Simplest way to be more attractive as a man

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

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The courting stage is supposed to be an audition, to show what kind of husband/wife you will be. But there are men out there, that will do the bare minimum, yet, get shocked when they get dumped for a less attractive man (that is actually putting in effort).

There are guys out here, that are showing they are protectors and providers from day 1, after each interaction, the girls debrief with their friends/mother, who will then tell that girl, why that is a 'good man'. These girls will then find ways to recalibrate their brain to find something attractive about that man. Plus, a friendship/trust develops, and then the bonding hormones after the consummation, seals the deal.

When we give advice on here to these guys, who reject it, it's to help them reach the final stage of the courting process. But they want to be stubborn and listen to other miserable men. Waxaa iigu daran, it's free and easy, to listen, ask questions.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

The perfect example of a man who wastes his looks and income. This guy is 6'6, a dentist, and arguably physically attractive. But the way he carries himself, and the way he speaks is truly nauseating. They all popped their balloon, because they saw how he behaved in the previous episode.

Women turn down a wealthy, handsome man, if they are arrogant, ALL THE TIME.
Only women with low self-esteem stick around.

31:32 onwards

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

Except for the few times my parents had me speak to a couple of women when I was younger, it was the woman approaching/showing interest first. Getting a good woman is very easy if you're pleasant. I didn't have to do any work except be pleasant. They will notice and want you. There's really no excuse for an average man to have no woman on their level interested in them and if they are just a naturally nice person, you won't have to do any of the work. You especially don't have to do any of the work if they know other women will be interested in you. Their interest skyrockets once you're in your late 20s/30s. They will stare at you and want a piece of you, even if you're married.

 

[Aseer]

One doesn't ask a fish to fish, but seeks mentorship from the fisherman. Your advice is appreciated but I'll stick to my mewing routine

train your masseters mewing is good but make sure you chew mastic gum or something for your jaw to pop out.

 

[Aseer]

Listen brothers she is right by saying having hygiene, smelling nice and not being arrogant but that wont get you so far they might say "looks isnt everything" but believe me looks take up a huge factor in how your percieved by the opposite gender sure you can smell nice but you look horrendous sure you can be kind but will you be seen for who you really are if you look like crap? do you see what im getting at here? its called the halo effect. so hit the gym, mew and train your jaw, do skincare, grow your hair and take care of it and take steps to achieve your maximum face potential max everything out so you have no flaws.

 

[Aseer]

Here I listes 3 examples on the left is mem who by the worlds standards arent attractive and vice versa on the left now lets say that both of these men practiced hygiene, smelt good and had good personality which would the women choose? the one on ths right. now lets say those on the left are humble but those on the left are arrogant who would you choose? again the right. women would say "i can change him" as some BS excuse to themselves and others for the reason of their choice but deep down we all know they chose for their looks and looks only.

lets see another example of the halo effect

The picture above is of a 18 year old male named cameron herin, he was sentenced to 24 years in prison for running over a woman and her baby in a street racing crash in a 45 mp/h zone going at 120 miles the mother died on the spot and the baby died the next day from injuries but you know what the internet and women thought of this? he was "too handsome for jail" they disregarded what he done and even called for his release from prison some even starting petitions and remember this is a MURDERER we are talking about and all this happened cause of his looks only his actions completely ignored. this isnt the only instance because theres more like...

Richard Ramirez a Convicted serial Killer:

Ted Bundy you all know what he did:

It was the same story with the rest of them thats how potent the halo effect is and how big a role looks play in your lives do you think the men who looked ugly and commited the same crime or less were fawned over? No. This is a cruel world we live in brothers and theres nothing we can do but change ourselves and adapt and not be swallowed by its misfortunes.

I rest my case so to end it I call puntitequeens advice insufficient enough and innacurate that all you need is hygiene, smell and personality.

 

[Farax Jamac Somalicus]

The perfect example of a man who wastes his looks and income. This guy is 6'6, a dentist, and arguably physically attractive. But the way he carries himself, and the way he speaks is truly nauseating. They all popped their balloon, because they saw how he behaved in the previous episode.

Women turn down a wealthy, handsome man, if they are arrogant, ALL THE TIME.
Only women with low self-esteem stick around.

31:32 onwards

No, they turned him down because HE WAS OUT OF THEIR LEAGUE!. The man is an educated, professional that is tall, they knew they would get rejected by him, so they rejected him pre-emptively.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

No, they turned him down because HE WAS OUT OF THEIR LEAGUE!. The man is an educated, professional that is tall, they knew they would get rejected by him, so they rejected him pre-emptively.

False, they rejected him because he was on a previous episode and was very arrogant to the women. This time, they knew what to expect, and he delivered the same nasty attitude. He's not out of anybody's league with that attitude. In fact, he can't even get a date on a reality dating show.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I rest my case so to end it I call puntitequeens advice insufficient enough and innacurate that all you need is hygiene, smell and personality.

