Even the parents and grandparents are not doing it. We have all been criticized to death growing up with their usual talking points.
When you come home late and they try to guilt you:
"We want to go back to Somalia. Barafka iyo dahanta ma rabno and you come home late at this time".
You ask them now if they're going back home since we're all grown adults and they say Insha'Allah and quickly change the subject.
It's so strange of the hundred Somali parents I know, only like 5 couples went back and most actually returned. They have no issue with the baraf and dhahanta in their 50s and 60s and 70s