About what we Somali spot forum discussed a few days ago. About whether women without children are jealous, whether it is their choice or Qadr from Allaah swt.
So most of the women were blaming their relatives who have no kids on them. Mostly their relatives are over 35, never married and no kids of course.
Most Somali mothers agree with each other that, these women refused men proposals and therefore it is their fault.
I was the only one who had a different opinion.
I told them if it was in their destiny to have kids, they would have had kids. I mean, personally, Basra if I had the choice I would never have kids. I was tricked at 14.
Anywayz…...I used a hadith that sort of brought silence in the room.
Do u know the hadith of Prophet Adam being shown by Allaah swt all his progeny???? And then prophet Adam pbuh said who is that shinning star, and he was told, that is prophet Daud pbuh. And then he asked how long will he live? He was told 60 years, prophet Adam pbuh said, oh no, can I give him 40 of my years? Allaah swt said yes.
Later when the angel of death approached Prophet Adam pbuh to take his soul, he said wait I still have 40 years left.
As being a human, it is his nature to forget. He was told …..Did u forget you gave prophet Daud pbuh 40 years? Daud lived upto 100.
So the moral of this story is---Allaah swt has already decree all children of Adam who will live, & were lined up before him. That means they exist, they will exist. Don't you think---logically--- if these Xalimos supposed child was one of these humans lined up, don't you think somehow, someway, she will have the baby by the Qadr of Allaah swt?
So therefore, the power to have kids does not depend upon the "will" of man or woman but by
Allaah swt.
Case closed.
PS The room was silent for a few seconds. (and I enjoyed it immensely loooooooooooooooooooooool)
So most of the women were blaming their relatives who have no kids on them. Mostly their relatives are over 35, never married and no kids of course.
Most Somali mothers agree with each other that, these women refused men proposals and therefore it is their fault.
I was the only one who had a different opinion.
I told them if it was in their destiny to have kids, they would have had kids. I mean, personally, Basra if I had the choice I would never have kids. I was tricked at 14.
Anywayz…...I used a hadith that sort of brought silence in the room.
Do u know the hadith of Prophet Adam being shown by Allaah swt all his progeny???? And then prophet Adam pbuh said who is that shinning star, and he was told, that is prophet Daud pbuh. And then he asked how long will he live? He was told 60 years, prophet Adam pbuh said, oh no, can I give him 40 of my years? Allaah swt said yes.
Later when the angel of death approached Prophet Adam pbuh to take his soul, he said wait I still have 40 years left.
As being a human, it is his nature to forget. He was told …..Did u forget you gave prophet Daud pbuh 40 years? Daud lived upto 100.
So the moral of this story is---Allaah swt has already decree all children of Adam who will live, & were lined up before him. That means they exist, they will exist. Don't you think---logically--- if these Xalimos supposed child was one of these humans lined up, don't you think somehow, someway, she will have the baby by the Qadr of Allaah swt?
So therefore, the power to have kids does not depend upon the "will" of man or woman but by
Allaah swt.
Case closed.
PS The room was silent for a few seconds. (and I enjoyed it immensely loooooooooooooooooooooool)
