My mums isaaq so I can see where your coming from cos I have a few family members from my mums side that can’t stand my dad and always insult my mum and disrespect her for marrying him. She cut them off a long time ago alhamdullilah so we don’t hear from them weirdos. From my experience the people back home in sl are lovely and welcoming. So I don’t understand where this comes from.
I have isaaq family members that'd get piss off when hearing ppl say hateful things and do take pride in Somalinimo. The thing is on the internet ppl are braver when saying rude things. I've never had someone insult our qabil till Sspot. I'm sure these lot would never say it face to face.
I guess this is the benefit of not being inbred as we are exposed to different ppl and can find meaningful things in common. I do have a few extended family members that got cut off for being qabilist but some tried to play dumb and worm their way back in lol.
Its incredibly embarassing as anytime something terrible happens to a Somali racists will say things like he/she comes from an uncivilised place. They are the same religion,ethnicity and speak the same language and fight constantly.