Somali men, how do you afford meher and wedding costs?

[Wervelwind]

And if you have married recently, how much did you pay?

 

[caanoshaah]

This is a good question why didn’t anybody respond… I’m curious too

 

[wonyluvr]

@Geeljire lotus help your brothers on sspot out

 

[wonyluvr]

This is a good question why didn’t anybody respond… I’m curious too

because majority of the people on here arent married @bobby_hill-Punt and @ditto lying

 

[Wervelwind]

because majority of the people on here arent married @bobby_hill-Punt and @ditto lying
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That's what I'm confused about as well
So many 20/30 year old faraxs and xalimos and barely any of them married

 

[bobby_hill-Punt]

because majority of the people on here arent married @bobby_hill-Punt and @ditto lying
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Don't worry you and I and @ditto can change this

 

[NidarNidar]

You can get a decent wedding for about $12,000- $ 15,000 here, lasting 3-4 days at a remote Irish estate that accommodates up to 100 people.

 

[balanbalis]

You can get a decent wedding for about $12,000- $ 15,000 here, lasting 3-4 days at a remote Irish estate that accommodates up to 100 people.

Small intimate weddings are best, just the closest family and friends and no distant relatives who just want sheeko and cunto

 

[Abu Hesi]

You can get a decent wedding for about $12,000- $ 15,000 here, lasting 3-4 days at a remote Irish estate that accommodates up to 100 people.

Reer Magaal, reminds me of this movie lol

 

[Abu Hesi]

waraa if you worried about the moolah, go the Masjid nikaax route, and baraanbur for the ladies at night; it has a lot of Barakah too as there is no free mixing and no music.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

For someone who claims to not want a wife, you sure talk about marriage alot. The dukes are clearly forcing you. The good news for you is you're in your 30s so expectations of a fancy wedding is nonexistent (people really only want to go to under 25 weddings because of real, young, cute love, not people who settled) and meher would be on the lower side. Just make sure to share your bank account details with her if she's wife/mother material you can trust with your life or you ain't shit.

 

[NidarNidar]

Small intimate weddings are best, just the closest family and friends and no distant relatives who just want sheeko and cunto

I know friends who rented a hall for like 6 hours with catering, and it cost 6k. A special time in your life should be spent with friends and family, not just 1 day but a few days, with some tea or coffee, relaxing in nature, over an extended weekend, preferably on a bank holiday.

 

[Wervelwind]

For someone who claims to not want a wife, you sure talk about marriage alot. The dukes are clearly forcing you. The good news for you is you're in your 30s so expectations of a fancy wedding is nonexistent (people really only want to go to under 25 weddings because of real, young, cute love, not people who settled) and meher would be on the lower side. Just make sure to share your bank account details with her if she's wife/mother material you can trust with your life or you ain't shit.

I'm a saqajaan I'm about to hit 34 but if I were to marry I want a wife in her mid 20s