Seeing as many of our somali girls are mashallah, some of us are gonna be faced with marrying a woman who makes or will make more than us. If your wife is a foctor, no matter what Stem degree u have, she'll end up making more. So it'll only make sense that when you have kids, ninka will stay home and take care of the kids. My wife being the provider and me forced to rock some kids on my blossoming hips (seeing as how your estrogen levels would probably sky rocket) would probably shatter me, not a good outlook but it is what it is. I couldn't handle it. How would y'all feel is this hypothetical situation?