So..theres this guy

[Zumar]

Dont know if i have to feel guilty for this?
I didnt do nothing with him
Also I didnt promise him anything
It feels like i made a big mistake but i never thought at first this would happen (i know i shouldnt have talked to him in the first place, its against my belief also..bad thing to go against your belief man)

We only went for dinner and now hes becoming crazy because i told him:
I dont want no relationship, at least untill im done with uni and also dont want anything with him because of culture and so on

Cant believe there are really guys like this who want to force you having a relationship with m

But anyways this wont happen ever again, learned much from this

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Cadaan men have creepy stalkerish tendencies so im not surprised by this. I would carry pepper spray if i was you just to stay safe cause it looks like hes going ti not stop any time soon. Next time learn to pick your men more wisely

 

[Mudug-Madman]

Dont know if i have to feel guilty for this?
I didnt do nothing with him
Also I didnt promise him anything
It feels like i made a big mistake but i never thought at first this would happen (i know i shouldnt have talked to him in the first place, its against my belief also..bad thing to go against your belief man)

We only went for dinner and now hes becoming crazy because i told him:
I dont want no relationship, at least untill im done with uni and also dont want anything with him because of culture and so on

Cant believe there are really guys like this who want to force you having a relationship with m

But anyways this wont happen ever again, learned much from this

Gather all his messages, emails, and any other evidence, and go to the police.

 

[agnes]

Oke so his mom ignored me, didnt expect this at all
So i have sent him a threatening message Because he didnt stop too

And now hopefully he doesnt text me ever again..

Also i googled how i could get a restraining order, but its harder than i thought it was, especially in holland..

So yeah wanted to share this..

I gave you a link that can help you

 

[Zumar]

I found you a support group in NL for women that are stalked here is the link:

https://www.stichtingzijweg.nl/stalking

They are experts in this so contact them.

Thanks i didnt see this at first
I will look into it
Are u from holland too?

 

[Zumar]

Cadaan men have creepy stalkerish tendencies so im not surprised by this. I would carry pepper spray if i was you just to stay safe cause it looks like hes going ti not stop any time soon. Next time learn to pick your men more wisely

I know right, but to be true i didnt had many "rolemodel" men in my life who taught me these sort of things

This guy seemed decent and also a good muslim..he has a good job, always decent clothes, good manners.. but this will never happen to mee again

Now i know i better should date a somali guy in the future haha

 

[oday1kenobi]

Police wont do nothing tbh
He didnt rape me, ever touch me, till this day he didnt come to my house, do you understand what i mean?

He didnt do something wrong to get the police
Its just his threatening

But now i have told his best friend, thats a good muslim guy and he would talk to him for me

Didnt know there were really guys who would threaten you becuase you dont want a relationship with m...like at first he was pretty decent guy and now hes hating me because im done

That is still harassment regardless if there was no physical contact throughout the relationship.

As others stated here, hold on to messages & voicemails and press on with the police/authorities.

Most of all, do not feel guilty and/or sympathise with him. You owe him nothing.

 

[Zumar]

This is still harassment regardless if there was no physical contact throughout the relationship.

As others stated here, hold on to messages & voicemails and press on with the police/authorities.

Most of all, do not feel guilty and/or sympathise with him. You owe him nothing.

Ofcourse i dont owe him nothing
But im scared he will blackmail me with things he made up

So thats the reason why i screenshotted all his mails en texts

But im now waiting till thursday, his best friend will talk to him for me