Somali girls mashallah are progressing good with career and educated but also want a mashallah guur can the 2 work together?

[Desert Flower]

The question is can he afford to financially provide and not use welfare ?

No, which is why dudes like him are obsessed with pocket watching a woman.

This is why it’s good to be a high maintenance, bougie woman because you’ll naturally weed these types out. Never be “easy going” or whatever men say in order to have you accept the bare minimum. Be demanding; they love that deep down.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

No, which is why dudes like him are obsessed with pocket watching a woman.

This is why it’s good to be a high maintenance, bougie woman because you’ll naturally weed these types out. Never be “easy going” or whatever men say in order to have you accept the bare minimum. Be demanding; they love that deep down.

I would only agree to be a housewife if my husband was well to do. I'm not moving into a council house in a crappy neighbourhood and end up living on benefits.

Notice how none of the guys on Sspot with careers make these kind of posts ? OP is clearly lacking and instead of improving himself he's shaming women on an anon forum.

 

[Desert Flower]

I would only agree to be a housewife if my husband was well to do. I'm not moving into a council house in a crappy neighbourhood and end up living on benefits.

Notice how none of the guys on Sspot with careers make these kind of posts ? OP is clearly lacking and instead of improving himself he's shaming women on an anon forum.

You have the upper hand before the marriage, as with any contract. Negotiate before marriage because it’s unlikely to go uphill from there. Tell him upfront what you need and if he cares he’ll deliver. If he starts complaining, then drop him. You never win when you use emotions.

 

[Mercury]

So if a girl went to university got the degree of her dreams and she wants to work you wouldn't support your wifes dream?

You're sounding more like a bum

 

[Leila]

The question is can he afford to financially provide and not use welfare ?

It’s always the broke men concerned about what a woman does with her career and finances

 

[Hali]

Do Somali men just like to be unreasonable

 

[vanilla]

Good career earning money is a masculine trait

These girls will have good career and earning money good but they need to understand they are sacrificing a beautiful guur in the process this is the reality

"I am beautiful educated and earning money good career but men are intimated" yes dear because for the majority of men thats a turn of

They want to have their cake and eat it life doesn't work that these girls also want meher and also want their money to be theres and husbands money to be theres does that make sense?

If you go down that road i think the best is to go with the gaalo formula 50-50 no meher split the wedding cost in 2 your money is his money his money is yours

You pay half the rent and he pays the other half you both share household responsibility

 

[inflorescence]

This nigga again?

 

[Alluring]

I think you need to keep in mind that there are some jobs that women would prefer other women doing like obstetrician gynecologists.

Especially as ethnic Muslim women, going to a woman when dealing with pregnancy is much better. Or are you going to insist that she push a baby out her vag with some white man leading it.

And like the last time, just marry a woman who wants to be a stay at home. Enough with all these pre requisites that you expect every women to follow.

 

[مسافر]

Akhi watch this video everytime you feel the urge to hate on muslim women and insha'allah it'll wash the hate away

 

[Viscount]

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