@VantaBlack
Sxb, we can only speculate that it was an arranged marriage and if it is, can you explain how it was arranged, how long it took, your experiences in physically meeting one another, was it as a married couple? @Younes Osman take notes.
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@VantaBlack
Sxb, we can only speculate that it was an arranged marriage and if it is, can you explain how it was arranged, how long it took, your experiences in physically meeting one another, was it as a married couple? @Younes Osman take notes.
Yes it was arranged marriage, and I arranged it myself but in very clever ways that I do not want to share. Might arrange myself a 2nd one if I ever live past having one wife.
Do you not have any sisters, cousins ect? What world are you living in? I was born and raised in London and most of the girls do indeed know how to cook and clean. The ones that don't are usually the baby of the family. It has nothing to do with the fact that they are from the west, but more to do with the fact that the older sisters end up having to do everything!.
Samaalic Era
QurboExit
I dont have any sisters but my cousins can cook but its not something you would look forward to eating. When I was Somalia, the quraac let alone the qado was lit. Also, many choose not to cook out of arrogance
Honestly, that explains a lot about why you feel and think certain things. You don't seem to interact much with Somali girls. Well, western ones anyway.
Yh, its true some don't or not great, but that is because they usually have many older sisters. Also, i've never met a Xalimo that doesn't cook and is married. Its rare.
Younes Osman
VIP
I can just picture xalimo cooking me baris once a week preferably on a Sunday. But, most day im like eating a pack of Tandoori chicken pringles, tuna sandwich, drinking 3 costa breakfast large teas with soyo and a slice of bread for breakfast.
Halimo-2018
VIP
The are chickens. My baby brother has more game than grown ass some somali dudes lol all they do is stare like an eagle and shake hhhh
Desert Flower
VIP
They DM you on insta saying ,”I think I saw you last night at the event lol”
Hes a FOB, they cant cook to save their lives
It depends on which part of Somalia FOBS come from saxib. Guys from Xamar and Kismayo who end up in America cook for themselves if they end up living separate from their families. Whenever I visited my uncle's apartment for a chat on weekends, he had food available he cooked. Sometimes he would make Pasta only because he made Suugo ahead and lots of it so he can use it for few days.
How does a single guy who lives on his own expect to survive if he can't cook? The issue is most Somali males are mamma's boys and spoiled. So they want to move from mom to wife. Unfortunately, most girls who grew up in the west are just as handicapped. Total waste who need training to take care of themselves.
Big LOL...I'm from London and ain't met a Somali girl who can cook yet...and if they can I doubt its of standard
No girls in my house tho so you know hoyo taught me how to cook foh mah self ya diggg
lalayariis
Bad cop
My Hooyo has been promising to teach me how to cook since I was 6, but every time I became that age she would move it up a year. Idk why, she just won’t teach me. I’m the only girl, too? 
I’m just going to learn on my own when I get my own apartment next year, my brother does the same since he has his own and has to cook now to sustain himself.
I’m just going to learn on my own when I get my own apartment next year, my brother does the same since he has his own and has to cook now to sustain himself.
My Hooyo has been promising to teach me how to cook since I was 6, but every time I became that age she would move it up a year. Idk why, she just won’t teach me. I’m the only girl, too?
I’m just going to learn on my own when I get my own apartment next year, my brother does the same since he has his own and has to cook now to sustain himself.
@lalayariis
You don’t need mum and her Somali dishes, buy a cookbook with simple dishes and ingredients. Try to cook them while you’re living at home because if you muck it up, you can always fall back on mums cooking. I started that way, but I had three guinea pigs (my younger siblings) who ate anything I cooked because they were sick of mums Somali food.
Samaalic Era
QurboExit
just as handicapped
lalayariis
Bad cop
I’m only home on holidays now since I don’t live at home, and I’m required to have a nasty meal plan. Whenever I do go home though and during summer break I’ll practice a lot!
American Somali women will just stare at you if they like you. I wish they had they had FOB guy's confidence.Please give me tips and advice THANK YOU
And that is why one should move in on them
What do you mean?
The american somali women ofcourse should be hit on hard and fast
VixR
Veritas
That’s how I started to learn. I’m the baby, but it was the same with my sister and brothers. We all learned when we moved out. Any cooking we learned from her happened, bc it was sought out when we started having to cook for ourselves outside the house.My Hooyo has been promising to teach me how to cook since I was 6, but every time I became that age she would move it up a year. Idk why, she just won’t teach me. I’m the only girl, too?
I’m just going to learn on my own when I get my own apartment next year, my brother does the same since he has his own and has to cook now to sustain himself.
She’s awesome at cooking, and does ME, Somali and some Ethio dishes, so there was always something someone missed enough to seek out exactly how to make it from her.
no abaayo that was a meme sisSxb, did you just make up a character for me? I’m honored. I’ve always wanted to be a superhero.
Sorry, I screwed up.
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