Stopping a marriage due to qabilyaad

[LaFlame]

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TL:DR - My cousins, uncles, and my dad sabotaged my brother's engangement, because the women was from the .5

Would you disallow your son/daughter being married to someone from the .5?

 

[Lostbox]

Personally, I think it's best to keep a distance from your backwards family.

 

[LaFlame]

Personally, I think it's best to keep a distance from your backwards family.

Family is family sxb. You can't replace them, nor oust them completely from your life. I posted this story, because I was curious. Would your family allow you to marry a "langaab"?

 

[Lostbox]

Family is family sxb. You can't replace them, nor oust them completely from your life. I posted this story, because I was curious. Would your family allow you to marry a "langaab"?

My family is more liberal and secular side of things. They don't care about tribes more how successful the individual or the family they come from is.

 

[LaFlame]

My family is more liberal and secular side of things. They don't care about tribes more how successful the individual or the family they come from is.

Showing the way, then

 

[Lostbox]

Showing the way, then

This shit is why we are still behind everyone. The tribes have no influence outside of Somalia and the people that still believe in this old ways are all in poverty, live in ghetto and send all the money to Somalia while living like shit.

 

[LaFlame]

This shit is why we are still behind everyone. The tribes have no influence outside of Somalia and the people that still believe in this old ways are all in poverty, live in ghetto and send all the money to Somalia while living like shit.

It's a sad situation, still. Qabil is useless outside of somalia

 

[Degmada waaberi]

It's a sad situation, still. Qabil is useless outside of somalia

Qabiil isn't useless anywhere if one were to understand why Allah (swt) made us into qabiils

O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.

If only we loved the Diin of Allah (swt) like we love qabiil than we wouldn't need to flee our country