Somali dating

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  1. SOULSEARCHING

    SOULSEARCHING

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    I have realized Somalis don't follow the proper way of getting to know someone, an example is you will see two Somali couples who aren't officially married holding hands , going out to movies and eating out.

    In fact in Islam they are supposed to have a mahram near by (brother/uncle) so nothing Haram happens

    Are somalis even religious?
     
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  2. Yonis

    Yonis Puntland Youth Organiser FDK Visionary VIP

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  3. Samaalic Era

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    You do it the nomadic way, let your family hook you up and then get to know the person
     
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  4. Guardafui

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    It’s nothing wrong with eating out in a public place and talk. As long you’re in a public place and have strictly no relations it’s all good. You must get to know them without having a third person listening to your conversations because that’s awkward. In the meantime you have your family doing all the necessary checks on the person by 1-3 months you have all the information about them. Once thats done and your parents are ok with them you still need other checks like health-check etc. Never date someone without your parents knowing because you can’t trust people these days.
     
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  5. Luciddreamer

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    most somalis are muslims when it fits them.
     
  6. halwa

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    That’s a bit :holeup:
     
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  7. Samaalic Era

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    You cant criticize until you tried it yourself. I shall be awaiting your feedback:gaasdrink:
     
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  9. Basra

    Basra Like Donald Trump, I like to be Spanked. VIP

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    Islamically that is wrong to go to the movies if unmarried. But if engaged its okey. But still i would rather couple marry and then u can do public affection display

    PS i hate public affection display from my husband. If he holds my hand in public, i stand up still and ask him what the hell r u doing?
     
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  10. Mahacagalla

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    It's just more modern. As long as nothing sexual happens no harm or foul.
     
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    8 threads about marriage on one page. Dayyum , qooq is in the air
     
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  12. SilverL

    SilverL Unprofessional Therapist

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  13. Waa-Aniga

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    Are you sure?
     
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    SilverL Unprofessional Therapist

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    about?
     
  15. Mercury

    Mercury Staff Member Moderator

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    you can change it click on your profile like that than you should click on preferences that's where you can change the style

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    SilverL Unprofessional Therapist

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    Ok cool! but why do you guys like it black lol?
     
  17. Mercury

    Mercury Staff Member Moderator

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    lol I tried it once and was too lazy to change back
     
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  18. Libaaxseendheer

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    Easier on the eyes. Black is good for the eyes
     
  19. SilverL

    SilverL Unprofessional Therapist

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    No wonder you hardly come on here anymore with that dull looking gray scheme, I’d get bored too

    Just put your whole phone on night mode, unless you like the gray that is
     
  20. SOULSEARCHING

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    Time might change but you must remember the religion dosen't, this is a big sin and is Zina.
     
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