Somali men going to lebanon to marry syrian women

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Maybe that is the perspective from the men

If you look at the woman's situations, they are being relieved. Perhaps this is God's way of protecting them from the 3 world noh.

Either way they can divorce them in the west and don't need to return to the 3 world regardless.

Their intentions (males) will be judged on qiyamah. I would marry a girl from the 3 world if she fits my requirements and vice versa. Just so that she has a better quality of life.

If the man does it for his own selfish gains, that is between him and Allah.

These girls are not relieved, they're bitter that they have to lay under an undesirable man just to get a passport. You can see it in their eyes and in their body language that they're repulsed and sad. The only men that go to these camps, are those who suffer from self-hate and other issues, and trust me, those are not the types of men that any woman wants.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

It has everything to do with the fetishization of light skin. If they wanted a traditional bride without a lot of the pomp and higher dowry or whatever it is they’re running away from, they could easily go back to their town of origin and find a bride that has been vouched for, speaks the same language and descends from a family they’ll have a lot more in common with. A Syrian woman whom they don’t know her origins, can’t be vouched for, is only marrying due the man due to her her unfortunate circumstances, reeks of low self esteem. Arabs are even more cuunsuri than Somalis and not only that have a deep preference for Arabs for their daughters like any Somali. But when war and poverty strikes and people find themselves in reduced circumstances, you find fathers marrying their daughters to foreigners from all different corners of the earth.

Absolute vultures.

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[ogadeniaa]

You’re incredibly dishonest. So now, just to make a point you’re really arguing that Somali features don’t exist? All us know when we see a Somali when it comes to the vast majority of us. Stop lying.

Whose dishonest? the old Somali men pics that was posted you commented half of them look ”bantu” or w.e u said. So you yourself admited there aint really a Somali phenotype n we come in all shapes no?

Men cannot make sure about kids learning the dhaqan unless he raises them back home. Kids learn their mother tongue. It’s women who are usually the primary caregivers that spend most of the time with their kids.

I’ve hardly seen kids whose fathers are Somali know how to speak Somali and if they do, it’s because they spend a lot of time with their ayeeyo. A woman. It’s women who pass languages down.

Your wrong, same way a father can teach his kids deen he can teach them their dhaqan n language however some fathers are not capable off it i aint disputing that. Hence i said if a father works hard he can make sure his kids learn the language n dhaqan. If Somali comes from the hooyo how come so many diaspora kids speak broken somali or barely any? every single one off them has had a somali hooyo.

Why would I clap for a woman that married for desperation. You’re desperate to argue that you’re coming up with nonsense non of us have said. Point to where I said it? If not shut it.

Im generalizing and grouping you with ur own kins, it dont have to come put ur mouth.

This is my issue with you. Your inability to understand context. Are you genuinely low IQ or dishonest. I don’t know. We’re talking about men going to flipping refugee camps just for a wife. It isn’t the same as a normal Farax marrying an Arab girl organically. I literally have been in my family married to Arab women on their level. Not some miskeena who is looking for her next meal, who would never have married him if her situation was different.

Once again why you assuming she wouldnt marry him? alot xalimos marry qashin but you dont scream ab them being ”meskien” n poor. talkin ab the Somali women in yemen. Whats the diff?

I’m sorry, Xalimos aren’t traveling to random war torn countries just to marry. These men are pursuing these women and even going to refugee camps.

Xalimos marry convict reverts in masajids, they marry qashin in yemen n turkey, atleast dabacasar is a sheikh and known socialmedia influencer with money that women married up cant say the same for our women when they marry arabs

 

[Angelina]

Whose dishonest? the old Somali men pics that was posted you commented half of them look ”bantu” or w.e u said. So you yourself admited there aint really a Somali phenotype n we come in all shapes no?

Get out of here. Your level of cope and dishonesty is astronomical. So now you’re using pictures of Somali men from the 1800s as some sort of proof? I made the comment than only some looked Bantu. Going by your train of thought Somalis have no specific look and we can simultaneously look Nigerian or Syrian. Lol, you’re a joke. You know, I know and everyone else knows when they see an Abdi or a Xalimo. Be honest for once.

Your wrong, same way a father can teach his kids deen he can teach them their dhaqan n language however some fathers are not capable off it i aint disputing that. Hence i said if a father works hard he can make sure his kids learn the language n dhaqan. If Somali comes from the hooyo how come so many diaspora kids speak broken somali or barely any? every single one off them has had a somali hooyo.

They can understand it and speak a bit of it. The reason why is because they spend 6-8hrs speaking English at school. So, if some Somali mothers are finding it difficult to pass down their language, what makes you think a father who isn’t the primary caregiver and one with a foreign wife can? The jokes writes itself. Sheeko Sheeko, Sheeko Xariir.

Im generalizing and grouping you with ur own kins, it dont have to come put ur mouth.

