[SERIOUS] Should your future wife tell you if she's a virgin or not?

[jabsveg276]

I was on ClubHouse and it was quite an interesting debate.

A lot of Xalimos were saying that the womens sins are between her and Allah and they she should not expose them, even to her husband. They were also saying that women get shamed for not being virgins so they want to protect themselves.

Lot's of Faraaxs were saying that if they were virgins their whole lives, they would want to marry someone who's a virgin. They also said that if a woman lies about her virginity before the marriage, it says a lot about her character and her morals, and that it would be a waste of money/time.

Thoughts? I can see where both sides are coming from but I'm goint to lean in with the faraaxs on this one. I would want to know EVERYTHING about my wifes past (If I'm going to spend the rest of my life with her), and I assume she would want to know everything about me.

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[exposedmeat]

The best somali woman are in badiyo,

 

[jabsveg276]

The best somali woman are in badiyo,

Huh?

 

[exposedmeat]

j

Huh?

just marry an aggressive and malab, dumb Xalimo from badiyo

 

[jabsveg276]

j

just marry an aggressive and dumb Xalimo from badiyo

Inshallah I marry a macaan virgin from the depths of badiyo

 

[pirater]

The best somali woman are in badiyo,

she's from baadiye. magaceeda Naadiye

 

[exposedmeat]

she's from baadiye. magaceeda Naadiye

she calls me abiyo

 

[elite1337]

A virgin should be able to marry a virgin, as simple as that
Theres no need to lie about it. Its scummy from both sides

 

[pirater]

I'll marry a virgin if I waited my whole life to get married as a virgin. I wait my whole life just to get married because "deen over dunya". I'd be pissed if my wife was not a virgin. But if I am not a virgin i wouldn't mind if she isn't and would disclose that information before marriage.

 

[elite1337]

I'll marry a virgin if I waited my whole life to get married as a virgin. I wait my whole life just to get married because "deen over dunya". I'd be pissed if my wife was not a virgin. But if I am not a virgin i wouldn't mind if she isn't and would disclose that information before marriage.

Facts, if you lie about being a virgin a divorce is happening

 

[pirater]

Facts, if you lie about being a virgin a divorce is happening

yea. I'd want my wife to be the first with me. I would want us both to be each others first and to both have waited for marriage as a virgin. but if I'm not a virgin or if she's not a virgin we both better tell each other

 

[jabsveg276]

yea. I'd want my wife to be the first with me. I would want us both to be each others first and to both have waited for marriage as a virgin. but if I'm not a virgin or if she's not a virgin we both better tell each other

Exactly. I want a wife that will be with me for life, and one that we experience new things with together.

 

[pirater]

she calls me abiyo

she calls me aabo

 

[Lostbox]

The only bad things about Virgin wife nobody talks about, there is a more like chance she as not interested is anything in the else in the bedroom other then going to sleeping or the biggest compliment I hear, rarely any magic in the bedroom

On the opposite end, I know only a few Abdis that are struggling to keep up with their wife/ex or still going through the honeymoon phase it years later

I know this will sound very rude but they settle with women that are known to easily put out or got a bad reputation from the place we are all from

Not saying you should go for them

Just my 2 cents

 

[Empress of Hawiye]

ofc and ik this is bait farahs do the same u know

 

[pirater]

The only bad things about Virgin wife nobody talks about, there is a more like chance she as not interested is anything in the else in the bedroom other then going to sleeping or the biggest compliment I hear, rarely any magic in the bedroom

On the opposite end, I know only a few Abdis that are struggling to keep up with their wife/ex or still going at it years later

I know this will sound very rude but they settle with women that are known to easily put out or got a bad reputation from the place we are all from

Not saying you should go for them

Just my 2 cents

a virgin for over 20 years is probably going to have low libido

 

[trucel]

You cant expose your sins to others tho , but i would be upset if my wife to be was a hoe.

 

[Xaruun]

The only bad things about Virgin wife nobody talks about, there is a more like chance she as not interested is anything in the else in the bedroom other then going to sleeping or the biggest compliment I hear, rarely any magic in the bedroom

On the opposite end, I know only a few Abdis that are struggling to keep up with their wife/ex or still going at it years later

I know this will sound very rude but they settle with women that are known to easily put out or got a bad reputation from the place we are all from

Not saying you should go for them

Just my 2 cents

If she lies about being a virgin then she’ll probably act like a prude in the bedroom

 

[Empress of Hawiye]

You cant expose your sins to others tho , but i would be upset if my wife to be was a ***.

your a guy?!?!?

 

[pirater]

your a guy?!?!?

its a guy????????