No gender mix weddings

[Inquisitive_]

Save your energy for the salafi cult fetichizing after our women. Mixed somali weddings results in more somali marriages and are good opportunity for bachelors to meet with elder supervision

Really ? Your ok with your sisters and mothers on the dancefloors half naked grinding in public for all to see as a means of fostering more marriages ?

Those neo salafist cults prosper because of shameless dayuuths like yourselves willing to sell his own sisters on a whim

It's no wonder why they would rather sell themselves for an Apple then take your 20k spineless beg offer.

 

[esmailxxx]

Really ? Your ok with your sisters and mothers on the dancefloors half naked grinding in public for to see as a means of fostering more marriages ?

This fucking idiot wallah!!hey,have some respect and dont mention mother,no body is using your mother as an example because we show respect
Somalis have traditional dances in weddings,even the old folks use to dance

 

[esmailxxx]

Those neo salafist cults prosper because of shameless dayuuths like yourselves willing to sell his own sisters on a whim

The people selling somali women for an apple meher are fucking salafi,they are the one that marry somali women off to reverts excon jamaicans and gingers,they encourage them to marry outside their people,wtf are you talking about

 

[Mixile]

Really ? Your ok with your sisters and mothers on the dancefloors half naked grinding in public for all to see as a means of fostering more marriages ?

Those neo salafist cults prosper because of shameless dayuuths like yourselves willing to sell his own sisters on a whim

It's no wonder why they would rather sell themselves for an Apple then take your 20k spineless beg offer.

Adigu nin rageed matahid you'd be losing teath if it wasnt the internt

 

[AliUK]

Nope no phones will be allowed once I enter the hall. I've seen girls use this tatic and be succesful so i'll be using this too

All you have to do is make repeated annoucements and have people watching for you as @RICH said

I was joking abaaayo, my sis did the same thing. My sister's friends were snatching phones like gangsters who snatch chains. Then deleting the pictures or videos themselves.

 

[Halimo-2018]

It is new to us influenced by wahhabism,it is arab culture not ours,all the weddings we went to when i was younger they were mixed,its also a good way for young people to meet each other to have future weddings

Its their wedding but maybe they didnt want it that way,maybe its a trend now with somalis,i know a couple that wanted a mixed wedding but people were against it

Your wedding inshallah will be the way you both want it,

maybe you confused. first wahab is one of Allah's beautiufl names and not an insult or something worth to ridicule someone else. somalis did not use to practice religion as well as they do now. when i look at old pics all i see if women walking around with their hari out while earing shorter dresses. There afe many ways to meet someone other than at a weddings plus how someone looks shouldnt be the main factor to choose a met anyway.peace out

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

Weddings are absolutely lame imo.

 

[Nasiib Gaashaan Cade]

Oh you wanna make make the wedding like a hostel of gays and lesbians in a separate rooms?
Nacalaaye we are geeljires not sand

 

[sheikh al islam]

Religious Somalis are probably realizing that mixed wedding are HARAM due to internet alahmdullah alot of people are learning the deen.

The prophet saw said All of my ummah will be forgiven except those who sin openly.

 

[zeinap83]

Looolll those people who try to shukaansi at weddings yall are brave. How are you chatting up a guy in front of your hooyo and habaryars? Thats sooo uncomfortable.

Anyways weddings are headaches regardless mixed or not. Theyre shit shows and are a time for xaan to run rampant. Mixed or not should be based on personal preference and how religious the person is. The seperated ones are lame af and the mixed ones would be fine imo if people werent so degenerate and didnt play degenerate music and danced inappropriately. Our generation tends to sexualize everything and cant dance without it being overly sexual. Its actually pathetic can we dance without acting like yall are in a club nacalla your hooyos in the back ffs.

 

[Rorschach]

Mixed weddings is something the Somali 'bourgeoisie' picked from the colonists/westerners.

As if our grandparents would dance hand-in-hand in a mixed wedding over some Afrobeats

 

[esmailxxx]

You people seem to think mixed wedding are full saqachan

Afrobeats

afrobeats uffff

Did you read what i wrote,somali songs and dance like dhanto,there is no ass shaking in our culture,somali songs to promote our culture
Mixed wedding have always been there in somalia,non mixed is new

 

[Rorschach]

This fucking idiot wallah!!hey,have some respect and dont mention mother,no body is using your mother as an example because we show respect
Somalis have traditional dances in weddings,even the old folks use to dance

This nigga...

