(Reddit topic) why are Somali guys approach phobic ?

[Espaa_]

UK Somali men have no confidence and can’t make a move and UK Somali women would lie to a man trying to talk to her and say she’s married even though she’s chronically single.

This is the tale of this island. This is the main reason why we have a pandemic of single 30+.

They have wayyyy too much confidence idk your age but im 19 these niggas are too horny they be speaking to anyone and ANYBODY. Astaghfirullah its always through snapchat too they be adding you then you add them back and it goes like this:

‘how old are you’

- im 19

‘Pic’

*I BLOCK IMMEDIATELY*

One guy i entertained (i was bored guys never spoken to males before wanted to try it out and sent a pic to him) eventually said he wanted to marry me but what all knows what that means as females. These guys are too deep into it may Allah wash their brains

 

[Angelina]

They have wayyyy too much confidence idk your age but im 19 these niggas are too horny they be speaking to anyone and ANYBODY

But it’s usually online hun from what I’ve observed or in a uni or school setting.

 

[Angelina]

They have wayyyy too much confidence idk your age but im 19 these niggas are too horny they be speaking to anyone and ANYBODY. Astaghfirullah its always through snapchat too they be adding you then you add them back and it goes like this:

‘how old are you’

- im 19

‘Pic’

*I BLOCK IMMEDIATELY*

One guy i entertained (i was bored guys never spoken to males before wanted to try it out and sent a pic to him) eventually said he wanted to marry me but what all knows what that means as females. These guys are too deep into it may Allah wash their brains

That’s not confidence. They’re doing this over snap. That is the least effort possible.

 

[Espaa_]

Nacalaa, you are good looking guy Alaahuma baarik

You professing you love You guys should get together waa caadi #2025

 

[Devilsadvocate]

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[Chaseyourdreamzz]

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You’d be surprised how many women shoot their shot in real life and through the DMs way more then you think

 

[Abu Hesi]

You professing you love You guys should get together waa caadi #2025

If my friends are handsome I tell them, waa caadi #2025

 

[Espaa_]

might as well shoot my shot here guys.

im 19, going to uni this year. 5’7 (almost) look like the typical somali woman nothing special about me. IN RETURN I WANT A G WAGON, 100K HANDED TO ME STRAIGHT. A WALK IN CLOSET with 500 burkins and 2 kittens MUST BE RUSSIAN BLUE and 1 lion cub and a private aquarium with a tiger shark.

i also want no kids that shi fucks your body up permanently and wallahi birth looks scary i aint going through that. I can adopt 2 young somali orphans on your behalf or we can go through surrogacy if you would be willing to give up a further 50K

if you can provide pls dm me and send the money to me before we can discuss marriage. I *may* or may not scam you we will just have to see

 

[Abu Hesi]

might as well shoot my shot here guys.

im 19, going to uni this year. 5’7 (almost) look like the typical somali woman nothing special about me. IN RETURN I WANT A G WAGON, 100K HANDED TO ME STRAIGHT. A WALK IN CLOSET with 500 burkins and 2 kittens MUST BE RUSSIAN BLUE and 1 lion cub and a private aquarium with a tiger shark.

i also want no kids that shi fucks your body up permanently and wallahi birth looks scary i aint going through that. I can adopt 2 young somali orphans on your behalf or we can go through surrogacy if you would be willing to give up a further 50K

if you can provide pls dm me and send the money to me before we can discuss marriage. I *may* or may not scam you we will just have to see

Np, check your inbox

 

[Espaa_]

Np, check your inbox

Arent you an old ass nigga

 

[Devilsadvocate]

You’d be surprised how many women shoot their shot in real life and through the DMs way more then you think

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[Keep it a boqol]

Girls would have resting b*tch face, unapproachable body contact, no smile, no eye contact, eyes to the ground, looking at everywhere but the dude, but expect dudes to approach and give them the red carpet treatment.

If your interested in someone and want them to approach you gotta give high interest signals like eye contact, smiling, etc.

If the man can’t bite the bullet and approach despite the lady showing interest then that’s on him.

 

[Medeea]

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It’s not just a Somali male issue. Its a Gen Z issue across all developed countries.

