Somali Teenager Divorced by Husband after a brutal child birth caused her to wet the bed

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Seventeen-year-old Gani Adan not only lost her baby, but was divorced by her husband, and scorned cruelly by her neighbours for 10 months whilst she suffered incontinence resulting from her traumatic first childbirth experience.

After being in labour for three days, the traditional midwives attending to her forcefully pulled the dead baby from Gani’s womb, rupturing her bladder.

“When I suffered this problem, I fell into shock. My husband couldn’t bear to be with me so that was how I was divorced. People used to gossip about my condition, they would say that this girl can’t hold back her urine and that is why she was divorced,” she said.

On 30 November, Gani received free fistula surgery in Luq mother and child hospital in Gedo. Recuperating in bed, she recalled that the reason her husband left her was her bed wetting.

“Urine was flowing when I was brought here. I received free medicine that has improved my condition. I also underwent free surgery. Now, I am 100 per cent healthy,” she said

Fadumo Warow Hassan suffered from fistula for 14 months. She was forced to shut down her tea shop in Ceeldhanaaw village in October 2020, fearing that people would get to know of her condition.

“Only my parents and our family knew about my suffering, I hid it from the rest of the people fearing they would gossip about me, so I stayed home. My urine was flowing, so how can you work if you wet the chair you’re sitting on?” she asked.


 
The 'midwives' aka butchers, forcefully pulled a baby out of her, damaging her bladder so she can't hold her urine, and her husband divorces her instead of seeking immediate help for her.
This is how he thanks her for birthing his baby?

Hollywood writers need to tour Somalia and interview the women there, if they want to find inspiration for their horror movies.
 
We need a better healthcare system to prevent this, that shit is evil

A good health system will not prevent illness and it won't stop selfish pigs from being selfish pigs.

Men are known to abandon or neglect their wives when they fall ill, The Guardian wrote an Article about it;

The men who leave their spouses when they have a life-threatening illness​


 

Grigori Rasputin

Former Somali Minister of Mismanagement & Misinfo.
Staff Member
Wariyaha SomaliSpot
The 'midwives' aka butchers, forcefully pulled a baby out of her, damaging her bladder so she can't hold her urine, and her husband divorces her instead of seeking immediate help for her.
This is how he thanks her for birthing his baby?

Hollywood writers need to tour Somalia and interview the women there, if they want to find inspiration for their horror movies.

It has a lot more to do with her undeveloped womanly body. It has a name. It is called Fistula. The tearing apart of the female organ all the way down to her anus. No control.
It’s got to due with girls who haven’t had their hips developed for birth. Too young.

 
A good health system will not prevent illness and it won't stop selfish pigs from being selfish pigs.

Men are known to abandon or neglect their wives when they fall ill, The Guardian wrote an Article about it;

The men who leave their spouses when they have a life-threatening illness​


I understand abayo ,
Her suffering & loss of the child could be prevented by a good healthcare system.

I don't know what we can do about a man leaving. I need to read more about this matter .
 
It has a lot more to do with her undeveloped womanly body. It has a name. It is called Fistula. The tearing apart of the female organ all the way down to her anus. No control.
It’s got to due with girls who haven’t had their hips developed for birth. Too young.



She said her fistula was caused by damage caused when those midwives forcefully pulled the baby out. I would guess a doctor would have carried out a C-section.
 
I understand abayo ,
Her suffering & loss of the child could be prevented by a good healthcare system.

I don't know what we can do about a man leaving. I need to read more about this matter .

It's just selfishness, what else would possess a man to abandon a wife once she falls ill.
I assume men like that are used to be being babied and catered to and the minute a wife cannot fulfil that role, he doesn't see a use for her. It's almost as if their idea of 'love' is being served by a woman, it's not reciprocal.

Islam tells men to protect and provide, so this 'man' should have protected his wife from being bullied and provided her with medical care.
 

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Obstetric fistula is more common among teenage brides who are still developing. It's more common in Ethiopia especially the Amhara region. Millions of Amhara children are married off and begin giving birth before their bodies fully develope.

 
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It has a lot more to do with her undeveloped womanly body. It has a name. It is called Fistula. The tearing apart of the female organ all the way down to her anus. No control.
It’s got to due with girls who haven’t had their hips developed for birth. Too young.

Obstetric fistula is more common among teenage brides who are still developing. It's more common in Ethiopia especially the Amhara region. Millions of Amhara children are married off and begin giving birth before their bodies fully develope.






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But there are still men who will argue for the right to marry teenagers, instead of waiting for a woman to develop fully.
 
It's just selfishness, what else would possess a man to abandon a wife once she falls ill.
I assume men like that are used to be being babied and catered to and the minute a wife cannot fulfil that role, he doesn't see a use for her. It's almost as if their idea of 'love' is being served by a woman, it's not reciprocal.

Islam tells men to protect and provide, so this 'man' should have protected his wife from being bullied and provided her with medical care.

The biggest problem is very early teen pregnancies, especially in areas in which health care isn't great.

I don't know why they oppose the idea of girls waiting a few years before marrying. The scholars in those areas start raging about 'Westernization' when there is nothing in Islam to suggest that a young girl must marry in her early teens. Not only do studies show that it can cause major harm, teen girls are actually living that nightmare so we know for a fact its an issue. Surely, women's health are more important than men's libido, especially when we have a culture of men not sticking around after these women are effected in this way?

