Nah, there's definitely a difference in opinion on if you're marrying out to a Black guy or a White/Arab/literally-whatever-else guy. It's not the same, it considered worse if he's Black like you went too savage. There's a hatred across the board, but there's levels to it with Blacks being at the bottom. Girls get the usual hate from the community with a more pronounced racist overtone than usual, whilst guys get a lot of puzzled head-scratchers, "...like that's the best he could do, that's not a woman it a beast, that's a downgrade la hawla, etc".