Somali guys in sweden

[Dango]

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you don't rock with the cadaan girls...

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

you don't rock with the cadaan girls...

 

[Sophisticate]

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[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

Let me catch one of y'all talking shit about madows going for cadaans instead of their own women, it's gonna be on sight

 

[Odious Delirium]

Most of them were born/raised in the west. They are young kids dealing with identity confusion and insecurity. You cannot expect them to be like their ancestors.

I said before. Most have hooyo or aabo issues. Maybe both. Any attention seeking child I see was likely mistreated/neglected. Hence, the need to act out to garner what they did not receive early on.

Enjoy the sugo psychology.

Na the neglected/mistreated conclusion isn't true. They have been socialised tho to think that way being brought up in the west.

All I hear guys talk about in whatever circle (mainly non somalis) I'm in when they decide to talk about women is either cadaan girls or fair/light skin girls. Many guys are sheep's and got bullied into being bots and conforming

Most of these guys in this post are just bots that didn't grow out of it

 

[Sophisticate]

Na the neglected/mistreated conclusion isn't true. They have been socialised tho to think that way being brought up in the west.

All I hear guys talk about in whatever circle (mainly non somalis) I'm in when they decide to talk about women is either cadaan girls or fair/light skin girls. Many guys are sheep's and got bullied into being bots and conforming

How one acts tells me a thing or two about how they were raised. The segment I'm talking about are those making the embarassing comments.

I suppose mass formation psychology of conforming to the majority may be a partial cause but I stand by my intial assumption.

 

[Macawisley]

saaxib wallahi passport bro are the thing man. Dont go for indeeryeer tho lmao

I’m not interested in indhoyar at all.

Cadaans are the best but you have to find the right one, they make great wives too

 

[Dango]

Somali girls keep hating on us but yall be simping for them Koreans dude lmao. Just get with who you want and live life

 

[Macawisley]

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Not true at all. Our ancestors have been raised in a society where there was no such thing as “50k mehr” and no “second wives” and marrying multiple women was considered the norm and the mehr requirement was usually 1 or 2 camels.

Today there is a lot of requirement and standards from modern day Xaliimos….

The standard majority of us would prefer a simple cadaan women with minimal requirements and a peace of mind. Some are even understanding if you treat them correctly and allow you to have a second wife back home.

 

[Odious Delirium]

How one acts tells me a thing or two about how they were raised. The segment I'm talking about are those making the embarassing comments.

I suppose mass formation psychology of conforming to the majority may be a partial cause but I stand by my intial assumption.

That's the thing tho majority that say this are caadi guys that had normal upbringing. Maybe the ones who start it aren't normal but at the end of the day this mentality comes from socialisation in male circles.

Everyone in there circles put cadaan women on pedestals while trashing darker skinned women and actively look for anything to have this biases validated. You probably have seen whenever a darkskin xalimo is posted doing something wild the comments are always along the lines of "its always the darkskins" They make there own echo Chambers and try to force other guys onto that same mentality. It's literally indoctrination from like pre puberty.

Men when they are younger are a lot more susceptible to propaganda this probably also explains the rise of somali incel troll aswell

 

[Dango]

Not true at all. Our ancestors have been raised in a society where there was no such thing as “50k mehr” and no “second wives” and marrying multiple women was considered the norm and the mehr requirement was usually 1 or 2 camels.

Today there is a lot of requirement and standards from modern day Xaliimos….

The standard majority of us would prefer a simple cadaan women with minimal requirements and a peace of mind. Some are even understanding if you treat them correctly and allow you to have a second wife back home.

Nothing more to say cause my man spitting facts

 

[Odious Delirium]

Not true at all. Our ancestors have been raised in a society where there was no such thing as “50k mehr” and no “second wives” and marrying multiple women was considered the norm and the mehr requirement was usually 1 or 2 camels.

Today there is a lot of requirement and standards from modern day Xaliimos….

