My wife has FGM, I'm losing my mind

[Vanguard]

Been married for 2 months now and after the first few nights I realised something was odd. I was having intercourse with a young woman who didn't react to it

What a liar! You wouldn't be able to get it in unless you cut her open.

 

[oday1kenobi]

OP I really feel sorry for your wife.

Instead of cheating on her, why don't you try getting down and eat her up?

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-39077293

Few heterosexual women climaxed through penetrative sex alone, the report said.

The study showed that "of particular importance was incorporating oral sex along with other activities during a sexual encounter".

 

[Friko_Prizm]

Learn about female sexuality and how to arouse a woman sexually before having intercourse. Be gentle.
Your wife and you should go see a reputable doctor, so you have a proper understanding of the degree of FGM she has undergone.
Even if the clitoris has been removed, large part may remain under the surface and be capable of sexual responsiveness.
Orgasm isn't to be- all and end- all of sex.

 

[Dino]

Been married for 2 months now and after the first few nights I realised something was odd. I was having intercourse with a young woman who didn't react to it
At first I charged it to the game and thought this was due to my lack of experience but after awhile I asked her wasup and she told me
We both grew up in the West so I never suspected this. This shit is killing me, the main reason young guys get married is to have halal sex and now I don't even enjoy doing it.

I love my wife, she's beautiful, has an amazing character, cooks, cleans and doesn't give me too much drama but if I knew she had FGM I would never have married her
This thing kills your bed relationship and slowly crawls to everything else. I now catch myself talking to other xalimos on the street and getting their numbers. I'd say I'm now closer to zina than I was before getting married
I'm developping hate for her parents who had this done to her when she was young and avoid going to their house at all cost. FUCKING BACKWARDS SOMALIS, these reer badiyoow parents just fucked up my first marriage
When I first married her I thought "yes I got myself a practising, lightskin, pretty face big booty wife" but now I barely want to get busy in bed with her. That's what FGM does to a relationship.
I thought about divorcing her early on but I didn't want to be that asshole.

I'm gonna be patient but down the line the only option I see is getting myself a 2nd wife.

This post epitomises everything wrong with the dumb somali trucks around in the west. May Allah protect our women from simple minded jahil dogs like this guy

 

[dhegdheer]

Clueless males like the OP immediately jumping to fgm conclusion because he can't figure out which buttons to press

I'm just imagining him heaving over her like a sweaty ox and finishing in 5 seconds meanwhile she's lying there with a straight poker face sex education really should be mandatory before marriage

War nacasyahow go talk to ur wife and figure it out together, she'll most likely tell u if she's had it done. I'm betting she most likey hasn't

communication is key

 

[government]

Clueless males like the OP immediately jumping to fgm conclusion because he can't figure out which buttons to press

I'm just imagining him heaving over her like a sweaty ox and finishing in 5 seconds meanwhile she's lying there with a straight poker face sex education really should be mandatory before marriage

War nacasyahow go talk to ur wife and figure it out together, she'll most likely tell u if she's had it done. I'm betting she most likey hasn't

communication is key

I agree with you these men think that when you have sex with a woman she will lose her mind and scream from the too of her lung. I blame that on and hentia they ruined men's perception on sex

 

[Bohol]

Stimulation is easy, just use your hands to rub her clit before intercourse and watch her get
aroused and wet. However the problem the OP is having is she doesn't have a clit to stimulate
to begin with (FGM type 3). The tongue is the last resort for him.

 

[Hemaal]

Stimulation is easy, just use your hands to rub her clit before intercourse and watch her get
aroused and wet. However the problem the OP is having is she doesn't have a clit to stimulate
to begin with (FGM type 3). The tongue is the last resort for him.

There are types?

 

[Bohol]

@Hemaal Of course, it is listed in the NHS website. In this day and age there is no excuse to be ignorant.

• Type 1 (clitoridectomy) – removing part or all of the clitoris. ( Sunni )
• 
  
• Type 2 (excision) – removing part or all of the clitoris and the inner labia (lips that surround the vagina), with or without removal of the labia majora (larger outer lips).
• Type 3 (infibulation) – narrowing of the vaginal opening by creating a seal, formed by cutting and repositioning the labia. (Fircooni)

http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation/pages/introduction.aspx

 

[Vanguard]

I still think this nigga is lying. If his wife was a victim of fgm, he'd notice straight away.

 

[Tramo]

u make it sound like ur lightskin big booty sex toy is defective and u wanna return it or buy another one. fix up sxb

 

[McLovin]

Female orgasms dont matter :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Bahal]

If the clit ain't intact, start to pack fam



Seriously though, very unfortunate situation all around.

 

[Kay]

You've only been married for two months! Sometimes it takes women longer to start to "react" to intercourse. Be patient with her. Talk to her. See what works. See what doesn't. You can't just use her and throw her away, like she's some kind of toy. I really hope this is a troll post, because I feel so sorry for her. Imagine she must already have problems with insecurity, etc. because of her procedure. Add divorce to that and she's gonna feel even lower. I'm so grateful to my Lord that I didn't have to go through what these poor women who get FGM done go through. It's horrible. I went somewhere once for work and a woman was discussing FGM. It was heartbreaking.

 

[Tramo]

to prevent a woman from being promiscuous, u f*ck her whole shit up to the point where she can't feel a thing other than pain? that's some evil shit walahi, who tf came up with this shit

 

[Bohol]

Female orgasms dont matter :siilaanyolaugh:

It does to me. I want a respond (screams or moaning will do) when I am doing the job otherwise it is like humping a rock. :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Tramo]

It does to me. I want a respond (screams will do) when I am doing the job otherwise it is like humping a rock :siilaanyolaugh:

in other words it's just an ego boost and doesn't really matter

 

[Bohol]

in other words it's just an ego boost and doesn't really matter

Not really it is more like you're making sure she is alive and a human in the sack.

 

[Diomande]

Here i was expecting my fellow skinnies to give me sounds of encouragement instead they're throwing me down the well with no rope

I already mentioned she told me she had FGM done after we married

Only young faraxs living with my ordeal know how i feel

 

[Hemaal]

Here i was expecting my fellow skinnies to give me sounds of encouragement instead they're throwing me down the well with no rope

I already mentioned she told me she had FGM done after we married

Only young faraxs living with my ordeal know how i feel

Pics of her to assess the situation