Somali girls marrying men from back home

[Molotoff]

We hear a lot about Somali men going back home to Somalia to marry (often pious young gazelles).

What about Somali women? Do they marry from back home? How common is it?

 

[Maximus]

They consider them to be too ‘Fob-ish’

 

[Nostalgia]

I know a few that have, but they struggle to get their husbands here. I think it's not fair for their kids, but to each their own.

 

[Factz]

It's actually quite common. It's just Somali women don't talk about it as much as Somali guys.

 

[AhmedSmelly]

I know a few that have, but they struggle to get their husbands here. I think it's not fair for their kids, but to each their own.

Are you one of them?

 

[FORLORNE]

Three of my friends went to Somalia for brides and came back with light skin women. It was arranged through their families.

 

[Nostalgia]

Are you one of them?

I'm not.

 

[AhmedSmelly]

Three of my friends went to Somalia for brides.

Ewww I knew there was something wrong with you.

You are what you eat, so when are you going to go back to Somalia to marry a second wife.

 

[FORLORNE]

Ewww I knew there was something wrong with you.

You are what you eat, so when are you going to go back to Somalia to marry a second wife.

I will enjoy my life till my early 40s and then will settle for a virgin 18 year old.

 

[AhmedSmelly]

I will enjoy my life till my early 40s and then will settle for a virgin 18 year old.

that is not right in my eyes, why marry someone young. When you can marry someone in their 30s with experience.

 

[Veteran]

that is not right in my eyes, why marry someone young. When you can marry someone in their 30s with experience.

Fertility is lower at 30 than 18 that's probably why

 

[FORLORNE]

that is not right in my eyes, why marry someone young. When you can marry someone in their 30s with experience.

We all have our preferences and I am already blessed in life.

 

[Daacad90]

You definitely aren't bosnian, ya ku ciyaareeysa?

 

[Basra]

We hear a lot about Somali men going back home to Somalia to marry (often pious young gazelles).

What about Somali women? Do they marry from back home? How common is it?

Not common. Its tabboo for a woman to go seeking a husband from Somalia, unless it is heavily family arranged, and the girl must be very young.


Mostly single lonely somali woman linger in the west unmarried. A rose unflicked.

 

[MI]

This is only tangentially related to your question but I saw a somali girl married to this african American “revert” that thirstily posts all day about marrying more women and how women should basically worship men.

So yeah, if they’re marrying that I can’t see why they shouldn’t marry fobs, at least they’re sane.

 

[Odkac WRLD]

We hear a lot about Somali men going back home to Somalia to marry (often pious young gazelles).

What about Somali women? Do they marry from back home? How common is it?

The ones that have, only do it cause they exhausted all options over here lol

 

[Odkac WRLD]

that is not right in my eyes, why marry someone young. When you can marry someone in their 30s with experience.

I am actually agreeing with you wow

 

[AhmedSmelly]

I am actually agreeing with you wow

that because we are both into older divorcee women 25+. But younger than 35. I want a fertile women. Women with experience, who can cook and knows her role in the family. Educated, if she is not. I can pay for her bachelor degree.

If she has kids its alright, we will raise them together. But my first wife will be the same age as me. I will be 1 week with her, and 1 week with the other wife. Fairness is my style.

We are twins

 

[Guardafui]

Only fob Somali women marry from back home maybe to someone they used to love when they were younger. It’s very difficult for someone born/raised in the West to marry a man straight from Africa unless they’re desperate

 

[SomaliWadaniSoldier]

Desperatos go back to marry kkkk

 

[Omnya]

Yeah why not? Somali men in the west are useless anyways!