There’s a fundamental problem regarding your understanding in this discussion all together. I asked what’s the difference between living & dead that makes asking intercession from
deceased either kufr/shirk. We’ve a good example in the Prophet peace be upon Him where this is allowed by all 4 madhabs.
If merely requesting someone for dua was considered worshipping it makes no difference if the said individual is living or dead as both cases would be shirk. Is this true ? No it isn’t as we request dua all the time from the living.
Now here comes the problematic issue what about when requested from the dead? Is it worship ? No, an action doesn’t become worship simply because the individual is alive or dead.
Shirk is about beliefs, not about living or dead. That’s why if a person has shirk beliefs concerning the individual he’s asking intercession etc from it doesn’t matter whether that person is alive or dead as it’ll always be classified as shirk. This here is the crux of the issue sxb that you lack nuance in, you simply can’t accuse a muslim of worshiping graves etc simply because you saw them doing actions which you find reprehensible.
Yes a lot of muslims do actions that are forbidden at the graves like kissing them, doing prostrations etc but these actions in & themselves don’t constitute shirk. That’s why you can’t accuse of them worshiping the deceased, if you were to ask them if they’re worshiping them they would say no.
The najdi/salafi position is extreme because it considers the permissible intercession at the gravesite to be major shirk even with the Prophet peace be upon Him. A practice that has been recommended by major scholars from all madhabs is deemed as major shirk & this presents a very big problem in that majority of muslims are considered to be upon shirk.
That’s why you shouldn’t jump to make hasty conclusions when you lack the knowledge and understanding. Take your time to read things through & broaden your horizon as you’re definitely going to miss a lot of things if you continue to stick with the salafi narrative
On the contrary my understanding about rububiyyah & uluhiyyah is indeed consistent & in line with the traditional understanding of it.
Rububiyyah & uluhiyyah as currently understood by salafis is very wrong & a deviation from Islamic doctrine. Like I said before rububiyyah & uluhiyyah are connected to each other & can’t be separated, worship is but a result of having a belief of rububiyyah in the god that one believes in.
Your worship of Allah is a result of you affirming Oneness to Allah in His Rububiyyah, you worship Him because He is the ONLY True Rabb.
This is a belief that’s unique to muslims ONLY no other people have it be it christians, jews, pagan arabs etc all of them have committed shirk Rububiyyah since they all affirm others lords beside Allah. You can’t believe in other gods besides Allah and at the same time affirm the Onenesses of Allah’s Rububiyyah.
Abu Khadija & co are the ones who don’t understand it as they’re claiming christians etc who we know for a fact have taken Jesus AS as Lord besides Allah have affirmed Oneness of Allah’s Rububiyyah.
How can people who’ve taken another Lord beside Allah affirm His Oneness in Rububiyyah? How can they be equal to us when we’re the only people who have SINGLED out Allah in His Rububiyyah?
In the grave the first question we’ll be asked is “ Who is Our Lord” why do you think this is so ? If it wasn’t sufficient we would’ve been asked who we worshipped but we’re not why ?
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Abu Khadija claims that tawheed Rububiyyah is not the category that is the most sought after laakin it’s the First question to be asked when we’re in the grave. If it wasn’t that important why does that question take precedence over any other question ? Is Allah asking us for the sake of it ?
Like I said the salafi doctrine with how they understand tawheed & shirk is very flawed & contradicts the teachings of Quran, Sunnah & understanding of the salaf.
Ask your ustaad since he believes that the pagans have affirmed tawheed Rububiyyah will they be able to answer who their Rabb is when asked in the grave ?