Need advice how to enjoy my youth

[RoyalNortherner]

Satan is tempting you,

You live in a nice home, nice first world country, you turn the tap on and fresh water magically comes out, you can go to the supermarket and just buy any fruit you wish for, you can exercise, go gym or rock climb, the options are limitless.

I lived in Somalia where none of this was possible. Learn to appreciate the little things in life.

 

[caanoshaah]

Btw what do u mean by “older men only interested in Me BECAUSE I’m young” ofc what else do you expect?
Ur not that special I promise.

Umm it’s weird how ur immediate assumption is that I’m some narcissist that thinks im “special” and needs to be humbled when literally what I’m saying is already humble, im saying these men are only into me for my age not me as a person, how can you read what I’m saying and think I that I’m suggesting I think I’m “special” to the point that you’re trying to remind me I’m not. Im basically already saying what you’re saying damn How about I don’t wanna be pump and dumped and used like a blow up doll?


It’s crazy if I let men use me I’m a hoe but if I don’t want men to use me I think “I’m special” there’s no winning for modern women wow


Like are you trying to now convince me that me having self respect and not wanting to be used is thinking I’m “special” ?

 

[caanoshaah]

Lady @caanoshaah, parody aside, depression, anxiety, and misery are said to squat on a flimsy fell between yester (past) and morrow (future) neither of which are in one's jurisdiction.

As a Muslim, I fret not the yester, for I could not rewind it, worry not too much about the morrow, for I know not as to its goings, and instead focus upon the present, for I can direct it with free will. As in the Hadith: 'Live your life, as if you shall live forever, and your hereafter as if you shall die on the morrow'.
' اعمل لدنياك كأنك تعيش أبداً واعمل لآخرتك كأنك تموت غداً '

Spoiler

You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.

I’m just in uni rn I don’t have a job and it seems impossible to get one rn It’s a damn shame

 

[caanoshaah]

Spoiler

You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.

So many fobs @ Niagara tho Niagara is over

Spoiler

You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

I’m just in uni rn I don’t have a job and it seems impossible to get one rn It’s a damn shame

From your responses, Masha'Allah you come across sharp, witty, and will do well. Have you thought about volunteering for a cause dear to you through which you could form an active social life with people of similar interests?

 

[caanoshaah]

From your responses, Masha'Allah you come across sharp, witty, and will do well. Have you thought about volunteering for a cause dear to you through which you could form an active social life with people of similar interests?

Tbh yes I have but these plans of mine will take quite some time to execute in the meanwhile tho I can join groups at my university also omg tysm by the way I appreciate the kind words 🫶🫶It means a lot to me wallahi

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Tbh yes I have but these plans of mine will take quite some time to execute in the meanwhile tho I can join groups at my university also omg tysm by the way I appreciate the kind words 🫶It means a lot to me wallahi

Not at all. You are on the right track, do stay on course. One small step a day, the summation of which shall lead to a giant step forward on the morrow. Best of luck.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

in the meanwhile tho I can join groups at my university

That is a great idea, definitely do it.
By the way, most universities have a plethora of charity orgs they collaborate on projects and closely work with, at least mine does. See, you have solved your own mystery.

 

[Knaan99]

Umm it’s weird how ur immediate assumption is that I’m some narcissist that thinks im “special” and needs to be humbled when literally what I’m saying is already humble, im saying these men are only into me for my age not me as a person, how can you read what I’m saying and think I that I’m suggesting I think I’m “special” to the point that you’re trying to remind me I’m not. Im basically already saying what you’re saying damn How about I don’t wanna be pump and dumped and used like a blow up doll?


It’s crazy if I let men use me I’m a hoe but if I don’t want men to use me I think “I’m special” there’s no winning for modern women wow


Like are you trying to now convince me that me having self respect and not wanting to be used is thinking I’m “special” ?

Used?? It’s a mutual benefit macaanto.
Joking. Don’t let anyone use u.


Imma in between ass nigga myself. So are my close guy friends.
I promise u, u can have fun without doing drugs(outside nic) or opening ur legs to randos.

Xalimos in MN are either too fast or too prude. But I personally know about 15 in-between niggas.
I feel like It’s much easier to find an in-between guy vs in-between gal tbh.

Regardless tho, u just have to learn how to filter people quick.

 

[boredandtired]

My advice, make sure you have the following by 25:
A job
A degree
A side project that will eventually result in a decent income letting you retire early

 

[NomadicWarlord]

My advice, make sure you have the following by 25:
A job
A degree
A side project that will eventually result in a decent income letting you retire early

Nope by 25 she should be having at least 2 kids plus she should be cooking n cleaning around the house

 

[CABDULWALI XASAN.]

People are starving in Somalia and u talking about your youth days with fish and chips>? Please

You made me spit out my drink litterally.

Seattle was freaking I regret moving to deadsota.
Waste 2 years (2022-2023) so far.
Going to Cali next month. Not trynna waste my 2024 .

Btw what do u mean by “older men only interested in Me BECAUSE I’m young” ofc what else do you expect?
Ur not that special I promise.

I’m 25ish and i always go after 21-23. Yea I bit immature but hey they fun
Like habibit u trynna have fun or nah???

And just giving u a heads up, it’s all downhill from here.
I was a FOB back in college and wasted my college experience
Making friends now is like 4x harder. Even maintaining friendship is hard as f

If you dont mind, what is your definition of like doing good and fire emoji? Like partying and having friends or like having money and steps to financial freedom? Hold up wtf, you are a fob arent you.

