Self love

[Luciddreamer]

A very abused and violated word.

But i think i get it now.

Self love can be achieved by being selfless.

By fully acknowledging what your people are.
Both the good and more importantly the bad.

If you can turn your peoples suffering and the image of that suffering into pity and compassion.
Love will start creeping in.

And love is the most powerful thing.

It will give you the strength and power to make scarifies for your people.
It makes you work for your parents, your wife, your children, your community.
It gives your life purpose. It fills you with motivation.

Recently my heart and spirit has been feeling lighter and with more clarity.
Its hard to explain, its like a weight has been lifted and the fog has cleared within me.

This started when i accepted my attraction for our women. I stopped unconsciously resisting the attraction.
Something shifted in me and my dreams started to change.

And again i felt this way when i stopped resisting our faith.
Despite how my mind works against me, my heart still remains the same.

Love cant be lost, its just buried by time and pain.

I will never underestimate the power of love and belonging.
Without it the world is lonely, heavy and dark place.

 

[Luciddreamer]

@ZakWantsToPlay got any more somali books recommendations?

Specifically about history and tribes.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

A very abused and violated word.

But i think i get it now.

Self love can be achieved by being selfless.

By fully acknowledging what your people are.
Both the good and more importantly the bad.

If you can turn your peoples suffering and the image of that suffering into pity and compassion.
Love will start creeping in.

And love is the most powerful thing.

It will give you the strength and power to make scarifies for your people.
It makes you work for your parents, your wife, your children, your community.
It gives your life purpose. It fills you with motivation.

Recently my heart and spirit has been feeling lighter and with more clarity.
Its hard to explain, its like a weight has been lifted and the fog has cleared within me.

This started when i accepted my attraction for our women. I stopped unconsciously resisting the attraction.
Something shifted in me and my dreams started to change.

And again i felt this way when i stopped resisting our faith.
Despite how my mind works against me, my heart still remains the same.

Love cant be lost, its just buried by time and pain.

I will never underestimate the power of love and belonging.
Without it the world is lonely, heavy and dark place.

Saxib, in light hearted joke, being a sijui is a downer. I am assuming you were born in Kenya? Somalis from there have the same mindset of a kikuyu in the sense that the mzungu is God walkiing on earth. This can explain how enthralled you were with the blue eyed blond Nordisk hotties lol.

Glad you are now thinking like a cool old FOB from Somalia full of slef-respect and pride in their Nomadic Origin and culture.

Sorry, this is tough-love message. Will post a more appropriate response since I got my first reaction to your awesome post about your important turn-around out of the way.

There is nothing like Somalia wallahi. IT DOES WODNERS FOR SELF-ESTEEM. You can always count on a somali from Somalia proper no matter where in Somalia they come from, From hargeisa to kismayo, they are solid.

I embrace thee brother, no homo




will be back in a little while and tag you inshallah. Love from your Older brother.

 

[Luciddreamer]

Saxib, in light hearted joke, being a sijui is downer. I am assuming you were born in Kenya? Somalis from there have the smae mindset of a kikuyu in the sense that the mzungu is God walkiing on earth. This can explain how enthralled you were with the blue eyed blond Nordisk hotties.

Glad you are now thinking like cool old FOB from Somalia full pf slef-respect and pride in their Nomaid Origina and culture.

Sorry, this is tough love. Will psot a most approriate response since I said my first reaction to your awesome post about your important turn-around.

There is nothing like Somalia wallahi. IT DOES WODNERS FOR SELF-ESTEEM. You can always count on a somali from Somalia proper no matter where in Somalia they come from, From hargeisa to kismayo, they are solid.

I embrace thee brother, no homo




will be back in a little while and tag you inshallah. Love from your Older brother.

I knew you would be the only one to understand

However i was born and raised in Scandinavia.

My attraction for these Norwegians are because they are more promiscuous than our women.
They flash themselves and they give it up easily.

But i only saw that and not the value of the akhlaaq and loyalty of our own women.
And that ended up in me seeing them as these prude and covered girls.

My own lust and impatience was the cause, not our women.

You can never trust or be fully loyal to a women outside your race.
Nor can you achieve true love and wholeness unless youre prepared to kill a
fundamental part of yourself.

 

[Samaalic Era]

@Luciddreamer
That was quite philosophical sxb. It moved me a bit

 

[Luciddreamer]

@Luciddreamer
That was quite philosophical sxb. It moved me a bit

Thank you sxb, i feel something fundamental is changing in me.
It can only be love.

 

[IftiinOfLife]

Self love is forgiving and accepting yourself

Even when the world tells you not too.

It’s a higher/ascended state of living.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

I knew you would be the only one to understand

However i was born and raised in Scandinavia.

My attraction for these Norwegians are because they are more promiscuous than our women.
They flash themselves and they give it up easily.

But i only saw that and not the value of the akhlaaq and loyalty of our own women.
And that ended up in me seeing them as these prude and covered girls.

My own lust and impatience was the cause, not our women.

You can never trust or be fully loyal to a women outside your race.
Nor can you achieve true love and wholeness unless youre prepared to kill a
fundamental part of yourself.

Breh, there is always danger associated with interrcial relationships. Many guys were burnt by their nonsomali girlfriends. One guy was once hauled in for questioning to the police station when he texted his girlfriend "to forgive him" after a bad break-up because she thought he was about to committ suicide To anyone outside your race, no matter how much you have in common with them, you will be the other in their eyes. Walk tall and proud. Be known for who you are rather than who you want to be.

There is comfort level in a somali woman no other woman can give to you. You don't have to worry about sacrificing part of you to accomodate her when it comes to fundamental culture issues. Identity matters saxib. Stick to yours without seeking to offend or harm others.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

Btw Lucciddreamer, the somali female scandis like you would be more than enough. You have something in common on top of the usual connection through blood. So it all works out good when you meet one. Same local experience with that somali comfort level, all perfect.

Besides, somali girls might be conservative on the surface and restrained for cultural reasons - not criticizing- but when it comes to intimate relationships, they are open to fun like others saxib. At basic level, every human being with desires wants to fulfill those desires and have fun noh? Your fears of them being unwilling to explore the fun is a bias that has no support. It is the mentality of Robin(the gal on here) who thinks black guys are more fun than somali guys and have bigger dicks. It is all what young somalis not exposed to their kind think. Truth is different. Embrace yourself(somalis).