Even in Western societies, men are much more likely, compared to women to leave when their spouse has a life changing chronic illness, but what makes it worse in the East, women aren't financially independent and don't have first class health care. Hence, the suffering is so much more.
 
It has a lot more to do with her undeveloped womanly body. It has a name. It is called Fistula. The tearing apart of the female organ all the way down to her anus. No control.
It’s got to due with girls who haven’t had their hips developed for birth. Too young.

this is wrong. fistulas happen to woman of all ages, in this case, it was due to the midwives fault. Also all this pseudoscience saying that teen pregnancy is harmful is stupid, teenagers have been carrying babies since the beggining of time. Think about it, in the past they had no contraception, once they went through puberty and were ready to have sex, do u think they would wait 5-6 years to have sex? no they would just have babies. Its just the west wanting to limit the amount of woman having children below a certain age because it would limit the workforce in society and therefore effect the economy.
 
this is wrong. fistulas happen to woman of all ages, in this case, it was due to the midwives fault. Also all this pseudoscience saying that teen pregnancy is harmful is stupid, teenagers have been carrying babies since the beggining of time. Think about it, in the past they had no contraception, once they went through puberty and were ready to have sex, do u think they would wait 5-6 years to have sex? no they would just have babies. Its just the west wanting to limit the amount of woman having children below a certain age because it would limit the workforce in society and therefore effect the economy.

Its even worse for teens due to the small size and physical weakness of many young pregnant girls makes it extremely difficult for them to give birth to a child. Delivery is therefore often prolonged.

Some of these girls are getting married off straight after their first period. Any doctor and women wil tell you that just because you've had your 1st period doesn't mean your body develops straight away. It may take a couple of years.

Also, historically child birth was the biggest killer of women. If you research about childbirth in history, you'll realise how bloody and horrendous it was for women.We've evolved now and have more knowledge, so why should girls in Eastern countries still suffer when the world now has more knowledge and ways to prevent this?
 
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A good health system will not prevent illness and it won't stop selfish pigs from being selfish pigs.

Men are known to abandon or neglect their wives when they fall ill, The Guardian wrote an Article about it;

The men who leave their spouses when they have a life-threatening illness​


Read the article, its a very small minority less that 5%, Most men stay and help their wives when they are sick
 

Grigori Rasputin

Former Somali Minister of Mismanagement & Misinfo.
Staff Member
Wariyaha SomaliSpot
She said her fistula was caused by damage caused when those midwives forcefully pulled the baby out. I would guess a doctor would have carried out a C-section.

The best preventative method would’ve been for that girl to have been saved from a marriage.

Second action, if already pregnant, would’ve been a C-section.

It is true a witch Eedo midwife ripped that baby off of her. Can you imagine the pain this girl suffered. No sedative was used. All they give her is a stick to bite on to. Walahi African women suffer. Heck, everyone suffers in Africa. From poor healthcare to gaajo. Naclatulah Africa.
 
Its even worse for teen due to the small size and physical weakness of many young pregnant girls makes it extremely difficult for them to give birth to a child. Delivery is therefore often prolonged.
Alot of women remain a small size even after puberty, even after all of their development they are the same size as women mature much faster, and therefore have the same complications after childbirth, Its like saying woman over 35 shouldnt have children, because from almost every angle theirs a higher likelihood of both them and their children having harmful effects after pregnancy
Theirs a whole agenda being spread by the west against teen pregnancies, they want to spread out pseudoscience to make it seem like having children young is bad. This is why we see a decline of fertility rates in the west, so much so that the west will collapse in the future.
The real problem with teenage pregnancy is not the actual age but the support system around the women, which unfortunately is not good in alot of cases, this is why if the man lets say in this post or men in general, followed Islam, A women would be financially emotionall and mentally supported, having family to support her aswell as their husbands, but in this day and age men are stupid and wont support their wife and even just leave them after they carried their child for 9 months. Its got nothing to do with age, bc most of this teenage pregancy stuff happens to countries with lower income and medical accesbility and resources, which r probably the main cause of complications, whereas u see richer ppl not wanting to have kids as they want to enjoy their life. dont fall for the propaganda, the scienfitic articles mostly have some kind of deception going on, theyve been doing this for years, theirs a reason islam never gives a definite age for pregnancy
 
Alot of women remain a small size even after puberty, even after all of their development they are the same size as women mature much faster, and therefore have the same complications after childbirth, Its like saying woman over 35 shouldnt have children, because from almost every angle theirs a higher likelihood of both them and their children having harmful effects after pregnancy
Theirs a whole agenda being spread by the west against teen pregnancies, they want to spread out pseudoscience to make it seem like having children young is bad. This is why we see a decline of fertility rates in the west, so much so that the west will collapse in the future.
The real problem with teenage pregnancy is not the actual age but the support system around the women, which unfortunately is not good in alot of cases, this is why if the man lets say in this post or men in general, followed Islam, A women would be financially emotionall and mentally supported, having family to support her aswell as their husbands, but in this day and age men are stupid and wont support their wife and even just leave them after they carried their child for 9 months. Its got nothing to do with age, bc most of this teenage pregancy stuff happens to countries with lower income and medical accesbility and resources, which r probably the main cause of complications, whereas u see richer ppl not wanting to have kids as they want to enjoy their life. dont fall for the propaganda, the scienfitic articles mostly have some kind of deception going on, theyve been doing this for years, theirs a reason islam never gives a definite age for pregnancy

Deception? Are you a doctor? Are in the science field?

I'm going to ask you a simple question.

Women's bodies change in puberty, why is that?
 

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