Since your a student all you can afford is daydream and national parks near. It would truly suck if your in a land locked state. For instance my state has mountain and beaches. When I was in uni on spring break I used to drive to the beach It wasn't far from my house 40 minutes drive. If you really want to adventure what I suggest you to do is get vr glasses bucket of sand and bucket of water and also you'll need a beach chair and place a fan in front of you lol your at the beach

Im confused... how does going to a beach on spring break help and furthermore how did you come to the final conclusion of vr set and a bucket of sand? thats like dystopian stuff right there.

Satan is tempting you,

You live in a nice home, nice first world country, you turn the tap on and fresh water magically comes out, you can go to the supermarket and just buy any fruit you wish for, you can exercise, go gym or rock climb, the options are limitless.

I lived in Somalia where none of this was possible. Learn to appreciate the little things in life.

This is right, we have a lot of good things here in the west and sometimes i forget to appreciate aswell.

I’m just in uni rn I don’t have a job and it seems impossible to get one rn It’s a damn shame

Id suggest you start the process of moving to America, I fully believe that for canada, its over the housing the work. Even though its bad in America, in no where near the canadian level of badness and madness.

Used?? It’s a mutual benefit macaanto.
Joking. Don’t let anyone use u.


Imma in between ass nigga myself. So are my close guy friends.
I promise u, u can have fun without doing drugs(outside nic) or opening ur legs to randos.

Xalimos in MN are either too fast or too prude. But I personally know about 15 in-between niggas.
I feel like It’s much easier to find an in-between guy vs in-between gal tbh.

Regardless tho, u just have to learn how to filter people quick.

You are fcking weird,

My advice, make sure you have the following by 25:
A job
A degree
A side project that will eventually result in a decent income letting you retire early

Good tips for her specific situation, @caanoshaah Can you clarify what are you studying exactly and how far in are you in your college?

Nope by 25 she should be having at least 2 kids plus she should be cooking n cleaning around the house

Yes getting married by 25 is a very important goal that shouldn't be ignored.

 

[Nin123]

I’m in my very early 20s but omfg I feel like I’m getting old I’m almsot having a panic attack. How am I supposed to enjoy my youth in these trying times.

2 years of my life snatched from covid. This contributes to the panic im having rn cuz I’m like wtf 2 years of my youth has been STOLEN?????? So I need to make the most of the rest.. this is my predicament rn

Spoiler

You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.

How am I supposed to have good memories damn this Society is ass there’s not even any good music good tv shows coming out etc etc the whole culture of the west went down the toilet.

PLS GIVE ADVICE WHAT SHOULD I DO TO MAKE THE MOST OF MY YOUTH

Marry now before you get to 25 years old asap. Women age faster especially if they are stressed like you.

 

[caanoshaah]

Nope by 25 she should be having at least 2 kids plus she should be cooking n cleaning around the house

Marry now before you get to 25 years old asap. Women age faster especially if they are stressed like you.

Ngl this lowkey my dream but only for the right man. The prob is the amount of men this is worth doing for is like 1 in a million. And I mean rightfully I have to be extremely picky bc it is a big sacrifice for me to give up my autonomy and risk my life having a man’s kids (pregnancy and labour is extremely hard on the body but the impact is so underestimated smh) Men always complain about how the “quality” of women went down while being sooooo ignorant at how awful the modern man has also become .. p*rn addicted freaks everywhere

that being said there is only one man I know rn (in real life) that I’d be willing to do this for but it’s not feasible smh i ain’t saying no more about thisjust praying I find a nigga like him in the future All imma say is smart and assertive men >>>>>

 

[trucel]

Satan is tempting you,

You live in a nice home, nice first world country, you turn the tap on and fresh water magically comes out, you can go to the supermarket and just buy any fruit you wish for, you can exercise, go gym or rock climb, the options are limitless.

I lived in Somalia where none of this was possible. Learn to appreciate the little things in life.

W post , find contentment in all the blessings you have been given. Gratuitde is the key to being happy , alhamdiulah you woke up alive , you have your health and family.

 

[Ozymandias]

I’m in my very early 20s but omfg I feel like I’m getting old I’m almsot having a panic attack. How am I supposed to enjoy my youth in these trying times.

2 years of my life snatched from covid. This contributes to the panic im having rn cuz I’m like wtf 2 years of my youth has been STOLEN?????? So I need to make the most of the rest.. this is my predicament rn

Spoiler

You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.

How am I supposed to have good memories damn this Society is ass there’s not even any good music good tv shows coming out etc etc the whole culture of the west went down the toilet.

PLS GIVE ADVICE WHAT SHOULD I DO TO MAKE THE MOST OF MY YOUTH

Shit don't matter, enjoy your life now and in your 40s, you don't know when you're going to die

 

[Ozymandias]

Also don't listen to the incels on here, do what you visceral want to do, not what others deem you should want, no one is in your shoes, you're free

 

[caanoshaah]

Also don't listen to the incels on here, do what you visceral want to do, not what others deem you should want, no one is in your shoes, you're free

Omg rightt tysm no offenceee idk why people telling me basically to just “suck it up you’re in a first world country” like okay IDK ABOUT YALL but Canada is on its way to losing that first world status anyway (if it hasn’t already?!?!) and is it so bad I want to enhance my life especially given what’s going on over here ?!?

My post is acc healthy asf and sane I’m recognizing serious issues in my country/environment but I don’t want it to ruin my youth and life as a whole!! And I’m not trying to be a victim I’m trying to see what I can do despite everything to enjoy my youth and my life …

TYSM for the advice and the words

 

[boredandtired]

Nope by 25 she should be having at least 2 kids plus she should be cooking n cleaning around the house

That sounds like a nightmare to me, I prefer being a working women without kids

 

[mrlog]

So many fobs @ Niagara tho Niagara is over

Spoiler

You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.

Spoiler

You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.