balanbalis
"Ignore" button warrior
Ignore this girl's delusion that Somalia was "Arabised", I just wanted to talk about Ceeb culture.
Out of all the Arabic loan words in Somali, 'Ceeb' sticks out. I say this because many Arabic words are not new ideas in themselves i.e. fadlan, caadi, miskeen, xaasid. But I don't believe Ceeb has a real native Somali equivalent.
I've looked through dictionaries and they use 'hil' as the Somali native word for shame but I don't recognise it outside of its use as 'wax hilai'. Plus, it's use is more like 'modest' rather than a taboo/embarrassing act. Maybe 'xishood' is the Somali equivalent? Although in my mind it's more about decorum rather than outright shame. But I'm not sure.
But I believe Ceeb culture itself likely originated by Somalis, I think we loaned an Arabic word to give a better name to it. Reason being, I think that 'Ceebness' is natural counter to a society where hyper confidence is expected. But it is very very true how its usually only applied to women. This is just plain misogyny, and also a mixture of higher standards expected of women due to Islam. E.g. women are expected to dress more conservatively, stay at home more/be seen less in public etc which is harder to achieve than what's expected of men without reaching the 'ceeb!' label.