first of all is there a reason why you don't want inform the police about this?
Its just been like 2 weeks that he is actually a problem
I dont want to make it worser than it is..maybe he is over it in 2 weeks i dont know
But i feel like what he has done till now (texting me that he misses me, he doesnt wants to lose me, he wants to talk to me in real because i suddenly broke off all contact and wants to come to my house)
I mean he didnt hit me, or stalked me in real life
It are just his messages that are annoying
And i know police in holland dont take these things that serious
So im now gathering all his messages etc and when i going to far wallahi ill go to police..but for now it seems like i cant do nothing