Oromos are different from Somalis in the sense that their people have been traumatized by millennia of exploitation. When it comes to Somalis, there are cultural safeguards and ways of living that, most of the time, prevent them from engaging in bantu-like savagery.
I feel bad for them in the same way that one should feel bad for the dysfunction among African-Americans, it's a condition brought about by centuries of abuse, mostly under Habesha rule.
Abiy straight-up tried to commit genocide against the Tigray just recently. There’s no special category for the elderly, the young, or women when it comes to violence.
The Somali civil war, from the moment Siad Barre fired the first shot in the late '80s until today, over 30 years later, has had a lower casualty rate than the 1.5 years of the Tigray war.