Somali couple sleeping in separate rooms.
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VixR
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Oh shit we're practically the same post, but I've been saying/wanting this all along wallahiif I marry a Somali guy, we are getting separate rooms.
no scratch that, we are getting separate houses
Great minds think alike?
arawelo 2.0
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honestly, there's nothing i love more than sleep, so if my 'husband' messes that up, best believe he is getting his own room.
Grigori Rasputin
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It is mainly to do with the husband wanting to have a sound sleep. He is most likely a light sleeper. Also there could be an infant in the equation. The man has to get up early in the morning. Things should not be blown out of proportion. It really has a lot to do with being a light sleeper and a baby in the room. The dam baby wakes up 4 times in the night. Therefore why can't the husband sleep well to bring income to the household.
Also keep in in that the husband appreciated his territorial space and all a sudden society dictates that he abandons all that. Can a man just sleep in his own bed.
Also keep in in that the husband appreciated his territorial space and all a sudden society dictates that he abandons all that. Can a man just sleep in his own bed.
VixR
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It's not just about sleep for me. I need space too. I really feel like it would be suffocating otherwise.honestly, there's nothing i love more than sleep, so if my 'husband' messes that up, best believe he is getting his own room.
Gibiin-Udug
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@VixR and @sahersi whats the point of getting married?
I'm going to kick, put my feet on his face, fight him because of the duvet/blanket.
I'm going to kick, put my feet on his face, fight him because of the duvet/blanket.
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You're supposed to be comfortable enough to tell each other when you need space.
Gibiin-Udug
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arawelo 2.0
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what???@sahersi is a gaal as well ?
NO.. I'm NOT a gaal
how can you draw such a preposterous claim from me wanting personal space?
arawelo 2.0
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oh.. so you misunderstood
oh.. so you misunderstood
Sorry for drawing such a rash conclusion, surely you can forgive me and overlook this near blasphemous mistake right ?
arawelo 2.0
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you're on very thin ice Coulomb
Sorry for drawing such a rash conclusion, surely you can forgive me and overlook this near blasphemous mistake right ?
VixR
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I want it all. That's the point.
It's like when you're dating you see each other, you spend some time away and you miss each other. But then you get married and they're standing there 24/7 like a sanam, and nothing's your own. I think that would drive me nuts.
You see ppl that have been dating for years and then they get married and suddenly can't stand each other lol. It's like they're getting an overdose of the other person.
I agree with you. But I want it to be a given, not to ask for it. Do you think it's unhealthy?
"If i get married/when i get married"
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VixR
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Lol. Since you insist on the distinction, it doesn't have to a Somali guy. Heck, the likelihood is somewhere in the neighborhood of unlikely."If i get married/when i get married"
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