My middle-aged ex-manager once asked me, “What’s going on with younger guys these days?”
I asked her what she meant.
She said that back in the 00s, she and her friends would only take their IDs and leave their wallet at home cause guys would fight to pay for their drinks and food. She couldn’t even take out the trash without getting approached.
Now, her niece(who she says is just as attractive) can go weeks without a single guy saying hi to her. And she and her friends pay for their own food/drinks 8/10.
She asked what changed. I didn’t want to risk saying too much and getting sent to HR, so I just told her “young men lack confidence now.”

Not saying most Gen Z males aren’t indeed bunch of sissies who are more into rating other men than approaching women. But honestly, 80% of the blame falls on women. Older women had their fun and messed things up for the younger ones.


As for Halimo, a lot of them walk around with a resting b1tch face, act very prude/brand new, and carry this fake kibir. Yea, no thank you.

 

[Espaa_]

It’s not just a Somali male issue. Its a Gen Z issue across all developed countries.

My middle-aged ex-manager once asked me, “What’s going on with younger guys these days?”
I asked her what she meant.
She said that back in the 00s, she and her friends would only take their IDs and leave their wallet at home cause guys would fight to pay for their drinks and food. She couldn’t even take out the trash without getting approached.
Now, her niece(who she says is just as attractive) can go weeks without a single guy saying hi to her. And she and her friends pay for their own food/drinks 8/10.
She asked what changed. I didn’t want to risk saying too much and getting sent to HR, so I just told her “young men lack confidence now.”

Not saying most Gen Z males are sissies who are more into rating other men than approaching women. But honestly, 80% of the blame falls on women. Older women had their fun and messed things up for the younger ones.


As for Halimo, a lot of them walk around with a resting b1tch face, act very prude/brand new, and carry this fake kibir. Yea, no thank you.

East and west, Halimo is the best . I might turn to political lesbianism if this shi continues from you tech fleece males. Being with a woman sounds more fun than being with a man anyways . Halimo acts clean and elegant because her worth is out of this world. Their resting faces show to the world that she is fiercly independent and takes nothing from anybody. She is strong and beautiful qoor dheer qalanjo dhexyar mashallah

naago slide in my dms f*ck the men lets all be political lesbians and be together forever

 

[Juliet]

It’s not just a Somali male issue. Its a Gen Z issue across all developed countries.

My middle-aged ex-manager once asked me, “What’s going on with younger guys these days?”
I asked her what she meant.
She said that back in the 00s, she and her friends would only take their IDs and leave their wallet at home cause guys would fight to pay for their drinks and food. She couldn’t even take out the trash without getting approached.
Now, her niece(who she says is just as attractive) can go weeks without a single guy saying hi to her. And she and her friends pay for their own food/drinks 8/10.
She asked what changed. I didn’t want to risk saying too much and getting sent to HR, so I just told her “young men lack confidence now.”

Not saying most Gen Z males aren’t indeed bunch of sissies who are more into rating other men than approaching women. But honestly, 80% of the blame falls on women. Older women had their fun and messed things up for the younger ones.


As for Halimo, a lot of them walk around with a resting b1tch face, act very prude/brand new, and carry this fake kibir. Yea, no thank you.

We’re prude or we’re “easy desperate dhil0yin” . There’s no winning with these niggas

 

[The alchemist]

Girls would have resting b*tch face, unapproachable body contact, no smile, no eye contact, eyes to the ground, looking at everywhere but the dude, but expect dudes to approach and give them the red carpet treatment.

Those are narcissists, or, at times, a case of layered insecurities hidden behind false fronts. Both are problematic.

 

[livinlavish]

UK Somali men have no confidence and can’t make a move and UK Somali women would lie to a man trying to talk to her and say she’s married even though she’s chronically single.

This is the tale of this island. This is the main reason why we have a pandemic of single 30+.

Which uk niggas have you been with walaashey . Just because you saw one scrawny abdi doesnt mean we are all like him

 

[livinlavish]

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You just gotta shoot your shot. If you get rejected keep it stepping it aint the end of the world.

 

[Espaa_]

You just gotta shoot your shot. If you get rejected keep it stepping it aint the end of the world.

Or you could just not speak to anyone and keep your sanity. Marriages arent needed like that nowadays ive never understood marriage or even dating but maybe its because im asexual/aromantic

islamically i get it but ive seen too many divorces and niyad jab for me to even fathom it

 

[Shakespeare_aabihiis]

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It's even worse nowadays because girls will run to tell their friends or even worse go on social media and talk about on tiktok and the like.