Sspotters, come talk sense into me.

[Hodan from HR]

You’re having a moment of weakness not because you’re weak but because you’re human.

You have all the answers to your questions, and whatever that needs doing you got it cause you a big girl.

At this very moment you’re probably exhausted, depleted of energy and in need of emotional recharge, so here it goes.

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You are right walaal.
I have been pushing myself nonstop for the past year and taking everything like a champ without complaining. I dont need a therapist. What I really need is a break..

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[Taij4an]

Too vague

 

[Mercury]

The way I see it your in the process right now the process of becoming what Allah wants you to be every difficult moment youre going through is preparing you for what you asked Allah

 

[Hodan from HR]

The way I see it your in the process right now the process of becoming what Allah wants you to be every difficult moment youre going through is preparing you for what you asked Allah

So true walaal. I know Allah's plan is better than my dreams. It is just that when I think this is my last trial and my ease will come after this hardship, a new obstacle arises. I know it will end someday and I'll emerge a better person. Still, right now I am overwhelmed and I dont feel like I belong. Making a thread is my way of trying to not give in to my dark thoughts

 

[Taij4an]

So true walaal.
I know Allah's plan is better than my dreams. It is just that when I think this is the last trial and my ease will come after this hardship, a new obstacle arises. I know it will end some day and I'll emerge a better person. Still, right now I am overwhelmed and I dont feel like I belong anywhere. Making a thread is my way of trying to not give in to my dark thoughts..

Everything must get worse before it gets better, you will be tested to the point where u cannot take it anymore, before relief happens, that is the sunnah of Allah.
U just have pull the picture away from you, your looking too close to the screen you can't make out what's actually there, once u step back you will be able to see how the entire picture pieces together.
Don't allow yourself to be overcome with hastiness or despair, this is ignorance, because if you knew what the outcome of the pain was you would want to go through more pain because of the sweetness of relief.

 

[Kane]

You are right walaal.
I have been pushing myself nonstop for the past year and taking everything like a champ without complaining. I dont need a therapist. What I really need is a break..

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[repo]

I'm down bad.
Starting to turn to old bad habits to cope. Any advice will do..

Lean on me.

 

[truenature]

Keep going sis! Trust me when I say this, we are all dealing with struggles in life. It’s so easy to make yourself believe that everyone has their life together. I find myself doing that everyday inshallah it’s something I’m trying to stop doing. Don’t forget your prayers and duas! Always have good intentions and be patient! Im praying for you.

 

[Laagite]

I'm down bad.
Starting to turn to old bad habits to cope. Any advice will do..

Old habits die hard, take it in the literal sense. If you can't break away from them try to limit them as much as you can eventually those bad habits will become minor enough to not have an impact and you'll stop turning to them.

 

[Forgiveness]

What are the bad habits @Hodan from HR

 

[Prince of HS]

Stay outside as long as you can and only come home when it’s time to sleep so you can get over it quickly

the more you stay home the more you think about your issues

That’s the best way. I was never depressed in life Alxamdullilah Laakin whenever I was at my lowest is when I was at home doing nothing. It just gives you more time to overthink. It’s best to just spend time outside and be busy so you don’t have time to do so

 

[Keep it a boqol]

If you feel guilt that’s a sign of iman. Keep praying snd ask allow for forgiveness and to guide you to the right path keep asking him to take that desire away to remove the bad habit.

 

[Prince of HS]

I really hope Allah swt helps you fight through this and you come out stronger inshallah. I pray for you @Hodan from HR. My advice might be one you heard a million times Laakin I’d say get really closer with Allah swt and your deen and also try limit social media use as well. Once I stopped using social media regularly I could tell huge difference in my life. And confide in family and I hope you understand your not alone in this tough journey of yours

 

[Oday-yar]

The only way to get rid of bad habits is to replace them with good habits. Cutting out a habit cold turkey never works because the brain is hardwired to continue with habit that's been going on for a while. Whatever it is, work on it, ask Allah to help you. Never lose hope.

Everyone's got skeletons in their closet. Find some comfort in that.

 

[KaiMarvin]

I lost my job was homeless for 3 months in the Canadian winter slept under hell damned bridge .

Kept applying to jobs finally got one the company allowed me to sleep in the office made some money got a condo , quit that job got a new one .

I say that to say this I never got scared never went to family for help just kept grinding NEVER FORGET ALLAH IS WITH YOU even in death so why fear anything or make anything get you down .

Whatever the problem is you will make it through and if not we'll you got God in the grave and on the judgement

JUST PRAY and work on a solution to the problem .

damn nigga

 

[NinWero]

I'm down bad.
Starting to turn to old bad habits to cope. Any advice will do..

What you need is a break, and the best place to go is Africa.

The reason I say that is it puts everything in perspective, you see things that shock, make you sad or excite you.