Depending on the person, one or all of these things are missing. And it's everyone's responsibility to list their issues and flaws, and tackle them. Some men are cute, but unhygienic, a simple wash and some nice cologne will do the trick. Some men, are cute, but over or underweight, they need to work out, some men are not so cute, but a good haircut and nice clothes will elevate their appearance etc, etc.

There is no 'one size fits all' approach.

But truthfully, one of the most glaring issues, is the lack of physical grooming that is evident in modern times.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Except for the few times my parents had me speak to a couple of women when I was younger, it was the woman approaching/showing interest first.

This will not work for everyone, not every man will be approached first, and the girls that do this, tend to be impatient or have masculine energy. There are also guys with angry resting faces, even though they are sweethearts, nobody is approaching those guys. They'll probably not even get a smile.

Getting a good woman is very easy if you're pleasant. I didn't have to do any work except be pleasant. They will notice and want you. There's really no excuse for an average man to have no woman on their level interested in them and if they are just a naturally nice person, you won't have to do any of the work.

Don't advice them to not do 'any of the work', that's counter productive, and will only keep and attract women with low self-esteem, and even that will breed resentment.

You especially don't have to do any of the work if they know other women will be interested in you. Their interest skyrockets once you're in your late 20s/30s. They will stare at you and want a piece of you, even if you're married.

Again, with the advice of 'not doing any work'.

You seem inclined to want masculine energy from a woman, but that's not suitable for everyone, certainly not men that like to lead.

 

[Vapour]

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Here I listes 3 examples on the left is mem who by the worlds standards arent attractive and vice versa on the left now lets say that both of these men practiced hygiene, smelt good and had good personality which would the women choose? the one on ths right. now lets say those on the left are humble but those on the left are arrogant who would you choose? again the right. women would say "i can change him" as some BS excuse to themselves and others for the reason of their choice but deep down we all know they chose for their looks and looks only.

lets see another example of the halo effect
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The picture above is of a 18 year old male named cameron herin, he was sentenced to 24 years in prison for running over a woman and her baby in a street racing crash in a 45 mp/h zone going at 120 miles the mother died on the spot and the baby died the next day from injuries but you know what the internet and women thought of this? he was "too handsome for jail" they disregarded what he done and even called for his release from prison some even starting petitions and remember this is a MURDERER we are talking about and all this happened cause of his looks only his actions completely ignored. this isnt the only instance because theres more like...

Richard Ramirez a Convicted serial Killer:

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Ted Bundy you all know what he did:

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It was the same story with the rest of them thats how potent the halo effect is and how big a role looks play in your lives do you think the men who looked ugly and commited the same crime or less were fawned over? No. This is a cruel world we live in brothers and theres nothing we can do but change ourselves and adapt and not be swallowed by its misfortunes.

I rest my case so to end it I call puntitequeens advice insufficient enough and innacurate that all you need is hygiene, smell and personality.

The end product of mental illness and unemployment.

 

[Aseer]

Depending on the person, one or all of these things are missing. And it's everyone's responsibility to list their issues and flaws, and tackle them. Some men are cute, but unhygienic, a simple wash and some nice cologne will do the trick. Some men, are cute, but over or underweight, they need to work out, some men are not so cute, but a good haircut and nice clothes will elevate their appearance etc, etc.

There is no 'one size fits all' approach.

But truthfully, one of the most glaring issues, is the lack of physical grooming that is evident in modern times.

Exactly everyone is different and needs to look inwards and see what they need to change.

 

[Aseer]

The end product of mental illness and unemployment.
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I am perfrctly normal but I do think alot when it comes to topics like this cause I experienced it firsthand.

 

[Mudug_gyal]

@Mudug_gyal

If you are money-sexual, and especially, if you are fine with polygamy, you can get a Somali man with money. I think we need a thread on how to lock down these targets, for the sprinkle, sprinkle's.

Abayo isnt it kinda gay to use the same equipment thats been in other women? I swear thats very sus

 

[Bari]

Abayo isnt it kinda gay to use the same equipment thats been in other women? I swear thats very sus

Be careful with what you say, try not to insinuate a halal practice in our religion with that word.

 

[Mudug_gyal]

Be careful with what you say, try not to insinuate a halal practice in our religion with that word.

Sorry I just want to make it clear that I dont like women like that.

 

[Mudug_gyal]

@Mudug_gyal

If you are money-sexual, and especially, if you are fine with polygamy, you can get a Somali man with money. I think we need a thread on how to lock down these targets, for the sprinkle, sprinkle's.

PLEASE do

 

[Garsoore]

Abayo isnt it kinda gay to use the same equipment thats been in other women? I swear thats very sus

Nothing's wrong with a little fruitiness. What's life without colours after all?

 

[Mudug_gyal]

Nothing's wrong with a little fruitiness. What's life without colours after all?

 

[Yami]

Just be a hot and kind nigga