Once again why you assuming she wouldnt marry him? alot xalimos marry qashin but you dont scream ab them being ”meskien” n poor. talkin ab the Somali women in yemen. Whats the diff?

What makes you think Its a good thing for a Somali woman to marry an ajnabi out of desperation? Wtf is wrong with you like what is it. How many times do I need to say this. Just stop.

Xalimos marry convict reverts in masajids, they marry qashin in yemen n turkey, atleast dabacasar is a sheikh and known socialmedia influencer with money that women married up cant say the same for our women when they marry arabs

Are you okay? Dabacasar is mentally unstable. He says dirty stuff on social media. He is the male version of Mama Malyuun. Waa quuf Xanonsan and you now want to act like he’s normal. Also, he ended up divorcing both women. So now they’re divorced women from a culture that looks down on divorce. Just great!

 

[Diaspora ambassador]

These girls are not relieved, they're bitter that they have to lay under an undesirable man just to get a passport. You can see it in their eyes and in their body language that they're repulsed and sad. The only men that go to these camps, are those who suffer from self-hate and other issues, and trust me, those are not the types of men that any woman wants.

I agree 100% with you, i just highlighted the positives of their fucked up situation.

No one deserves this, they could leave them after the whole situation (i know how fucktup this sounds) it is better to be forced to marry a bastard from their surrounding places. Who will abuse them till their death.

Personally if i had to choose between the two i would go for the one with the western passports so i can escape the situation forever without losing my life in the process (not actually guaranteed though).

 

[Osama-bin Al-ballin]

Yep

I've heard how half-Asians behave and they seem to develop skin-colour complexes from Asians who are Cadaan worshippers themselves. These poor kids don't stand much of a chance by being surrounded by people who think being African is a curse and dark-skin is ugly.

Also, I hate to say this, but genetically speaking, do Somali men want to shrink their gene-pool?

No I can't speak for all but I've been to many gatherings around the greater Seattle area and all the men including myself do no in fact want to shrink their gene pool.

 

[Bowda-dheer]

I've heard how half-Asians behave and they seem to develop skin-colour complexes from Asians who are Cadaan worshippers themselves. These poor kids don't stand much of a chance by being surrounded by people who think being African is a curse and dark-skin is ugly.

Also, I hate to say this, but genetically speaking, do Somali men want to shrink their gene-pool?

Most somali men stick to their own. We are gonna need a lot of re-education though because too many believe in the sufism stories of a sheikh flying from certain place coming to somalia.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Most somali men stick to their own. We are gonna need a lot of re-education though because too many believe in the sufism stories of a sheikh flying from certain place coming to somalia.

The fake Arab daddy myth is incredibly damaging and after wars, khat, FGM, rape etc, etc, the worst thing to happen to Somalis.

 

[Bowda-dheer]

The fake Arab daddy myth is incredibly damaging and after wars, khat, FGM, rape etc, etc, the worst thing to happen to Somalis.

we need mass dna testings. I have a great idea and I know Somalis love new trends. We would give one of the somali tvs a program of randomly testing Somalis.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

we need mass dna testings. I have a great idea and I know Somalis love new trends. We would give one of the somali tvs a program of randomly testing Somalis.

"This week on Barnaamijka, Yaa Sheegato Ah? We have nin ka soo jeeda beelwaynta xyz"

 

[Bowda-dheer]

"This week on Barnaamijka, Yaa Sheegato Ah? We have nin ka soo jeeda beelwaynta xyz"

That would get some poor families outcasted especially the T and Js within a predominantly E clan.

 

[Nilotic]

The days of me arguing with women are over; it just looks bad, win or lose

 

[Periplus]

Cap i just checked and it was last updated in 2016 what do you gain from lying ?

Okay, my bad.

But 2016 was the height of the war, most Somalis that lived in Yemen, left by then.

So 500K remaining after years of conflict is a big number.

The number was estimated at 1.5 to 2 million in Yemeni prior to the war and having been there I believe it.

 

[johnsepei5]

Syrians tend to marry cousins and people of the same tribe. I’d understand the West as you have the chance to get to know people organically. So I wouldn’t bat eyelid about a normal Arab girl marrying a normal Somali man and vice versa.
Also, I’d make the same assumption about a Somali fob woman in a refugee camp if she was approached for marriage by an older middle aged foreign odey who literally came to the country to get a two for one deal and take advantage of peoples poverty.

You’re disingenuous and acting clueless. I know for a fact that if it was the other way around and foreigners were going to Somali refugee camps and trying to get with Somali girls you’d call it predatory. I’m consistent. You’re not. That’s the difference.

Okay, my bad.

But 2016 was the height of the war, most Somalis that lived in Yemen, left by then.

So 500K remaining after years of conflict is a big number.

The number was estimated at 1.5 to 2 million in Yemeni prior to the war and having been there I believe it.

A lot of Somali refugees from all around the world moved back in numbers before Covid,as we speak this month a lot have returned left Kenya