(not all) Women are evil

[EainA2]

This TikTok couple was a Somali Djiboutian husband and a Caribbean girl. They used to pop up on my For You page every now and then. I always thought they were goofy especially the husband who bent over backwards to accommodate her lifestyle like clubbing wine drinking wearing booty shorts twerking and celebrating Christmas. But at the end of the day he was a good father and a loyal family man. She still threw it all away a whole 10 years marriage with kids because it felt too secure for her. Wild. Even women in her comments are calling her out because they know he was a good man.






She’s doing damage control now. She couldn’t even hint at anything bad about him. At some point, women need to realise that once you're deep in a marriage with kids, it’s no longer just about you. The goal should always be working on the marriage because no other man is going to offer anything truly different. Stop making your marriage your hobby. Go find something else.

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[HfrmManor]

Game is Game. Thread title is generalization but its well known that most women find especially western world want or need toxicity in their marriage or relationships how many man been divorced because they where too perfect even celebrities.

Best Example:
"Kaka and his wife, Caroline Celico, divorced in 2015 after being married for 10 years. Celico has stated that the reason for the divorce was because Kaka was "too perfect". She felt that something was missing in their relationship despite Kaka treating her well and providing a wonderful family, according to NDTV Sports. Kaka has also spoken about the divorce, saying he did everything he could to prevent it, as he believes Christians should not get divorced. "

Legendary Footballer and Wealthy - Good looking too especially his career era bro was a model.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

I wouldn’t say she’s evil for wanting a divorce.

This is just my speculation but they’re in an interfaith marriage. She keeps talking about choosing herself and happiness. She probably had to compromise her values and lifestyle for the marriage and probably has grown resentment towards it.

I’ve seen it way too many times here in canada. Even tho it’s halal in this modern era and couples in love are determined to make the marriage work, Interfaith marriages don’t last long. Values and religion make and break a marriage.

 

[rin]

I think there's a culture of narcissism in the West, your family and children matter a lot over the idea that you can find something better, something more, if only you give up what you have already. These people will chase an imaginary ideal until they die.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

IMO They look young like early 30s Ten year marriage maybe she feels like she missed out on her youth I’ve seen this happen a lot especially with gaalos very tough to divorce with children in the picture

 

[_Yusuf_]

This TikTok couple was a Somali Djiboutian husband and a Caribbean girl. They used to pop up on my For You page every now and then. I always thought they were goofy especially the husband who bent over backwards to accommodate her lifestyle like clubbing wine drinking wearing booty shorts twerking and celebrating Christmas. But at the end of the day he was a good father and a loyal family man. She still threw it all away a whole 10 years marriage with kids because it felt too secure for her. Wild. Even women in her comments are calling her out because they know he was a good man.






She’s doing damage control now. She couldn’t even hint at anything bad about him. At some point, women need to realise that once you're deep in a marriage with kids, it’s no longer just about you. The goal should always be working on the marriage because no other man is going to offer anything truly different. Stop making your marriage your hobby. Go find something else.

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He got the Scottie Pippen phenotype so it was expected that he would wife a hoe.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

What a surprise. A Carribean woman who most likely didn't have her father at home either physically or emotionally and didn't find value in a good father and husband. Alot of Black women are never content and calm and require drama and the unknown. She destroyed the life of her children separating them from a good man due to her lack of impulse control and having a fairytale image in their head, very common among Black women (minus the west and central Africans).

 

[OOScoe]

What a surprise. A Carribean woman who most likely didn't have her father at home either physically or emotionally and didn't find value in a good father and husband. Alot of Black women are never content and calm and require drama and the unknown. She destroyed the life of her children separating them from a good man due to her lack of impulse control and having a fairytale image in their head, very common among Black women (minus the west and central Africans).

For once I agree with u

 

[Yaraye]

Welp, that's what he choose

 

[NidarNidar]

I wouldn’t say she’s evil for wanting a divorce.

This is just my speculation but they’re in an interfaith marriage. She keeps talking about choosing herself and happiness. She probably had to compromise her values and lifestyle for the marriage and probably has grown resentment towards it.

I’ve seen it way too many times here in canada. Even tho it’s halal in this modern era and couples in love are determined to make the marriage work, Interfaith marriages don’t last long. Values and religion make and break a marriage.

They never had the same values, Somali culture is deeply rooted in the family unit, self-sacrifice for your kids, etc...

 

[therandomone]

This TikTok couple was a Somali Djiboutian husband and a Caribbean girl. They used to pop up on my For You page every now and then. I always thought they were goofy especially the husband who bent over backwards to accommodate her lifestyle like clubbing wine drinking wearing booty shorts twerking and celebrating Christmas. But at the end of the day he was a good father and a loyal family man. She still threw it all away a whole 10 years marriage with kids because it felt too secure for her. Wild. Even women in her comments are calling her out because they know he was a good man.






She’s doing damage control now. She couldn’t even hint at anything bad about him. At some point, women need to realise that once you're deep in a marriage with kids, it’s no longer just about you. The goal should always be working on the marriage because no other man is going to offer anything truly different. Stop making your marriage your hobby. Go find something else.

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Any proper Muslim wouldn't call women evil. Women are different from men so we shouldn't compare them

 

[Cartan Boos]

“Caribbean”

 

[Lightshow]

When you have two people of completely different stock intermixing this is what happens. He comes from a long recorded lineage of Somali Muslims with an ancient culture, language and honor system even before Islam.

She comes from no lineage in particular, but a mix of many different people's, most with no religion, lineage or even a fixed culture. Likely there is generational trauma also. Hence there is no respect for family preservation, loyalty or tradition. Instead there is confusion, hedonism and extreme narcissism.

When you try to mix water and oil, this is what happens. That is why you should always find a compatible match. Your children and ultimately your lineage will be the ones paying the price if you don't!

 

[Rayaale]

Looks like they outgrew each other