Single mothers aren’t to blame

[Averagegyallie]

Why do people always blame single mothers for everything? A boy turns into a gangster “he grew up in a dysfunctional single mother home” girl becomes a “ it’s cuz she has no father figure and is raised by a single mother”. I think single mothers are the best mothers out there they’re hardworking, determined and spoil there kids with love.

 

[babooshke]

Nobody is trying to blame single mothers, but you have to be naive to think 2 parent household don't produce better kids.

This whole, "1 parent can raise a kid just fine" narrative trying to normalize single parent households has to stop. We have centuries of history that shows kids grow up better with 2 parents.

 

[IftiinOfLife]

I was raised with extreme discipline , I don’t know where the single mother spoiling their kids , bullshit stereotype came from.

Also , I think it’s easy to blame whose around , rather then a ghost figure called a father.

 

[Averagegyallie]

Nobody is trying to blame single mothers, but you have to be naive to think 2 parent household don't produce better kids.

This whole, "1 parent can raise a kid just fine" narrative trying to normalize single parent households has to stop. We have centuries of history that shows kids grow up better with 2 parents.

But we should notmalise it. It’s okay being raised by a single mother because your dad is trash and ran away from his responsibilities. I don’t think 2 household parents produce better kids especially when if they are in a toxic relationship that just creates a unhealthy environment for the child

 

[Averagegyallie]

I was raised with extreme discipline , I don’t know where the single mother spoiling their kids , bullshit stereotype came from.

Also , I think it’s easy to blame whose around , rather then a ghost figure called a father.

Well that’s your expirence I ind that single mothers are generally more affectionate towards theirs kids. But yes I do agree we tend to blame those around because it’s easier

 

[babooshke]

But we should notmalise it. It’s okay being raised by a single mother because your dad is trash and ran away from his responsibilities. I don’t think 2 household parents produce better kids especially when if they are in a toxic relationship that just creates a unhealthy environment for the child

You really don't think 2 parent household produce a better kid?

You don't think having 2 streams of income alleviates financial pressure for households?

You don't think having a father figure has a positive impact on sons?

You don't think having a 2nd parent that can care for a child is good?

come on now.

 

[KobeBryant]

A women can raise a girl to be a women. But how can a women teach a boy who to be a man? My father taught me things my mother couldn’t teach me. Nobody is blaming single mother, we should blame fathers who leave there boys. But a women can’t teach boy how to be a man.

 

[babooshke]

I've never understood black women(including somali women) and their love for single motherhood

Why would you want to raise a child on your own and why would you support that idea.

 

[TekNiKo]

My father taught me how to be a real man, he taught me responsobility, tips on handling women, mechanics, driving, leadership and pride in my lineage.

Alx I had a dad around!

 

[Averagegyallie]

You really don't think 2 parent household produce a better kid?

You don't think having 2 streams of income alleviates financial pressure for households?

You don't think having a father figure has a positive impact on sons?

You don't think having a 2nd parent that can care for a child is good?

come on now.

Yes I think it’s good but I also don’t think it makes a difference especially if your dad is there but not there like a lot of Somali dads if you know what I mean.

 

[Averagegyallie]

A women can raise a girl to be a women. But how can a women teach a boy who to be a man? My father taught me things my mother couldn’t teach me. Nobody is blaming single mother, we should blame fathers who leave there boys. But women can teach man how to be a man.

A women can teach a man how to be a man aswell just the same as a father if not better

 

[Averagegyallie]

I've never understood black women(including somali women) and their love for single motherhood

Why would you want to raise a child on your own and why would you support that idea.

Lol no one is glamourising single mothers we are simply saying stop looking down on them. And yes I fucking love single mothers so what ?

 

[KobeBryant]

A women can teach a man how to be a man aswell just the same as a father if not better

Are you delusional right now or trolling. A women cannot teach a boy certain male life skills. He will either get them from streets, older friends, an uncle.

 

[Tukraq]

A women can teach a man how to be a man aswell just the same as a father if not better

your arguing with stats here at this point

 

[Averagegyallie]

My father taught me how to be a real man, he taught me responsobility, tips on handling women, mechanics, driving, leadership and pride in my lineage.

Alx I had a dad around!

Mashallah but your mothers could have taught you that aswell. Stop undermining the ability of mothers

 

[Yukon_Niner]

They tend to be poorer because there's only one person and you know what that means.

 

[Averagegyallie]

Are you delusional right now or trolling. A women cannot teach a boy certain male life skills. He will either get them from streets, older friends, an uncle.

A responsible mother can teach all the male skills to their son you done have to have a dick to be able to do that

 

[land owner]

I know who to blame and it isn’t single mothers or fathers

 

[Averagegyallie]

your arguing with stats here at this point

What stats? Because from what I’ve seen most these fucked up people I’ve seen have both their parents in their life

 

[Averagegyallie]

They tend to be poorer because there's only one person and you know what that means.

What does that mean?