Question About Mehr

AbrahamFreedom

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I always hated weddings after going to my uncle's, which was the first one I went to. Attendees have no shame, especially the ones who were not invited, who number at least 75% of the hall. I go for a bathroom break to find my seat at the family table was taken away from me by some strange man, all the delicious ethnic food was devoured leaving nothing for me and I went to bed hungry, and I was reduced as the errand boy fetching things for the hoyoos who acted fake with me, including one who tried to create a connection saying she held me months after birth. I was like 10 years old.

I have had similar experiences in ALL other weddings I was forced to attend to. The worst ones are always your least favourite siblings' weddings where they get a free pass to treat you like a slave and yell at you and your parents don't say anything even if you're their favourite child because it's their special day.
 
I always hated weddings after going to my uncle's, which was the first one I went to. Attendees have no shame, especially the ones who were not invited, who number at least 75% of the hall. I go for a bathroom break to find my seat at the family table was taken away from me by some strange man, all the delicious ethnic food was devoured leaving nothing for me and I went to bed hungry, and I was reduced as the errand boy fetching things for the hoyoos who acted fake with me, including one who tried to create a connection saying she held me months after birth. I was like 10 years old.

I have had similar experiences in ALL other weddings I was forced to attend to. The worst ones are always your least favourite siblings' weddings where they get a free pass to treat you like a slave and yell at you and your parents don't say anything even if you're their favourite child because it's their special day.
This. Then they want you to spend upwards of 10k plus on everything. Why should I feed faraxs I don't know. f*ck outta here.
 

AbrahamFreedom

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This. Then they want you to spend upwards of 10k plus on everything. Why should I feed faraxs I don't know. f*ck outta here.

I don't mind if people were not invited but how dare they eat the food before close family does. I still remember the food at that wedding. There was even a beautiful looking long menu showing what was going to be served. I cannot describe to you how delicious it looked. I had plans to have third or fourth servings. It was a once in a life time kind of food. It was worse than a tease. I felt like a crime was committed and I am not one of exaggerate. I still feel bitter.

:mjcry:
 
I don't mind if people were not invited but how dare they eat the food before close family does. I still remember the food at that wedding. There was even a beautiful looking long menu showing what was going to be served. I cannot describe to you how delicious it looked. I had plans to have third or fourth servings. It was a once in a life time kind of food. It was worse than a tease. I felt like a crime was committed and I am not one of exaggerate. I still feel bitter.

:mjcry:
Sxb you sound like a rape victim right now, do you need therapy? :meleshame:
 
Advice for the young bucks. Any gal that wants a 10k plus mehr is not the one. Her malab is not some kind of gold, tell the xalimo we gonna put the money to actual good use and put it towards our future. Also, advice for the girls to fully ignore whatever I said and ask for as much as you can because the divorce laws in Islam are not in your favor whatsoever. So rinse that nigga you marrying as much as you can.
10k is doable lol some females demand 50k like he is gonna pay all that money.
 

Guardafui

Beati Pacifici.
It’s the opposite I see more and more girls asking for less Mehr but go on..
Men today are too greedy to give anything that’s why most women rely on themselves.
 

Mercury

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So lads, as you know Mehr has been increasing during recent times. Back in the day the Mehr was $500-$4,000 or even just a Kitab. Nowadays these Xalimos are asking for $10k-$20k and want Faraaxs to give them racks on racks. My question is, let's say you pay $20k mehr, how do you afford everything else? Since the man is supposed to 100% financially provide in the marriage, that means he has to pay for the wedding, the honeymoon, the new place, bills, luxuries while also providing $20k mehr. It's going to be at least high 5 to 6 figures and it seems unreasonable. What would you do?
10k, 20k meher as if somalis even pay meher

its all just talk the day the divorce comes you gonna see that same guy refuse to give her 20k meher
 

Based

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Hooyada was, ciyaalyahoow. Meesha naga bax, mehr iyo balaayo ayuu noo keenay.

22 noqo, kadib waxaan noo keen. Subhanallah
This Snacks fella recently learnt the words "laangaab" iyo "laandheere" :pachah1: he says it in every sentence. Also hes obsessed with bantus :mjlol:
 

Periplus

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This Snacks fella recently learnt the words "laangaab" iyo "laandheere" :pachah1: he says it in every sentence. Also hes obsessed with bantus :mjlol:

Me and him have a complicated relationship like Tom and Jerry wallahi.

On one thread we cussing each others hooyos and families then on another thread we best buddies.

:silanyolaugh:
 

Based

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Me and him have a complicated relationship like Tom and Jerry wallahi.

On one thread we cussing each others hooyos and families then on another thread we best buddies.

:silanyolaugh:
I also feel the same :mjkkk: only thing I like about him is his controversial threads
 

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