This is a common theme for people who say they have a racial preference for someone. That shit doesn't exist. It's a fetish. In order for a fetish to form, an opinion must exist within the individual's mind. Like, we'd all wanna smash a sexy ass Brazilian model, but there's no stereotype of them wanting to hook up with Somali men. I'm sure some would love us, like women from all races. It's just an example.
A good case is White men and Asian women. Basically, it is the preconceived notion that Asian women are White worshipers that creates the Asian fetish for White males. If that stereotype didn't exist, White men wouldn't have the balls to get Asian women. And Asian women through the media end up with a lot of insecurities and beliefs about Asian men being bad, resulting in them leaving their culture.
Basically, in order for the Somali fetish to exist, and I'd say we're in the beginning phases of it, two stereotypes must exist:
1. Somali women hate Somali men.
Without this stereotype, Non-Somali men wouldn't be bold enough to try to get a Somali woman. It is the idea that the woman hates their men that gives other men the window to act. In the UK, due to the Twitter wars, stereotypes started to exist. These enabled men of different races to get with Somali women. In Toronto, no one hates anyone, which is why Somali interracial relationships are pretty much non-existent.
2. Somali women are easy to get for Non-Somalis.
Without this stereotype, Non-Somali men wouldn't be brave enough to approach a Somali woman. Once again, due to the mehr scandal in the UK, Somali women now have a bad reputation as easy women. In Toronto, this doesn't fly, and a lot of Somali women here simply hate the idea of getting with reverts. I shit you not, they find them perverted.
Now, some Somali men and women are going to want men and women of different races. This is a natural consequence of multi-cultural societies. It's an inevitability. We just have to understand that there's a difference between an outlier, and a trend. Trends requires rational explanations. Outliers are simply rare but possible events.