Second marriages

[Shamis]

I want to have a quiet wedding where only relatives and a few friends come but my fiance wants to splurge on a big wedding. I thinks it's kind of ceeb for a divorcee to have a huge wedding. I already had a massive wedding when I was in my early twenties and now that I'm creeping into my mid thirties I think it's a bit inappropriate to have a big white wedding. What do you think?

 

[Lsma]

Lol what kind of cuck wants a big wedding? Dudes don't think too big on wedding. Is either he's a closet homo or you frauding.

 

[Shamis]

Lol what kind of cuck wants a big wedding? Dudes don't think too big on wedding. Is either he's a closet homo or you frauding.

He does, he wants to show off that's why.

 

[Lostbox]

He does, he wants to show off that's why.

Don't listen to that troll.

 

[Lsma]

He does, he wants to show off that's why.

Most dudes want a low key wedding because it reduces cost. It always the females that want big weddings.

Anyways, to answer your question - superficial marriages and weddings don't last long.

 

[World]

He does, he wants to show off that's why.

But you’re a divorced single mother, what is there to show off?

 

[Shamis]

Most dudes want a low key wedding because it reduces cost. It always the females that want big weddings.

Anyways, to answer your question - superficial marriages and weddings don't last long.

He's not most dudes and we're both living comfortably and can afford the wedding. I just think it's embarrassing but he wants to show off to his co workers and make his mum happy because she also wants a big wedding.

 

[Lsma]

But you’re a divorced single mother, what is there to show off?

I think she's frauding.

Claims she was divorced few months ago and now she talking about her fiancé thinking about having a big wedding.

She's a solid poster on here. but I think she's just making up story to start the discussion. But if she wants to start a discussion why lie?

 

[Shamis]

But you’re a divorced single mother, what is there to show off?

Not show me off dumbass, but show people he has money. Besides I might be divorced but I'm not old or ugly.

 

[Generalissimo]

But you’re a divorced single mother, what is there to show off?

Say something good or shut up dameeryahow

 

[Lostbox]

But you’re a divorced single mother, what is there to show off?

Found a gentleman.

 

[Gambar]

But you’re a divorced single mother, what is there to show off?

Is it a death sentence?

 

[Gambar]

He's not most dudes and we're both living comfortably and can afford the wedding. I just think it's embarrassing but he wants to show off to his co workers and make his mum happy because she also wants a big wedding.

You have to talk to him about this and let him know you don’t want it. Next thing you know him and his mum will pressure you to have a big wedding.

 

[Shamis]

You have to talk to him about this and let him know you don’t want it. Next thing you know him and his mum will pressure you to have a big wedding.

I did but his mum wants a wedding worthy of a tape and I just want dinner and buraanbur, no video. When he first got married he had no money and just graduated, that's why he's acting up.

 

[NotMyL]

If he wants to have the big wedding and make his mommy happy I think you should compromise and let him have it, I'm assuming this is his first?

 

[Kingjames]

I did but his mum wants a wedding worthy of a tape and I just want dinner and buraanbur, no video. When he first got married he had no money and just graduated, that's why he's acting up.

Tell him to use that money for a vacation to an exotic place after the wedding as a “honeymoon” instead.

 

[Shamis]

If he wants to have the big wedding and make his mommy happy I think you should compromise and let him have it, I'm assuming this is his first?

It's his second too but his first wedding was at his mum's house. I might compromise and meet him halfway. I won't wear a white dress and we book a small hall.

 

[Gambar]

I did but his mum wants a wedding worthy of a tape and I just want dinner and buraanbur, no video. When he first got married he had no money and just graduated, that's why he's acting up.

Have a small wedding and save up for something more worthy than a wedding. Istus tus is not a good enough reason to have a big wedding.

 

[Shamis]

Tell him to use that money for a vacation to an exotic place after the wedding as a “honeymoon” instead.

That's a great idea. I'd also much prefer that.

 

[mrlog]

Is it a death sentence?

I'm confused.
Is the OP male, female or gender fluid?