On guilt and apologizing.

[Odkac WRLD]

I did something kinda messed up a night or two ago. Nothing extremely crazy though. It started as a funny joke but now I just feel a pit in the stomach thinking about it.

I brushed it off as all in jest at the time, but the guilt is really beginning to gnaw at me now.

Does guilt hit you hard, even when what you’ve done didn’t seem that bad? Do you apologize, even though it may sound hollow and fake? Or do you just shrug it off and soldier on with your life?

I’m interested to hear what the people of sspot do when you know you’ve done something not nice to another.

 

[Jungle]

I like sucking on womens toes, like fr.

 

[Odkac WRLD]

I like sucking on womens toes, like fr.

right time, wrong place.

 

[psyche]

I'm the embodiment of perfect manners, so no I don't feel guilt because there's no one I wrong irl.

 

[Medulla]

Yeah fixing it right now though....

 

[Mahacagalla]

The

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whyd you delete your posts? I thought the first one was good

 

[psyche]

The

whyd you delete your posts? I thought the first one was good

For some reason @Karats deletes half his/her posts.

Maybe he's/she's trying to protect his reputation

 

[Odkac WRLD]

Yeah fixing it right now though....

 

[Odkac WRLD]

So are you gonna tell us why you harassed someone or not

I harassed no one, imbecile.

I clearly asked what you people do.

 

[Karats]

I harassed no one, imbecile.

I clearly asked what you people do.

You disgusting black creature. Speak when spoken to

 

[Odkac WRLD]

You disgusting black creature. Speak when spoken to

And how about you don’t speak at all. Just a suggestion.

 

[Jiron]

Apology is almost up there with a firm handshake, very noble. Never be afraid to say I am sorry sxb

 

[AishaBarri]

For me there’s a small window for apologizing but when it’s gone it’s time to keep it moving

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[Odkac WRLD]

For me there’s a small window for apologizing but when it’s gone it’s time to keep it moving

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Times like this being a xoolo would be a lot easier.

 

[Juke]

I was very polite and respectful until high school. Now I'm more calculated due to life experiences.

If it's someone I truly love/family I will apologize.

If it's a stranger or an acquaintance I will apologize depending on predictive outcome.

 

[AishaBarri]

Times like this being a xoolo would be a lot easier.

Whatever you decide do it with your chest

 

[Odkac WRLD]

Whatever you decide do it with your chest

But I have asthma.

 

[King Khufu]

Sometimes people live regrets that they shame themselves.

I say, curiousity to a motive is okay to test yourself as long as you hurt no one but to stay dwelling in a negative habit/thoughtloop will only bring more carnage.

Pray for respect and practice repentance. Keep your shames in silent and suffer not publicly.

Remember in times like these not everyone is disciplined with principles strongly so it's easy to slip up into stupid regrets yet it is also easy to shake off for it is only your mind that knows what you partake in.

I think we all have personal regrets in dumb decisions that aren't proud but as long as we selflessly have courage for the good of others we can always live a more worry-free life that isn't so shamed in burdens.