So..theres this guy

[Zumar]

We're here for you sis, just PM us his address or his Social media accounts. Waanu garaaci doonaa

Are u serious? You are way too nice you all

 

[Sarah136]

But this is just making me paranoia
Whenever im outside in the train or going to the central station, i think hes somewhere there

Or when im home i will look outside the windows just to make sure he isnt outside waiting for me etc

What does he say in those messages he sends you? If you feel unease I suggest you get everything in order to go to the police

 

[Zumar]

Sounds like he thinks you two are in a relationship. On the plus side at least you got to find out he was a psycho now instead of much later. Sorry that you have to deal w this abayo

Thanks. Im also happy i found it out now instead of mich later
Before i also wasnt sure if i ever wanted to go with a somali guy
But now im 99% sure i want to go with a somali guy in the future

Then this would have never happen to mee
Also most of my friends are cadaan, i was a little bit influenced by them iguess, by going "out" with a guy to know him better etc

The next time it will happen more halal and with a somali guy

Inshallah he will leave me alone in the meanwhile

 

[Figo]

and he wont fuckingg leave me alone
He is emailing me, texting me through othet telephone numbers
Hes texting my friends
He would even call me with more numbers

And now when i blocked him on everything hes treatening me to come to my home

I didnt even had a relationship with him..smh i hate cadaans, they are literally sick in their head

Dont know why im saying this anyways but i wanted to drop this off my shoulders i gues

You've blocked me everywhere but here we are. This is my den. Xagee baad u carari now my good lady

 

[Hemaal]

I thought haha
Sorry my english isnt that good
But i thought that at first
Now he is obviously not a good giy with manners

But at first he seemed so good
He had a job, he was social and caring, treat me good etc

I bet he had a criminal record too not that you know of

 

[merka]

You've blocked me everywhere but here we are. This is my den. Xagee baad u carari now my good lady

 

[El padrone]

I thought haha
Sorry my english isnt that good
But i thought that at first
Now he is obviously not a good giy with manners

But at first he seemed so good
He had a job, he was social and caring, treat me good etc

what? so u dated him? naw i take back my offer. dont be one of those girls who lead men then scream hes creep and stalking me blah blah etc. face him and be civil. let him know he was just one of the plates you keep spinning lol. i mean if i were you i would have treated the poor guy differently. leave no animosity and just tell him its over and not compatible etc and be reasonable.
if you cut the relation this way you are makin him bitter and obsessed without fuckin closure of what happend in other words youre creating a would be school shooter.

 

[Bonjour]

This Arab guy was bothering me, and all I did was tell him that if he doesn't stop bothering me I'll get my older brother to deal with him he then stopped like the coward he is. You should threaten him and say you will get your cousins to deal with him, then he might stop bothering you.

 

[Figo]

Waxay carartaba she ends up in my neck of the woods.

Walle you're not running away from me. Ilma yar camal lugaha ba silsalad kaga xirin.

 

[Bahal]

You've blocked me everywhere but here we are. This is my den. Xagee baad u carari now my good lady

This nigga

 

[Zumar]

I bet he had a criminal record too not that you know of

I dont think so, he had a pretty good job and yes i had proof of his job, he would go to work in a suit etc

Im not stupid pls

 

[Figo]

This Arab guy was bothering me, and all I did was tell him that if he doesn't stop bothering me I'll get my older brother to deal with him he then stopped like the coward he is. You should threaten him and say you will get your cousins to deal with him, then he might stop bothering you.

Neef daqaysa ba tahay
Get your brother or cousins is the best idea you could think of. Gaajaadii ba kugu dilaacday walle

 

[Zumar]

This Arab guy was bothering me, and all I did was tell him that if he doesn't stop bothering me I'll get my older brother to deal with him he then stopped like the coward he is. You should threaten him and say you will get your cousins to deal with him, then he might stop bothering you.

I DID i said him i will get my father and cousins to his home adress but maybe he knows im bluffinf because i dont have a father who is there for me
Or even a cousin etc

I also threaten him to tell the police if h ever bothers me again

But he bothers me everyday so idk

Its just been 2 weeks so maybe theres hope after a month?

 

[paramedic]

I'd just be very careful tbh. Cadaan men are spoiled and feel very entitled, when things don't go their way they snap.

I'd avoid calling the mom to tell him to cool down and go straight to the court for the restraining order.

I know you said he's Muslim but he should know that his behaviour isn't acceptable and if it's scaring you then all the more to get help.

 

[Jeesto]

Are u serious? You are way too nice you all

Wallah i'm down, if you're willing to give us his social media accounts It's time we teach him to not mess with us Somalis.
You're from the netherlands, right?? Can he speak English?

Reer Holland step forward and help the sister.

 

[Bahal]

Since he's Muslim apparently, tell him you feel that it's haram to talk to a non-mahram guy

 

[Zumar]

Wallah i'm down, if you willing to give us his Social media accounts Nigga needs to know to not mess with us Somalis.
You're from the netherlands, right?? Can he speak English?

Reer Holland step forward and help the sister.

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But i will think about it
I obviously trust you guys i mean you are somali etc
But not everything on the internet is as good as it seems

I will consider it thanks

 

[Mohamud]

Waxay carartaba she ends up in my neck of the woods.

Walle you're not running away from me. Ilma yar camal lugaha ba silsalad kaga xirin.

i'm weak

 

[paramedic]

Since he's Muslim apparently, tell him you feel that it's haram to talk to a non-mahram guy

Never talk to him, ask a mutual friend or his mom but never open any channel of communication unless you want him to think there's a chance of getting back together

 

[Zumar]

Since he's Muslim apparently, tell him you feel that it's haram to talk to a non-mahram guy

I told him this at the beginning of ramadan
Im fasting so thats the main reason why i ignored him on the first place
But even when ramadan is done i dont want to talk with him ever again

But he told me "its not bad to talk when you are thinking about marriage" lol