If you're woman enough to lay down with a man then you're woman enough to take care of a child. I don't believe in abortion. Women who abort their babies are selfish. If you don't want a child then be on the pill, birth control shots and implants.
Aborting a unwanted baby is not selfish. It's a mature act. Imagine being forced to carry for 9 months and give birth to something you don't want and can't provide for.
I also find your first sentence to be laughable. Why do we constantly use that argument towards women? That kind of reasoning is never used on a man even though it takes two to create a child. Why are only women punished for having sex? I find that type of thinking to be deeply rooted in misogyny.
And something I would like to say to everyone that believes abortion is murder. A fetus is attached to the mother's body and can only survive inside of her womb. It's not an individual life that can actually manage to survive independently away from the mother. Therefor it's not an actual life. Does it have the potential to become a life, yes but only with the mothers consent since the fetus needs her body to be able to survive.
Also don't yall think forcing a woman to carry something for 9 months and then painfully give birth to it because of ones personal belief which might steam from religious basis is more selfish?