Somali Single Mothers

[Abdisamad]

From what I’ve seen the women who are narcissistic are still married, I wouldn’t say happily married but still married, whilst the men are suffering. Divorce rate is high because usually it’s the men’s fault... they have issues. One time, I saw this single mother who had one daughter she had the most brightest personalities and she was beautiful but a bit overweight when she had her one daughter. I’m thinking why the hell did she get divorced? She literally is maskin. She looked like she was the type to serve a man breakfast, lunch, dinner and cater to his needs. Then she said to me ‘you know how Somali men are’ and I’m like trust me I know.

Can you elaborate this part? you make us sound like we are all bad men?

 

[Alexander The Great]

Somali women would rather marry the state(benefits) then To have a long lasting marriage.

 

[Kol3]

Can you elaborate this part? you make us sound like we are all bad men?

The man didn’t even send his little daughter money, didn’t even visit her and refused to talk to her on the phone. I don’t know but usually Somalis say once you’re divorced the man doesn’t care about the kids.

 

[Jaydaan]

There a lot of Somali women who married outside who have successful marriages. And NO! Somali women are good wives from what I’ve seen. They are naturally seen as submissive and traditionalists, they have no problem serving a man if he’s acting right!!

There are also a lot of Somalis who has successful marriages. Somali women are submissive to non Somalis and give Somali men headache. But Somali men are also very proud and will just walk away. Very few Somali men fights to save a marriage. You wanna go, then go

 

[Abdisamad]

The man didn’t even send his little daughter money, didn’t even visit her and refused to talk to her on the phone. I don’t know but usually Somalis say once you’re divorced the man doesn’t care about the kids.

well this is not only somali men issue. Many other nationalities do this as well.. But I dont think a normal sane man would just cut off his own child like that..

 

[Abdisamad]

There are also a lot of Somalis who has successful marriages. Somali women are submissive to non Somalis and give Somali men headache. But Somali men are also very proud and will just walk away. Very few Somali men fights to save a marriage. You wanna go, then go

Naag nool was cleaning her mans bum, just to end up as single mother

 

[Nak Muay]

That doesn’t make sense no need for a man to be around. Only if when she is a single mother the government will give her that but is she’s married it’s the mans responsibility.

You're missing my point, marriage will inevitably lead to kids and once that's the case the man is no longer seen as "necessary". She doesn't need him to be the breadwinner and shoulder the financial responsibly of raising a family if the goverment can effectively fill that role, or force the man to be financially liable. I'm not having a dig at Somali women specifically, I'm speaking in general terms.

 

[Jaydaan]

Naag nool was cleaning her mans bum, just to end up as single mother

Yep and these xalimos was saying mashallah lool

 

[.279]

Why do you guys talk about general societal problems like they're unique to the Somali community

 

[Abdisamad]

Yep and these xalimos was saying mashallah lool

Imagine their reaction if that was a somali man treating a somali woman like

 

[Jaydaan]

Imagine their reaction if that was a somali man treating a somali woman like

I know. Naag nool was a huge L for us. That Madow family did her bad

 

[Abdisamad]

I know. Naag nool was a huge L for us. That Madow family did her bad

He is not the only Madow with a xalimo baby mother..I know some somali women who married arabs and got their ass beaten but no one really speaks of it.. Its like they only want to label Somali men as bad and ajnabi men like going to paradise or some shit.

 

[Kol3]

He is not the only Madow with a xalimo baby mother..I know some somali women who married arabs and got their ass beaten but no one really speaks of it.. Its like they only Somali men as bad and ajnabi men like going to paradise or some shit.

Me too I’ve heard that, ajnabi men aren’t angels but still you can’t generalise ajnabi or Somali.

 

[Nak Muay]

He is not the only Madow with a xalimo baby mother..I know some somali women who married arabs and got their ass beaten but no one really speaks of it.. Its like they only Somali men as bad and ajnabi men like going to paradise or some shit.

Imagine some mixed Arab mutt claiming to be just as Somali as you in 20yrs, getting into heated debates about politics and qabil

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

in the west too many jinns are interfering with couples relationships.

 

[Abdisamad]

Me too I’ve heard that, ajnabi men aren’t angels but still you can’t generalise ajnabi or Somali.

But xalimos like to generlise and label all somali men as bad.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Does anyone know why Ilhan left her handsome husband for a small white D?

 

[Abdisamad]

in the west too many jinns are interfering with couples relationships.

grab your high pressure cleaner and flush it out like the sufi sheikhs do it in Somalia.

 

[Kol3]

But xalimos like to generlise and label all somali men as bad.

Ok maybe that doesn’t apply to you, you’ll make an amazing dad and be there for your daughter/sons even after a divorce.

 

[Abdisamad]

Ok maybe that doesn’t apply to you, you’ll make an amazing dad and be there for your daughter/sons even after a divorce.

This is not about me on a personal level.