if men where created to be attracted to more than one woman then god would've given Adam Eves instead of just Eve being attracted to more than one is lust not instinctI agree. NOT ALL MEN are the same too. There is a spectrum scale for real men vs less than real men. And when i say real vs less real, i dont mean to demean any man. I am just saying, an average man usually has high sexual thirst. Its deep in DNA. Even recorded in Quran by God, that men love women, gold, wealth etc etc etc
One woman can supersede multiple women. Why seek a 4 member harem when he can get novelty and familiarity all in one wife? In fact, there's a *psychological hack* to engender desire and increase testosterone levels for the same woman over and over as though she's new.