Should somali men mind their business?

[Ozymandias]

Tiktok went absolutely crazy today when fathiya cabsiye revealed that she married an cadaan man, and all the xalimos were congratulating her and simultaneously chatting crap about somali men. I think it's time we left xalimos to their own devices, or at least branched out when it comes to marital prospects, this shit opened to my eyes to the level of disdain that the average somali woman has about somali men

 

[mohamedismail]

I totally agree in us Somali men minding our business when it comes to Somali women and who they choose to marry.

But the reason why there is such a outcry is because of the fact this women's social media page is built on bashing somali men. Add that to marrying a cadaan man makes it even worse. Why speak about Somali community and our issues when you are a divestor.

 

[Ozymandias]

I totally agree in us Somali men minding our business when it comes to Somali women and who they choose to marry.

But the reason why there is such a outcry is because of the fact this women's social media page is built on bashing somali men. Add that to marrying a cadaan man makes it even worse. Why speak about Somali community and our issues when you are a divestor.

Well she has a right to voice her opinions imo, I don't believe in censorship when it comes to platforms, you can debunk statements regarding any topic as are you open to criticism. Anyways but yeah, somali men need to stop viewing xalimos as 'their women' it's a mindset with low ROI lol

 

[Lebron James]

Theres no such thing as ethnic loyalty especially in our community, just live your life my guy. Ignore the divestors

 

[Cush]

Tiktok went absolutely crazy today when fathiya cabsiye revealed that she married an cadaan man, and all the xalimos were congratulating her and simultaneously chatting crap about somali men. I think it's time we left xalimos to their own devices, or at least branched out when it comes to marital prospects, this shit opened to my eyes to the level of disdain that the average somali woman has about somali men

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[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Years of being on social media should’ve opened your eyes best to not give divestors any attention

 

[Bundasliga]

Yes brother mind your business. Don't care about these people & live your life.

They have cugdad in their hearts & you doing them a favour by giving then attention.

 

[Qeelbax]

She did what

 

[Odious Delirium]

Their whole goal is to make all Somali men angry to give them attention, if you stay quiet and don't give them attention they will all shut up and come running to you

Saw this earlier today...

 

[Qeelbax]

Theres no such thing as ethnic loyalty especially in our community, just live your life my guy. Ignore the divestors

How are you a self hater and divestor telling others to ignore divestors

 

[Khaemwaset]

Well she has a right to voice her opinions imo, I don't believe in censorship when it comes to platforms, you can debunk statements regarding any topic as are you open to criticism. Anyways but yeah, somali men need to stop viewing xalimos as 'their women' it's a mindset with low ROI lol

She has a right to voice her opinion and so do we. How does it make sense for her to talk smack about somali guys but we must refrain from responding? That just breeds idiots with a big mouth who've never faced the consequences of their words.

somali men need to stop viewing xalimos as 'their women' it's a mindset with low ROI lol

Bro all men from all ethnicities are at least a bit protective over their female counterparts. It's our nature.

 

[Abu Hesi]

Some of these girls have daddy issues or some faarax broke their heart; either way, we are not a therapist, best to avoid them.

If they want to heal, they should talk to a psychiatrist.

 

[Garaad Awal]

Who cares who random Somali women marry or say.As long as they don’t try to attempt Liberal Da’wah to our community

 

[Nin123]

Tiktok went absolutely crazy today when fathiya cabsiye revealed that she married an cadaan man, and all the xalimos were congratulating her and simultaneously chatting crap about somali men. I think it's time we left xalimos to their own devices, or at least branched out when it comes to marital prospects, this shit opened to my eyes to the level of disdain that the average somali woman has about somali men

Hopefully this lady fathiya cabsiye don’t mention farax names again. Matter fact never talk about Somali politics again since she married cadaan.

 

[Ozymandias]

That’s her when she was young yup she was dh
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Bro waxaan naga jooji, showing her immodest pictures to the website is ceeb, imagine if it was your sister. I ain't even even muslim but even I know this shit fam

 

[Nin123]

Bro waxaan naga jooji, showing her immodest pictures to the website is ceeb, imagine if it was your sister. I ain't even even muslim but even I know this shit fam

It’s not my fault she took this picture of herself and am free to post it if I want it.

 

[Angelina]

That’s her when she was young yup she was dh
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That’s not her you liar! Why would you do that? I know you’re a kid and it’s disgusting that many parents aren’t checking their kids internet use. Stop this at once!

 

[Nin123]

That’s not her you liar! Why would you do that? I know you’re a kid and it’s disgusting that many parents aren’t checking their kids internet use. Stop this at once!

What do you mean that’s not her? Don’t you see the resemblance. And naya who you calling kid? I know what you trying to do by calling me kid you sneaky.

 

[Angelina]

What do you mean that’s not her? Don’t you see the resemblance. And naya who you calling kid? I know what you trying to do by calling me kid you sneaky.

I know you’re a child.

 

[Nin123]

I know you’re a child.

Whatever suits you