No more gender wars for me LOL

[Aboow]

Heeey Sspot walals,

I want to say sorry if I have ever offended you with my posts. I joined sspot with my @Niin account a couple a months ago from Twitter. My intention was to trolls and speak my mind but not everything deserves a reaction LOL am learning.

So if I have ever offended you with my @Niin account or with @Aboow am sorry. Am jaded and have daddy issues( this is a plea to future fathers stay in your daughter life; now I have to undue his fuc.k ups uff)

For my mental health and to not fall into more sins I will have to end my sspot career and move on InshAllah.

This a goodbye from your Djiboutian sis!

Ramadan mubarak

inspired by @Sigala

 

[Aboow]

So, when are we going to see your original side? I have been very successful in understanding women. Why does it feel like it's going to take one more thing to push you out of your edge? I somehow feel bad for you knowing that a male role model wasn't there to show and guide you. Guess what? I am the same, although dude is occasionally here and there, but never truly in my life. I have always instilled in myself to never depend on anyone if I want to live longer or live safely in life and that has never betrayed me. I basically had to learn everything a father should've taught me by myself. I hope your daddy issues don't hold you back from any future opportunities that may benefit you.

By GreznyGrezni

Thank you soo much walal!

Only my close friends and some family members see my original side.

I’m in the process of changing my mindset. It mainly affects my perspective of Somali/black men in terms of mariage. Whenever I see them no offence I see instability and that scares me because I don’t want to be a single mother god forbid. Other than that I would like to believe I’m mentally stable ish LOL

Honestly, am doing better
I’m sorry your father wasn’t there for you aswell but I’m sure you will become a better men and father InshAllah.

 

[Dark-king]

Wallahi this site has shown me that my upbringing was very atypical for a Somali.No one in my family (even distant relatives) are divorced let alone a single parent.

I hope the best for you sister, I had never considered there to be genuine pain behind the Internet gender wars.I thoughts it was just kids messing around.

But I would advise you to look at people as individuals.Black/Somali men aren’t a monolith.

 

[Abdisamad]

Remember this.. Life's what you make it no matter the circumstances.

 

[Aboow]

Wallahi this site has shown me that my upbringing was very atypical for a Somali.No one in my family (even distant relatives) are divorced let alone a single parent.

I hope the best for you sister, I had never considered there to be genuine pain behind the Internet gender wars.I thoughts it was just kids messing around.

But I would advise you to look at people as individuals.Black/Somali men aren’t a monolith.

My gender war was lowkey real which is sad and scary. So I need to tap out.

Am happy you grew up in a stable two parent household Allahumma barik.

Your right generalization aren’t good.

 

[Man with a garuun]

Best of luck to you, sister @Aboow.

 

[Sigala]

Same here i apologize to everyone I just wasn't in a good mood these couple of days I lashed out my anger towards others I hope you all can forgive me and if not than I hope you do one day. All love.

 

[Iceman88]

Aboow the red pill gurus say if you grew up without a father there is no hope for you, unless you had and older brother or an uncle that raised you and took active role in your upbringing, any sane men should never go for a women like you. You are will mess up any relationship you get into, and will make any men so miserable he will have to leave.

 

[Sigala]

Aboow the red pill gurus say if you grew up without a father there is no hope for you, unless you had and older brother or an uncle that raised you and took active role in your upbringing, any sane men should never go for a women like you. You are will mess up any relationship you get into, and will make any men so miserable he will have to leave.

So you dont believe in change? are you even a muslim than.

 

[Iceman88]

So you dont believe in change? are you even a muslim than.

I don’t believe this myself, but what kind of change are you talking about. People say the way you brought up when you are young shapes you for the rest of your life. And Indian philosopher says the first 7 years of your life are the most important. I believe people can change, but you have to be really strong and tbf most people don’t change, they just get better at hiding things and become more devious.

 

[Al-Ma'mun]

So you dont believe in change? are you even a muslim than.

Femcel, what do you know about Islam

 

[Angelina]

Aboow the red pill gurus say if you grew up without a father there is no hope for you, unless you had and older brother or an uncle that raised you and took active role in your upbringing, any sane men should never go for a women like you. You are will mess up any relationship you get into, and will make any men so miserable he will have to leave.

Any man that follows redpill isn't worthy of any woman's attention. Get out of here. Funny how it's female children that are blamed for having no father and not the actual adult men that has refused to acknowledge his responsibility. Lack of fathers even has a bigger impact on men, yet do your Redpill gurus tell us women to avoid fatherless men like you?

 

[Enter]

Djiboutian sis!

Djibouti hanoolato

 

[Wervelwind]

Any man that follows redpill isn't worthy of any woman's attention.

What's wrong with redpill. It just states obvious things eg most women are attracted to tall, handsome men etc etc

It's better for some men to realise these hard truths instead of following bullshit advice like 'be yourself' 'be a gentleman'

 

[Sigala]

I don’t believe this myself, but what kind of change are you talking about. People say the way you brought up when you are young shapes you for the rest of your life. And Indian philosopher says the first 7 years of your life are the most important. I believe people can change, but you have to be really strong and tbf most people don’t change, they just get better at hiding things and become more devious.

I agree isn not often people change for the better they just get better at hiding it rather than fixing it.

 

[Sigala]

Femcel, what do you know about Islam

I know everything about islam.

 

[Dark-king]

I know everything about islam.

Astagfirullah

 

[Qeelbax]

Only women apologizing for gender wars?

Yeah I’ll keep at it

 

[Abdisamad]

Any man that follows redpill isn't worthy of any woman's attention. Get out of here. Funny how it's female children that are blamed for having no father and not the actual adult men that has refused to acknowledge his responsibility. Lack of fathers even has a bigger impact on men, yet do your Redpill gurus tell us women to avoid fatherless men like you?

It's equally tragic when parents divorce or leave their kids behind.. A real man would never leave his kids behind unless if forced by circumstances which are out of his hands such as war, illness or severe poverty.

 

[asveros]

Aboow the red pill gurus say if you grew up without a father there is no hope for you, unless you had and older brother or an uncle that raised you and took active role in your upbringing, any sane men should never go for a women like you. You are will mess up any relationship you get into, and will make any men so miserable he will have to leave.

Theres some truth to this. But this isn't just limited to RP, many guys also notice women that grow up without stable father figures have bad choices in partner and are unstable af, always wanting attention from guys(hence the term daddy issues). The difference between a woman with a good paternal figure and one without is extremely different, shes more confident and outspoken, doesn't need to sleep around to validate herself, good choices in parent due to her father giving her high standards to look up to etc.

People can change, but its rare and happens after years of abusive/failed relationships. Same with guys that have mommy issues, no woman wants a manchild so its hypocritical to call out men that avoid women with no fathers.