These men back home deny these girls their Islamic rights to choose their spouse, agree or disagree to a marriage, etc. They are forced into marriages that aren’t to their own benefit but the benefits of their families and the twisted men who want to use them for their bodies. They are harmed emotionally, physically, and sexually in these marriages, but when they or others speak out, people attempt to hide their deviation from the deen and jahil behaviors behind “but islamically it’s allowed…”
But it isn’t allowed. Permissible and impermissible both have conditions to them that must be met in order to be considered such. And the conditions to make marriages such as this permissible aren’t being met in vast amounts of cases. These types of men are picking and choosing what parts of the deen they chose to uphold and discard the rest (upholding their choice, discarding girls’ rights).