I don't know. We never really know what happens behind closed doors. For all we know she could be mentally damaged and her self esteem in shatters because of all the years he has inflicted abuse and disrespect. I don't think people know how truly insidious abusive men are. Or she could genuinely fear him and believes in the revenge he will dish out if she leaves.
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I don't know. We never really know what happens behind closed doors. For all we know she could be mentally damaged and her self esteem in shatters because of all the years he has inflicted abuse and disrespect. I don't think people know how truly insidious abusive men are. Or she could genuinely fear him and believes in the revenge he will dish out if she leaves.
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Like paying for everything and let her keep all her money while you also help her with the house chores
As I said don't worry I'm stuck in the Scandinavian snow
But if you sponsored me though. We gonna melt the poles
Smooth talker. Lady hopper. Trying to kill two birds with one stone. Melting poles for sharci goals. I heard the same words uttered to another mod. So you won't get a golden ticket abroad.
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Just cause I pay for everything that don't mean im a pushover its my responsibility to provide if my parents or relative need money I dont need to look with my wife because we arent splitting the billsLike paying for everything and let her keep all her money while you also help her with the house chores
Secondly im not helping my wife with house chores cause I dont expect her to clean the house by herself since we both live in it we both do it because its our home
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Don't be xasid.. I'm allowed up to four
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Lets say you pay for everything and you both work full time and she's making the same as you but after some years she kicks you out after an argument she has a big saving and you have zero, how will you manage to survive?
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Men will save themselves a lot of trouble if they know what to look for in a woman.
If a woman got 3 things: Peaceful energy, common sense and agreeableness(when you guys seem to just make sense to eachother). She's a solid candidate.
Everything else can be built from that foundation
To attract such a woman, you also need to have those three things and also being comfortable in who you are aka stop fronting.
Our problem as men is that we get blinded by a woman's look and overlook the red flags of that individual.
As men, it's crucial to learn how to read people and develop gut feeling by predicting possible outcomes of personalities and situations.
You do that by looking for information from those who know what they're talking about and real life trial and error.
Be realistic and ditch this whole idealistic 'shoulda woulda coulda' mindset to the bin.
Sometimes a man cant handle a buff ting and it's okey. Too many times we bite what we cant chew.
It's okey to not front on yourself
This is just beyond just dealing with women, it's life in general.
If a woman got 3 things: Peaceful energy, common sense and agreeableness(when you guys seem to just make sense to eachother). She's a solid candidate.
Everything else can be built from that foundation
To attract such a woman, you also need to have those three things and also being comfortable in who you are aka stop fronting.
Our problem as men is that we get blinded by a woman's look and overlook the red flags of that individual.
As men, it's crucial to learn how to read people and develop gut feeling by predicting possible outcomes of personalities and situations.
You do that by looking for information from those who know what they're talking about and real life trial and error.
Be realistic and ditch this whole idealistic 'shoulda woulda coulda' mindset to the bin.
Sometimes a man cant handle a buff ting and it's okey. Too many times we bite what we cant chew.
It's okey to not front on yourself
This is just beyond just dealing with women, it's life in general.
I'm curious. If your wife had a huge savings account or she worked from home (made the same amount as you) but she was a housewife, would you still try and ge her to pay?
“Peaceful energy”, I love this.
Rookie move sxb, make sure you pay the lion's share of the rent if not all of it. I've seen way too many friends, uncles, cousins get kicked out with impunity. I'd rather not be in a relationship at all if it meant I had live at her place, women go apeshit with the powertripping if you're under their roof wallahi.
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Well one person can't pay for everything we have to help each other.
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If you fight with your wife no matter how much you pay for its always the man who has to go sxb.. So better have some savings to fall back on.
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Lool.. Sometimes it's complicated bro.
How are you gonna kick her out if she has your baby