Seeing other people's mothers and sisters in baatis/diracs (see-through) is exactly what a mixed wedding entails. Why peddle this shit if it triggers you? Cajaaib.

 

[esmailxxx]

This nigga...

Seeing other people's mothers and sisters in baatis/diracs (see-through) is exactly what a mixed wedding entails. Why peddle this shit if it triggers you? Cajaaib.

Would any of us except our female to wear see through dirac?
My biggest point is that young somali get to met in weddings find future husband,nothing saqajaan like zina or ass shaking,people complain here that somalis marry out alot,maybe its because young people dont have a place they can meet
In weddings the parents are there,somali songs and dances help us get in touch with our culture
You misunderstood sxb

 

[Rorschach]

You people seem to think mixed wedding are full saqachan

afrobeats uffff

Did you read what i wrote,somali songs and dance like dhanto,there is no ass shaking in our culture,somali songs to promote our culture
Mixed wedding have always been there in somalia,non mixed is new

There is a way for both families to enjoy each other's presence in a celeberation in a respectable dignified manner. This 'mixed-wedding' tag I translate to something totally different.

I remember going to one of these 'mixed-weddings' more than a decade ago - it crudely walked the line of awkwardness and supreme degeneracy. Mothers who were at yesterdays muxaadaro, draped in peacock-coloured see-through clothing, side-eyeing the gazelles dancing (more like stumbling) to Usher - Yeah.

Sexual tension and faux respectability from across the hall where the young men huddle to snatch a glimpse of a side-boob/ass from (usually) respectable girls who've dressed as harem-s for the occasion.

I wanted to burn the hall down.

 

[Rorschach]

Would any of us except our female to wear see through dirac?
My biggest point is that young somali get to met in weddings find future husband,nothing saqajaan like zina or ass shaking,people complain here that somalis marry out alot,maybe its because young people dont have a place they can meet
In weddings the parents are there,somali songs and dances help us get in touch with our culture
You misunderstood sxb

Inadheer, there are many things plaguing the Somali peoples - this I would say is near the bottom. We Somalis are attracted towards the extreme, so a mixed-weddings translates to a grotesque mixture of wedding//lounge/prom/party, whereas a religious one is almost similar to a janaaza in its solemnity. I get it, it's frustrating.

But rather call towards the less harmful extreme - even it is boring. Until we as a people learn what the concept of a 'middle ground' is anyways.

 

[esmailxxx]

irst wahab is one of Allah's beautiufl names and not an insult or something worth to ridicule someone else

I didnt mean the meaning of the word or what stands for,i meant the wahabbism movement which only exist around 90 years,

somalis did not use to practice religion as well as they do now.

what???? How would you know,what stupid thing to say,how old are you to judge our ancestors like that

when i look at old pics all i see if women walking around with their hari out while earing shorter dresses

those people were the middle class or elite people of somalia when our political system was socialism/communist system which was kind of anti religion i hated that period too

how someone looks shouldnt be the main factor to choose a met anyway.

thats not realistic but sure

 

[esmailxxx]

There is a way for both families to enjoy each other's presence in a celeberation in a respectable dignified manner. This 'mixed-wedding' tag I translate to something totally different.

I remember going to one of these 'mixed-weddings' more than a decade ago - it crudely walked the line of awkwardness and supreme degeneracy. Mothers who were at yesterdays muxaadaro, draped in peacock-coloured see-through clothing, side-eyeing the gazelles dancing (more like stumbling) to Usher - Yeah.

Sexual tension and faux respectability from across the hall where the young men huddle to snatch a glimpse of a side-boob/ass from (usually) respectable girls who've dressed as harem-s for the occasion.

I wanted to burn the hall down.

Thats the problem we had different experience the ones i went were not like that laxawla

 

[Ugbaad Geel]

Better to have a seperate wedding, your going get the blessings of close friends and family during the nikah anyway.

The wedding night isnt all that important. (Is more a night for

 

[Halimo-2018]

Weddings are absolutely lame imo.

I agree with you. everyone is there for themselves i mean selfies