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[Abdisamad]

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[iskufilann]

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[Abdisamad]

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[lanochedeanoche]

depends how successful I am before I have kids. if I have achieved a lot, then I wouldn't mind being a housewife

 

[ditto]

career focused woman. i love kids, but i'm not sacrificing years of education and hard-work just to stay at home

 

[mrlog]

career focused woman. i love kids, but i'm not sacrificing years of education and hard-work just to stay at home

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[SOULSEARCHING]

Stay home and relax

 

[notinuse.]

Both with two children 🤝🏽 a win win scenario!

 

[iskufilann]

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It's not like I will work full-time but it is still manageable whilst looking after children

 

[Yaraye]

work only 1-2 days of the week

 

[Kalsoon]

My family would take priority. I work now cause I have to not because I want to. Kids need a lot of nurturing and teaching. Being a sahm is a privilege. Some people wanna work to keep their foot in the door in case anything happens. I will just keep up my credentials and license but wont care about having a gap in employment history.

 

[Yaraye]

My family would take priority. I work now cause I have to not because I want to. Kids need a lot of nurturing and teaching. Being a sahm is a privilege. Some people wanna work to keep their foot in the door in case anything happens. I will just keep up my credentials and license but wont care about having a gap in employment history.

Same thought process except I would work 1 day a week to save up finances, in case the relationship goes south

 

[Abdisamad]

My family would take priority. I work now cause I have to not because I want to. Kids need a lot of nurturing and teaching. Being a sahm is a privilege. Some people wanna work to keep their foot in the door in case anything happens. I will just keep up my credentials and license but wont care about having a gap in employment history.

Respect and you are right kids need a lot of nurturing so true

 

[Abdisamad]

Same thought process except I would work 1 day a week to save up finances, in case the relationship goes south

Why are you always worried you're relationship will break? You know if youu often think about and fear something it might eventually happen to you.

 

[Yaraye]

Why are you always worried you're relationship will break? You know if youu often think about and fear something it might eventually happen to you.

Wtf do you expect me to do then? Jump off a cliff without a net at the bottom to hold me?

This is a rational fear

 

[Abdisamad]

Wtf do you expect me to do then? Jump off a cliff without a net at the bottom to hold me?

This is a rational fear

Lool why are you getting angry? You know you can't plan for the future only Allah knows what will happen.

 

[Yaraye]

Lool why are you getting angry? You know you can't plan for the future only Allah knows what will happen.

I ain’t angry. Just thought it was a ridiculous thing to say. Like you said, allah know the future that’s why we should plan for the worst and hope for the best

 

[Abdisamad]

I ain’t angry. Just thought it was a ridiculous thing to say. Like you said, allah know the future that’s why we should plan for the worst and hope for the best

The best relationships are built on trust, you can't be in a relationship with one foot in and one out ready to bounce.. But InshaAllah khair.

 

[sixama]

If I'm planning on having a child (inshallah, one day) then I would choose a job that I could do at home? Like an online school teacher or something?? If not then a career focused woman is for me

 

[liesinme]

a stay at home mom in this economy? man how are you people doing it