Somalis too shy to have fantasies?

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TooMacaan

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I'll provide an example from a Muslim women though she wasn't Somali, in pre-marriage discussions, the guy said he wants to be urinated on, I think that's something you should know about otherwise later it will be a surprise.
@Foreman
Do you still think @VixR was wrong about the importance of discussing s3xual compatibility prior to marriage...or would you be willing to entertain a fetish like that in the name of "s3x positivity", if your wife told you it was necessary for her satisfaction??:dabcasar:
 
@Foreman
Do you still think @VixR was wrong about the importance of discussing s3xual compatibility prior to marriage...or would you be willing to entertain a fetish like that in the name of "s3x positivity", if your wife told you it was necessary for her satisfaction??:dabcasar:

It's not only a question for @Foreman though, what if 5 years into marriage your husband makes similar requests? In this case, she was able to avoid it from the jump but people change their opinions over time as their desires can be fluid (no pun intended).
 

VixR

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It's not only a question for @Foreman though, what if 5 years into marriage your husband makes similar requests? In this case, she was able to avoid it from the jump but people change their opinions over time as their desires can be fluid (no pun intended).
You're right. Anything can change in years. That's true in every facet of our lives actually, but I don't see how that makes it rational to go in blind to start.

I'm one that wants to know EVERYTHING:icon lol:
 

Tramo

Nine kitaabs on a bookshelf
With the obscure these ppl get off on to keep their out of control libidos in check, I've heard so much worse.

Urination doesn't cut the mustard. It isn't even a sexual act.

The guy wants to worship my pee? That's flattering as hell. :cryinglaughsmiley:
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can't u just be flattered without actually doing it :urgh:
 

black

live and let die.
I'm not shy with my fantasies. I tell her what I like to do in the sariirta and vice versa.

:lolbron:Let me guess, fucking with a Rollie on and playing Back 2 Back in the background?

Meek: "WHAT'S THAT ON MY WRIST?"
Nicki: "That's a Rolex"
Meek: "SAY IT AGAIN HOE!"
Nicki: "That's a Rollie on your wrist"
 

TooMacaan

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It's not only a question for @Foreman though, what if 5 years into marriage your husband makes similar requests? In this case, she was able to avoid it from the jump but people change their opinions over time as their desires can be fluid (no pun intended).
That's just something you can't account for (not within your 'circle of control') but that doesn't mean you should abandon what you can control. We can only worry about what we have power over after all.
 

Tramo

Nine kitaabs on a bookshelf
It depends.
on what
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@Foreman
Do you still think @VixR was wrong about the importance of discussing s3xual compatibility prior to marriage...or would you be willing to entertain a fetish like that in the name of "s3x positivity", if your wife told you it was necessary for her satisfaction??:dabcasar:

Oh no, I am aware of Vixr and her fetish. Vixr can kiss, lick and rub her nose against my ear a much as she want.

Magaraty Macanow, nin wanagsaan baan ahay.:lolbron:
 

VixR

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On my satisfaction of him. If you really adore someone, and they're right for you, and they give you what you need, why wouldn't you want them to be content? It's really a matter of how far you're willing to go, and what it is they need specifically. That way you know you could potentially be happy with one other on that front. If you have a good connection and understanding, you can survive the rough patches. But if that's not even there, it all falls apart easily.
 

Tramo

Nine kitaabs on a bookshelf
On my satisfaction of him. If you really adore someone, and they're right for you, and they give you what you need, why wouldn't you want them to be content? It's really a matter of how far you're willing to go, and what it is they need specifically. That way you know you could potentially be happy with one other on that front. If you have a good connection and understanding, you can survive the rough patches. But if that's not even there, it all falls apart easily.
:yousmart:

ur a ride or die mashallah. willing to catch some kaadi to the face for a nigga if he worth it :wow:
 

VixR

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:yousmart:

ur a ride or die mashallah. willing to catch some kaadi to the face for a nigga if he worth it :wow:
I'm actually not a ride or die :ohno:

I'd like to this this moment to reiterate that the example provided was my kadi being worshipped not catching his :damedamn:
 

VixR

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oh yea my bad :dead:

still, willing to marinate a niggas face :wow:
Touche.

Being a ride or die in the sense of being there through the thick and thin, yeah, but as a footnote, it greatly depends on what those "thins" are, otherwise I consider it an absurd bila mi'na concept. Nah, I'm not a ride or die. There're conditions.
 

Tramo

Nine kitaabs on a bookshelf
Touche.

Being a ride or die in the sense of being there through the thick and thin, yeah, but as a footnote, it greatly depends on what those "thins" are, otherwise I consider it an absurd bila mi'na concept. Nah, I'm not a ride or die. There're conditions.
:wow1:

by most standards u are a ride or die. most ppl bounce at the first sign of a rough patch, even with kids in the picture
 

VixR

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:wow1:

by most standards u are a ride or die. most ppl bounce at the first sign of a rough patch, even with kids in the picture
It's not that simple. I actually think it's hardest for ppl when there's kids in the picture. More often than not, ppl really do just stay for "the sake of the kids" when something real fucked up is going on, and they take it...until they reach their breaking point.
 
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