getting well paid jobs but then also turn around and say they shouldn't split the bills because a man should provide... Not all women give birth and if a man who is sick can provide for himself without all the benefits pregnant women get, a woman in a relationship can cope just fine. To say she needs extra help proves men and women aren't equal and that feminism is a destructive ideology.

There is maternity leave for women and if you don't have a man you get a cheque from the government and priority for social housing so lets not act like pregnancy isn't covered by the state already. Why should a straight male provide everything when the woman can just wake up one day kick him out get a court to ban him seeing his kids and claim all his future earnings under feminism? Is that equality? Most men are waking up to this feminist hypocracy and are moving accordingly.

Also just like a typical feminist who doesn't like their view being challenged you try to silence me, I have every right to talk about this as I had to suffer being raised by a male hating mother and i've seen how western feminism and radical Islam is destroying Somali cultural traditions. Why is there more self hating Somali women than men? We all know why, they have been brainwashed by feminism into believing somali culture is anti women while Islam is the problem in most cases.

 

[MoSe]

Macalin Xaliye preaching is working, only simps would pay for the date we must pay 50/50

bruh why would he date her then? bro this guy is speaking nonsense

 

[Enter]

Somalis are obsessed with bad shit. I'm starting to think it's genetic.

I can't believe this nigga is blowing up in Somalia.

 

[Unbothered]

Uff cheap man

 

[Man with a garuun]

Ladies please take note, this is how the danyeers weed themselves out of the dating pool.

If a man tells you to split 50/50 thank god he has shown his true colors to you in the beginning and pay that money then proceed to block him.

Remember, these incels need us more than we need them. Look how fixated they are on controlling women.

I once dated a cadaan woman. If I pay one day, she used to pay next day or used to split the bill. She liked that she came to my apartment or her house and we cooked. She has never been burden on me financially.

Now, do you really expect men of other cultures to cover all of your expenses? That is just wishful thinking. Be happy if you marry a Somali man, as he would most likely cover the expenses without counting on yours.

Lastly, nobody needs you. If you think the grass is greener the other side, go for it.

 

[MoSe]

Guys and women, just learn from these people. if YOU are pursuing a COMMITED RELATIONSHIP, make sure you know who the person is. Get background information on the person and ask family members or their friends about how the individual is. This way, you know if the person is good for u or not.
This is why a good stable family is needed. A family that are always together and support eachother. A family who understand each other. but nowadays we have soo much chaos and misunderstanding within every household that no one goes to their family for help anymore. ITs always us searching for a person solo, doing it how we want to do it and never works out.

 

[TekNiKo]

So if its biological are you going to admit men are biologically stronger and women are dependant on men's protection 100% of the time not just when they are pregnant. We all know what happens during war, men are killed and the women are captured and assimilated.

Spare me your feminist hypocracy, it is selfish to have things like affirmative action that mostly benefits women in getting well paid jobs but then also turn around and say they shouldn't split the bills because a man should provide... Not all women give birth and if a man who is sick can provide for himself without all the benefits pregnant women get, a woman in a relationship can cope just fine. To say she needs extra help proves men and women aren't equal and that feminism is a destructive ideology.

There is maternity leave for women and if you don't have a man you get a cheque from the government and priority for social housing so lets not act like pregnancy isn't covered by the state already. Why should a straight male provide everything when the woman can just wake up one day kick him out get a court to ban him seeing his kids and claim all his future earnings under feminism? Is that equality? Most men are waking up to this feminist hypocracy and are moving accordingly.

Also just like a typical feminist who doesn't like their view being challenged you try to silence me, I have every right to talk about this as I had to suffer being raised by a male hating mother and i've seen how western feminism and radical Islam is destroying Somali cultural traditions. Why is there more self hating Somali women than men? We all know why, they have been brainwashed by feminism into believing somali culture is anti women while Islam is the problem in most cases.

You hit the nail on the head, I doubt @Angelina can counter your points, especially male hating mother. It seems like many of Faaraxs have gone through this trauma

 

[Man with a garuun]

Beauty is subjective. I've seen women many of us deem as unattractive be spoilt by their partners as their husband finds them beautiful. Why should a woman give a man a chance if he doesn't even find her attractive enough to spoil?

A lot of is mindset and how you carry yourself. I've seen gorgeous women by societies standards as well be treated by men as as worthless as she simply allowed it.

The last I know you were married to a non-Somali man. Not sure why you're over-stressing how Somali guys should be like when you aren't married to one.