No father will look for a man for their daughter if they or others know she will be a poor quality wife. They will not embarass themselves in the community. Alot of single women today are actually pretty low quality for whatever reason.
Somali parents should be confronted for keeping their religious and shy daughters alone
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No father will look for a man for their daughter if they or others know she will be a poor quality wife. They will not embarass themselves in the community. Alot of single women today are actually pretty low quality for whatever reason.
Yaraye
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looooool! you must be a fatherless nigga
looooool! you must be a fatherless nigga
No, my father is with my mother. You probably are with your projection.
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There needs to be some kind of explanation for the kind of fu*kery you are today
Idk I think it depends on the parents. Over the years I’ve had many people, both men and women, complain to me privately about this. But there’s no point in calacal. You have to go and shukaansi it up a bit with the equally awkward guy and hope for the best lol.
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There needs to be some kind of explanation for the kind of fu*kery you are today
You're dumb to think a Somali father will reach out to his friends to marry his daughter when he knows his daughter might not be a good wife. If she never helped out in the house and was never agreeable or isn't being the best Muslim she can be, why would he ruin his reputation? Your daughter has to have next level hayaa and for a man to praise.
Parents are not opposed to finding their daughters someone. It's just that some prefer a hands-off approach. They are also concerned as there is a possibility the marriage could end. As they don't want to be faulted. Usually, the fall out from that means strained relationships with family friends. People obviously take the side of their child. Parents wish to proceed with caution.
Odious Delirium
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No those that date around don't have an easier time they attract the wrong type of guy themselves and face other challenges.
You just need to be more out going and you can still turn things around at any point in your life its never over. There is no point regretting what was. Be proactive in whatever circle your in. Many in our parents gen met through mutuals so befriend like minded women and ask for there help if they don't voluntarily do it themselves.
Maybe that's why parents don't help there girls in our community because they got together through mutuals and expect you to do the same.
Parents don't want to cause family tensions if thry suggest their daughter to a potential husband lol
