someone help a muslimah out A.S.A.P

[Qeelbax]

Bro, we are in 2023, the harassment statistics exceed hundreds of thousands, and you telling her to file a report with the authorities in a western country? Trust only your fists and weapons, this is the reality of the West.

Sis. Make whoever your cousin is, make this bastard harasser regret the day he laid eyes on you. Honor and chastity are more precious than ignoring them for study or fear of government.

What does chastity have to do with this?

 

[Odious Delirium]

At my school if someone got into a fight they would immediately get OSS and deal with the county juvenile system. It would be on their (private) criminal record until it was expunged when they turned 18. If they got into more than three fights it would lead to a semester out of school

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[Qeelbax]

Negro behavior, am I the only one that went to school where nobody fought?

I’ve never witnessed a school fight. Are these guys from the ghetto?

 

[Riya.]

Iremember when an Indian boy tried to pull my hijab in secondary and I ended up throwing a chair in his face. Proud of myself fr. He shouldn’t bother you again tbh you are both grown and likely he’s changed. Don’t let him get to you and take you away from all your hard work.

 

[Qeelbax]

I understand why you still feel uncomfortable but I think you’ll be fine. The people on here saying he should be beat up for doing something ignorant when he was a kid are actual mooryans.

Keep your distance if you want but switching schools is unnecessary. I’ve seen hijabs being pulled off by boys in elementary school too. I was never kissed by a boy but I was sitting down on the ground one day when a kid came up to me and grabbed my feet and started dragging me around the playground. I hate to say it but these absurd encounters seem to be the norm for that age range.

I had another weird encounter but I don’t want to share it. It still traumatizes me.

 

[Dualke]

pay with blood?? He was 9

These people sound unhinged ngl

 

[The alchemist]

Ignore the guy. If he tries anything, talk to someone with the given background context.

The chance of that happening again is low.

 

[Yaraye]

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[The alchemist]

Although I never got bullied, I understand the legacy of unfortunate experiences can culminate in mental problems. I think maybe you need to talk to family and friends about it. It is a shame if the fear of it happening again stands in the way of you living a good life.

Many of our issues later in life are the outcomes of things that take hold and fester subconsciously early. Sometimes we develop adverse coping mechanisms that hurt ourselves and the people around us. It's easier said than done, but I think the earlier you unravel and address that wound, the better.

Remember, even if it happens again, which is very doubtful, don't change school. Stand your ground and have some courage. Bullies don't like to target people that they think are too bothersome.

Back in my childhood and teenage years, people used to test me. You had to respond in kind and beat them up, or at least make it very painful for them. It either leads to us becoming friends or respect.

Thinking about it, two of my childhood friends were guys I fought against and then became good friends with after. I had a propensity for a terrible temper if it called for it growing up, lol.

I never understood bullied people as a kid. I thought, why not fight? Either way, you will get beaten up. At least you will make it difficult for them--eventually, they'll give up. But I was strong and tall and grew up in an environment where being weak would mean I was fucked, so maybe if I was short, physically weak, and brought up in a calm environment. I would not have the intuition for self-perseverance to begin with.

Now, I understand it is different for a girl, picked on by guys. There is an unfair disadvantage. However, there are limits to what a guy will do to a female in the open. So you'll be alright, just be mentally stronger and preserve, have a fighter spirit. It will serve you well in life in general. Every adverse situation subsides. Face it the best you can. Life is about overcoming challenges.

 

[johnsepei5]

When I was 9, I was walking to my classroom when this guy in my class walked up to me and kissed my cheek. I didn't come in the next day but the day after. He walks up to me and asks why I didn't come in to school yesterday and I told him I felt sick bc of the kiss he gave me. He got angry and started harrasing and making fun of me non-stop and one time he pulled my hijab off infront of everyone in the lunch hall. I started crying because everyone could see me hair and I ended up leaving that school a few months after. But now, 8 years later...he's in my sixth form class (college to those americans) and I'm really uncomfortable around him, I'm not sure if he remembers me, but now I'm thinking of moving to another school bc of him but i also dont want to beacuse its the one i worked hard to get into. Should I stay or should I go?

Is the guy white?this sounds like something they would do

 

[FarmingNomad]

Is the guy white?this sounds like something they would do

An Indonesian or something

 

[Odious Delirium]

I had another weird encounter but I don’t want to share it. It still traumatizes me.

Share it

 

[Suhayb Aden]

I think he is Indonesian or from somewhere around that area of asia

yeah dont worry you can rock him if he tries anything

 

[Suhayb Aden]

I understand why you still feel uncomfortable but I think you’ll be fine. The people on here saying he should be beat up for doing something ignorant when he was a kid are actual mooryans.

Keep your distance if you want but switching schools is unnecessary. I’ve seen hijabs being pulled off by boys in elementary school too. I was never kissed by a boy but I was sitting down on the ground one day when a kid came up to me and grabbed my feet and started dragging me around the playground. I hate to say it but these absurd encounters seem to be the norm for that age range.

I had another weird encounter but I don’t want to share it. It still traumatizes me.

spit it out

 

[Yaraye]

I understand why you still feel uncomfortable but I think you’ll be fine. The people on here saying he should be beat up for doing something ignorant when he was a kid are actual mooryans.

Keep your distance if you want but switching schools is unnecessary. I’ve seen hijabs being pulled off by boys in elementary school too. I was never kissed by a boy but I was sitting down on the ground one day when a kid came up to me and grabbed my feet and started dragging me around the playground. I hate to say it but these absurd encounters seem to be the norm for that age range.

I had another weird encounter but I don’t want to share it. It still traumatizes me.

wanna hear

 

[Abdisamad]

Damn, when he yanked your hijab, you should have strangled him with it.

I never really fought a lot in school, but when I was in third grade a somali boy behind me in lunch line yanked my hijab off. I slapped him so hard, that a loud bam sound was heard through out the lunch room. Our teacher who was across the lunch room heard it, and came to address the situation. While he was crossing the lunch room to us, I quickly threatened the kid in somali. I raised my voice so that the surrounding somali students could hear me. I told him that if he dared snitch or any other student, I'll beat their ass after school, kick their teeth in, and get other students to join in the beating. The teacher asked what happened, nobody spoke the next day, he showed up with a red/swollen cheek

You need to be vicious when you're standing your ground. You need to do him so dirty that no one else will think of trying you. Kill the chicken to scare the monkeys

 

[ReerVanCadde]

Why don't you marry him? You guys have missed and everything might as well.

 

[Khaem]

Why don't you marry him? You guys have missed and everything might as well.

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[Yaraye]

what? I was defending myself

 

[Basra]

When I was 9, I was walking to my classroom when this guy in my class walked up to me and kissed my cheek. I didn't come in the next day but the day after. He walks up to me and asks why I didn't come in to school yesterday and I told him I felt sick bc of the kiss he gave me. He got angry and started harrasing and making fun of me non-stop and one time he pulled my hijab off infront of everyone in the lunch hall. I started crying because everyone could see me hair and I ended up leaving that school a few months after. But now, 8 years later...he's in my sixth form class (college to those americans) and I'm really uncomfortable around him, I'm not sure if he remembers me, but now I'm thinking of moving to another school bc of him but i also dont want to beacuse its the one i worked hard to get into. Should I stay or should I go?