Not settling

[Saqii]

Like cant u marry in your early 20s to good guy who has future. Before marriage talk about when your gonna have kids and buy house like its not hard

 

[Amirah]

Why do some women wait for so long to marry by getting their life rogether and not settling only to end up with a man who’s had whole life with someone else been divorced or has kids.
example: new judge for divorce court. Smh she even wrote a book about not settling. What is wrong with some of us.
Her Name is: Faith Jenkins. The woman has everything she needs and looks great. I saw her video trending on YouTube i had no idea who she was, tamron hall’s channel

I don’t get it? I just looked them up and I don’t see how she settled? He’s famous and has money. He’s good looking, has one older kid and ex wife from a decade ago. I failed to see how she settled though...if you mean she should’ve gotten married to guy with no children? I’d be worried if a 50yr old man had no children or at least an ex in his past. She didn’t want to marry a younger guy because he’d want kids or maybe not as successful and most men her age or older do have a past.

 

[Halimo-2018]

I don’t get it? I just looked them up and I don’t see how she settled? He’s famous and has money. He’s good looking, has one older kid and ex wife from a decade ago. I failed to see how she settled though...if you mean she should’ve gotten married to guy with no children? I’d be worried if a 50yr old man had no children or at least an ex in his past. She didn’t want to marry a younger guy because he’d want kids or maybe not as successful and most men her age or older do have a past.

I think when a man has an ex wife and children it’s a turn off for me. If in her earlier years she wouldn’t accept him if he had kids then i think she’s forced to settle by nature lol either way i see your point here.

 

[elite1337]

Because its normalized to marry after finishing your education

 

[Sheikh Google]

Because its normalized to marry after finishing your education

Normalize getting your bread up first before you jump into something big like marriage. I see too many gen z getting married before the age of 21 because they got no self-control and get married to have sex and are too broke to move out so still live with their parents. That's never been our daqan what in the timo jilac shit did it become the norm to be having quiet sex with your new bride whilst hooyo is downstairs and your sister is watching K-pop BTS in the next room. You both get your bread up and get your own place like functioning adults in a society and you can karbash your wife to your hearts content and she can moan farax to her heart's content in the comforts of your own living space.

 

[Sheikh Google]

That reminded me that timo jilac are built differently. I remember this colleague I worked with in my retail days, this was a big man who was my supervisor and at his big age still lived with his extended family all in one big house. This includes his hooyo and aabo and sisters plus his brother who was also married. Forget the chaos and buuq in the house, I always thought how does this timo jilac nigga even get his gus up knowing all them family members in the house? Like you cant even plan a day where you can properly karbash your wife as the house must never be fully empty. Him and wife probably never leave the hotel when they go on holiday, he probably tryna live the movie in that 4-star hotel in Maldives like f*ck the beach the hotel is where it's really at.