Sadness.....

[Starscream]

Not everyone is like you. I'm not needy I will cut them off all in due time saxib.

Your thirst for attention will never be quenched.

 

[RichEnoughForGucci]

Your thirst for attention will never be quenched.

How am I thirsting for attention? If your not going to give me genuine advice then please leave this thread no one is forcing you to be here.

 

[Starscream]

Trust me I cut off so many family members it's peak for me on day of judgment wallahi

Lmfao I probably got the best family we could go years with out talking even though we're all on good terms

 

[Starscream]

How am I thirsting for attention? If your not going to give me genuine advice then please leave this thread no one is forcing you to be here.

Ok I'm sorry beautiful you were right to cut them off.

 

[Zainab_7]

Sometimes you need to cut people off so god can replace them with better! Your only 18 right? You wont be alone you meet people at uni, social events etc theres will always be opportunity to meet quality girls!

But with your family I would keep it cordial they aint going anywhere and the likelihood of seeing them is high lol

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

Sometimes you need to cut people off so god can replace them with better! Your only 18 right? You wont be alone you meet people at uni, social events etc theres will always be opportunity to meet quality girls!

But with your family I would keep it cordial they aint going anywhere and the likelihood of seeing them is high lol

Very true i should try to speak to my brothers and sisters i cut off just for the sake of Allah but my pride holds me back wallahi

 

[RichEnoughForGucci]

Sometimes you need to cut people off so god can replace them with better! Your only 18 right? You wont be alone you meet people at uni, social events etc theres will always be opportunity to meet quality girls!

But with your family I would keep it cordial they aint going anywhere and the likelihood of seeing them is high lol

I'm cutting them off I don't care if they are family. They don't care so why should I care Back. I won't be a person who would allow myself to be seen as trash who is a follower. I've seen for what they are.

 

[Zainab_7]

I'm cutting them off I don't care if they are family. They don't care so why should I care Back. I won't be a person who would allow myself to be seen as trash who is a follower. I've seen for what they are.

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[jamal9]

I broke up with a boy fairly recently. Don't want to get into relationships right now. Just want to focus on myself. Some men don't care.

aren't u 18 yrs old? relationships at 18??

 

[RichEnoughForGucci]

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Thank you. I will just say my his and byes I don't need to talk to them at all. Your right I will be seeing them everywhere

 

[RichEnoughForGucci]

aren't u 18 yrs old? relationships at 18??

First boyfriend was 17 lol I broke up with him. Not going to have another relationship in a long time. Don't want the stress and shit that comes with it.

 

[AarHawd_7]

@yaskaaa please dont tell me u was born in 2000.

 

[jamal9]

get a old bf (25-30yr) who has good job and money, he will pamper u with gifts and all

 

[RichEnoughForGucci]

@yaskaaa please dont tell me u was born in 2000.

Yep I am LOOOOOL

 

[Geeljire Sandheer]

@yaskaaa please dont tell me u was born in 2000.

2000 babys are the one still not my age but not too young @yaskaaa lets wash out your Colombian blood

 

[fuad]

I'm getting so tired of the feeling of loving the ones you love but they don't return the favor. I want them to love me the way I love them but they don't. I legit do everything for them. I am always there to support them through all their struggles, I'm their for them at there lowest and their highest. I'm sick of this shit now. I'm cutting of these people. I showed them nothing but love and happiness and they don't return the favor. I'm always the one going to them but they rarely visit me. I refuse to be the person putting all the effort in relationships that is what I will change. Being left out is what I am feeling. I have only 2 close friends who legit care and give a f*ck the rest don't matter. The thing is I knew most of these people through childhood too. We have so many memories and we go way back. It's sad to cut the ones you cared about the most but shit has to be done.

I can't be the only one that feels this way so please come though

As you go through life, you'll realise that you may have to let go of some people. Some childhood friends, stay just childhood friends and things dont go beyond that, just appreciate the good times you had with them say alhamulilaah and move on. The friends you make as an adult will hopefully last a life time

For me its easier to let go of friends that we have drifted apart for whatever reasons without any ill feelings than family. You have to keep in touch with family even if their terrible... keeping the ties of kinship.

If you give out love, dont change, thats who you are, keep doing it, loving people dont often get loved back as much as they give love, everybody plays a role in society, and in even in the friendship dynamics, within your own family and community, were built different. Be wiser in choosing friends in the future, I know the process in not clear cut, try your best

 

[RichEnoughForGucci]

As you go through life, you'll realise that you may have to let go of some people. Some childhood friends, stay just childhood friends and things dont go beyond that, just appreciate the good times you had with them say alhamulilaah and move on. The friends you make as an adult will hopefully last a life time

For me its easier to let go of friends that we have drifted apart for whatever reasons without any ill feelings than family. You have to keep in touch with family even if their terrible... keeping the ties of kinship.

If you give out love, dont change, thats who you are, keep doing it, loving people dont often get loved back as much as they give love, everybody plays a role in society, and in even in the friendship dynamics, within your own family and community, were built different. Be wiser in choosing friends in the future, I know the process in not clear cut, try your best

Thank u for this advice I would take this in

 

[Fang4]

I would only have that kind of love for my blood family and my future spouse, friends come and go only your family will always be there for you.

 

[Basra]

I'm getting so tired of the feeling of loving the ones you love but they don't return the favor. I want them to love me the way I love them but they don't. I legit do everything for them. I am always there to support them through all their struggles, I'm their for them at there lowest and their highest. I'm sick of this shit now. I'm cutting of these people. I showed them nothing but love and happiness and they don't return the favor. I'm always the one going to them but they rarely visit me. I refuse to be the person putting all the effort in relationships that is what I will change. Being left out is what I am feeling. I have only 2 close friends who legit care and give a f*ck the rest don't matter. The thing is I knew most of these people through childhood too. We have so many memories and we go way back. It's sad to cut the ones you cared about the most but shit has to be done.

I can't be the only one that feels this way so please come though

Nayaa how many times should i tell u this??? U r a TOM BOY, sporty girl, u cannot get along with girls. PERIOD. DO u have a crush on them??? Is that why u always get sucked in???????

 

[RichEnoughForGucci]

Nayaa how many times should i tell u this??? U r a TOM BOY, sporty girl, u cannot get along with girls. PERIOD. DO u have a crush on them??? Is that why u always get sucked in???????

I'm not a Tom boy. I'm sporty yes but defiantly not tomboy. To have a crush means im lesbian please don't say that