The standard majority of us would prefer a simple cadaan women with minimal requirements and a peace of mind. Some are even understanding if you treat them correctly and allow you to have a second wife back home.

You can still get all that from somali women If you want to tho

 

[Macawisley]

You can still get all that from somali women If you want to tho

I’m not talking about fobs from back home… all modern day xaliimos are the same. If I find a simple xaliimo in the west I’d definitely go for it…

 

[Odious Delirium]

I’m not talking about fobs from back home… all modern day xaliimos are the same. If I find a simple xaliimo in the west I’d definitely go for it…

You want multiple wives?

 

[Sophisticate]

Not true at all. Our ancestors have been raised in a society where there was no such thing as “50k mehr” and no “second wives” and marrying multiple women was considered the norm and the mehr requirement was usually 1 or 2 camels.

Today there is a lot of requirement and standards from modern day Xaliimos….

The standard majority of us would prefer a simple cadaan women with minimal requirements and a peace of mind. Some are even understanding if you treat them correctly and allow you to have a second wife back home.

For one or two camels?You would get what you paid for. Generally, the higher the mehr the more desirable the woman in the past. You don't know seem to know very much about mainstream Somali culture.

 

[Odious Delirium]

 

[Sophisticate]

That's the thing tho majority that say this are caadi guys that had normal upbringing. Maybe the ones who start it aren't normal but at the end of the day this mentality comes from socialisation in male circles.

Everyone in there circles put cadaan women on pedestals while trashing darker skinned women and actively look for anything to have this biases validated. You probably have seen whenever a darkskin xalimo is posted doing something wild the comments are always along the lines of "its always the darkskins" They make there own echo Chambers and try to force other guys onto that same mentality. It's literally indoctrination from like pre puberty.

Men when they are younger are a lot more susceptible to propaganda this probably also explains the rise of somali incel troll aswell

I don't think they are normal. Also, Gen Ys were not this embarassing.

 

[Odious Delirium]

I don't think they are normal. Also, Gen Ys were not this embarassing.

It depends on who your talking about gen ys came fresh off the boat or socialised mainly with those fresh off the boat. If you look at other ethnic groups that have been in the uk for example longer. there gen ys act like some of our gen z and its the gens who first came that don't because they never got socialised at a young age in the west.

I would say somalis are better off regardless then most and that most of these guys do it out of spite/troll as a reaction to what gen y xalimos have been saying about abdis being undesirable (basically gatekeeping) over the past decade + on soical media. If anything this seem to be an attempt at seeking validation from xalimos to prove themselves. These younger guys have brought into that self hate stuff and like I said younger guys are more susceptible to propaganda. That's my hypothesis

 

[Sophisticate]

It depends on who your talking about gen ys came fresh off the boat or socialised mainly with those fresh off the boat. If you look at other ethnic groups that have been in the uk for example longer. there gen ys act like some of our gen z and its the gens who first came that don't because they never got socialised at a young age in the west.

I would say somalis are better off regardless then most and that most of these guys do it out of spite/troll as a reaction to what gen y xalimos have been saying about abdis being undesirable (basically gatekeeping) over the past decade + on soical media. If anything this seem to be an attempt at seeking validation from xalimos to prove themselves. These younger guys have brought into that self hate stuff and like I said younger guys are more susceptible to propaganda. That's my hypothesis

You must be confused with Gen Xers. They largely came fresh off the boat.

I'm a Gen Y aka millenial born in the west. Most people in my age group were at least raised here. I can't speak for your diaspora.

What do you mean socialized? You are socialized in school, work and by programming via entertainment/television or the internet.

Take the L with grace young one.

 

[Odious Delirium]

What do you mean socialized? You are socialized in school, work and by programming via entertainment/television or the internet.

Yes all of the above my point was that it starts young so right from school and I did give an Internet/soical media example what didn't you get?

Take the L with grace

I dont see the need. Its not my L because I have never acted this way in my life so there is nothing for me to take here